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Obituary For Oscar James White

Brooklyn, New York

"Our Beloved Oscar James White"

Oscar James White was born in Hampton County, South Carolina, on August 1, 1941 to the late Ossie White Sr., and Verna Lee Ruth Williams. He attended the public schools of both Hampton and Allendale Counties. He graduated from Fairfax Training School, in 1960.

In 1960, the day of graduation, Oscar relocated to Brooklyn, New York. As a child, teenager, and young adult, Oscar attended Bethlehem Baptist Church.

Oscar met the lovely Deloris Lynch and they were joined in Holy Matrimony on June 26, 1965. This beautiful union was blessed with one son, Duane K. White.

Oscar was employed with the United States Postal Office for four years. He later became employed with New York City Transit Authority. After working with New York City Transit Authority for twenty-seven years, he retired in 1997. He also worked with New York City Board of Education and retired in 2003 after thirty-one years of service at Public School 219.

On Friday, April 3, 2020, at Brookdale Hospital, Oscar transitioned from Labor to Reward.

He leaves to cherish fond memories; His loving and devoted wife: Deloris White; of the home; (1) Daughter; LaShawn (Anthony) McLaurin; (3) Sons: Duane (Nicole) White, Tosh Henderson, John (Shelia) Young; (12) Grandchildren: Devin, Amber and Lauren White; Chelsea and Chandler McLaurin; Jahod, Jordan and Jace Henderson; Nathaniel, Jonathan, Tyrone and Daniel Young;(2) Great grandchildren: Nathaniel and Kalel Young; (3) God-sons; Jerome Pinckney, Nigel, and Charles Williams; (3) Brothers: Napoleon (Sherry) Ruth, John (Shirley) Ruth, Ossie White; (6) Sisters; Brenda (Charles) Solomon, Shirley Williams, Mary Brown, Sandy Bowles, Izola Hall and Mary Ellan (Rev. Geddis); (8) Sister-in-laws and (9) Brother-in-laws; (9) God Brothers; Robert McTeer, Ray Mincey, Woodrow Minch, Lanza Henderson, Rodgers Grant, Billy Moore, Robert Curry, James Pinckney and the Late Marion F. (Sonny) Riley Jr.; (6) God Sisters; Lemonia Celine, Katy (Hebert) Jones, Bertie Washington, Lillie Ann Manuels, Elouise Cohen, Elizabeth Priester; Special Cousins; Earlean Smoak, Annette Maddux, Melvin Gordon, and Larry Gordon. A host of uncles, aunts, cousins, nephews, nieces and friends.

Oscar was loved by so many and will be greatly missed!!!

Graveside Services will be held Saturday, April 18th, 12 Noon, at Bethlehem Baptist Church Cemetery, Hampton, South Carolina.

Calling Hours will be held Friday, April 17th, 1:00 P.M. - 6:00 P.M., at M.F. Riley's Memorial Chapel, Fairfax, South Carolina.

***IN LIGHT OF THE COVID-19 PANDEMIC (Coronavirus)*** (no gathering or lingering in large groups). Once you view and sign the registry book, please exit to give others the opportunity to view.

Please keep his beloved family "The White Family" in your prayers as they cope with his passing.

You may email condolences at: mfrileysfuneralhome@yahoo.com

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One of the best that loved and believed in family! I looked forward to Uncle Oscars visits as a child and was honored when he attended all major events to celebrate me as an adult. Thought it was very special that he continued to celebrate me often with my daughter over social media. Taking the time to mail old photos and share old family tales - just being Uncle Oscar. I believe my mother loved him best and know they are celebrating with other family members in Heaven. He will be missed. With Deepest Sympathy, Melissa Gooding-Hayes and Family, Fairfax, Virginia

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I will always remember when uncle will come to Savannah everybody would get together either at Brenda house or Uncle Bobby house it was one of the best times we had, just talking with Uncle Oscar was one of the most important times for me rest easy uncle Ivan & Genea Nelson and Family.

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To our beloved friend and brother in Christ, Oscar you were such a pillar in our lives. Deloris, may you and your family find peace and comfort in God who said he will never leave us or forsake us. Sister in Christ, Deaconess Elizabeth "Lizzie" Priester

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Much Love to Deloris and family. We love you all and my Big Brother (Alias "Peter Rabbit") will surely be missed. We Miss Him Already. From your Brother-Law: John (Shirley) Ruth.

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We pray the love of God enfolds you during your journey through grief. We send you thoughts of comfort. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philemon 4:7 Love, Birdie Mincy-Washington and Lillie Mincy-Manuel

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Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your heart. Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:10 Love, Katie Mincy-Owens

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May memories of Uncle Oscar and the love of family surround you and give you strength in the days ahead. Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you. Hebrews 13:5 Love Always, Lisa Mincy-McTeer

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Lo and Family, Our hearts go out to you on the loss of Oscar. He loved his family, his friends, and enjoyed and loved life to the fullest. He had such a kind, gentle, unselfish and loving spirit. He was a magnet for kids who wanted him to be their uncle or godfather, including my two James and Eric. It will always make us "smile" when we think of E 51st street and all the "smiles" we shared there and over the years. He was a true friend/brother. We will miss him dearly, his pop calls and thinking of you cards. May it bring comfort to you to know: OUR HEARTS ARE ALSO BROKEN. LaVerne and David Moses

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Love you OJ. I remember the days in New York. OJ, you were very close to Lucinder and Buster Bowles, our parents. Their daughters love you and will never forget the role you played in our lives. Go on and take your rest. We love you but God loves you best. Pat, Diane, and Daphne-

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A good heart has stopped beating and a good soul has transitioned. Words may not suffice to express the heartfelt sorrow that I feel for the passing of your loved one Oscar. My tears are flowing also for a great guy. God rest his soul in peace. Oscar was my classmate but also my true friend. I met Oscar in 9th grade and we marched together as we graduated from high school in Fairfax, SC. When we became adults thousands of miles apart at times could not destroy the friendship we shared. Many times he called me his sister.He was an amazing guy who looked for the good in others and always kept in touch. Many times the phone rang and when I answered he simply said, " I'm just checking on you". One of the last conversations we had he reminded me how many years it's been since we graduated from high school and he was going to try to come South in June to celebrate. Oscar is such a great loss. Deloris, may God bless you with the strength to bear the toughest days ahead. I do understand because my husband passed less than three months ago. With much pain I extend my deepest sympathies to you and all of your family. Sincere condolences. Mozelle Simmons Richmond Class of 1960

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"There are no goodbyes for us. Wherever you are, you will always be in our heart" Missing all the conversations we had, the love and the laughter. You were a wonderful person with a big heart. You will truly be missed cousin Oscar. Love always Thomas Rodd & Family (Patricia, James & Patricia Rodd).

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words are inadequate to express my sorrow at the lost of my dear cousin, Oscar. To Deloris and the White family, my deepest sympathy to you as you remember the special qualities of your dear husband, father, grandfather, brother, cousin and friend. I will miss the times we spent together and hearing his "hey Maddux" when he called or saw me. May God grant us peace in the midst of sorrow as only He can. Annette Maddux

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Love knows no boundaries. While Uncle Oscar is no longer physically with us, his spirit is always around us. Our deepest condolences. - Denise, Maroa & Imani

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OJ will be sorely missed by us. Loved to talk with him as we remembered the "good old Days" and people of Hampton County. South Carolina. He also was a great cook, loved his Chivas, the OJays and Dells, would do anything he could for you. Our prayers go out to Deloris and the Rest of the Family! Danny and Ann Brunson, Virginia Beach, VA

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On behalf of Michael Maurice Williams and my family of VA

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To my dear Uncle OJ, Words are not enough to express how I feel. You were that uncle that always shot it to me straight. Your inspiring words that you've shared with me over the years during my troubling times were heartfelt honest and helped keep me on the straight and narrow. You meant so much to so many. You will be forever missed. We love you Uncle Oscar! Rest in Paradise!

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Uncle Oscar was an amazing man. He was giving, caring, and loving. He lived life to the fullest and didn't let grass grow under his feet. He was God's faithful servant and God called him home. I'm very thankful for the time I got to spend with him. I loved hearing about all the placed he'd been and the things he did. My prayers are with his family during this especially difficult time. Love you, Uncle Oscar! Diane Williams

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My heart aches knowing that our time here in this system of things has come to an end . Thank you grandpa for always showing us "rugrats" what true love looks like . Thank you for taking care of us for all these years and showing us how to fight through this crazy thing called life. So many memories have been flooding my mind this past week. How you smiled through everything . Through the ups and downs in life . I've seen you define odds and come out stronger than any of us could've imagine. But even the best fighters become tired sometimes . And that's okay. You fought a long and tough fight ! I find comfort in knowing that you are no longer suffering . No more pain and no more illness. Grandma , Pops, Lauren, and Devin literally can't wait to catch you up on everything I'm paradise , in a time where death will be no more , where pain and suffering will be no more . We're going to make you proud! Love you forever and always gramps ! Love Amber (a.k.a your Ambie Bambi)

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R.I.P MY FAVORITE UNCLE! I WILL TRUELY MISS YOU

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My favorite Uncle Oscar White was an amazing man!!! He lived a full life and meant so much to so many!!! He was very loving, caring and straight forward. I'm extremely grateful that I was able to spend time with him during his last visit to Savannah. Although my heart is heavy, my thoughts and prayes are with my Aunt Delores, cousin Kirby and all extended family. I will miss our conversations, but you'll live on forever in my heart. Rest my dear uncle. Job well done!!! Love Your niece Tammy Ruth and Family.

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Bro. Thank you for being you. I love you mom loved you you were big brother you and Lois were inspirational long life of marrage with a beautiful air about youG5B and peace maker take your rest you fought a good fight will see you one day. Jehovah is with you. Love sis Izola

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Uncle Oscar, was such a selfless person and filled with so much love and care. I remember the last time we visited him, he said, "Next time you must not drive because parking is horrible!" You will be greatly missed, but you leave a legacy of memories with all that knew you. Rest on Uncle Oscar.

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Uncle O.J. or Oscar, He was my Friend, and a great Advisor when I needed direction after my Father's Home Going May He R.I.P and Mom & I were battling with the Lost, how OJ just step in and whatever and whenever you needed him, He was there. We Pray, and Fellowship at the Dinner not to mention those Pig Feet. Wow no one could make it like OJ. RIP my Friend, and Big Brother. We (MOM & C.C.) will miss you much. We are Bless by your Gifts.Thanks for leading . Auntie Dee,& Duane and Family, We are always here for you. Love you with Our Condolences and Prayer.

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UNCLE O!!! THANK YOU for Being The Man you were and the Definition of FAMILY!!! We will miss and love you continuously. Prayers of Strength and Comfort To Aunt Deloris and the Rest of the Family... LOVE YALL!!! Jelani Brunson

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Uncle Oscar White so many things come to mind when I think of you but the one thing that best describes you is Pure genuine love!! You had the greatest love for your family and for life itself. I remember how excited everyone would get at the very mention of you coming to visit us here in Savannah. Whenever you showed up the entire family would cone together. That my love speaks volumes as to who you were as a man. When my daddy ( Napoleon Ruth Sr.) called to inform me of ur final resting he was heartbroken as was I but in the mist of the sad news my words to my daddy were all is well. He has lived a full rewarding and selfish life. We've had the pleasure of having him in our lives and he will continue to be amongst us all as our personal earth Angel! We love u beyond life my dear and the great memories of your time spent here with us only gives us more reason to celebrate your life, love and your commitment to family. May you be the blessing to those whom you reside upon in your final journey. Your memory will 4ever reside in us here on earth! Rest in love and peace uncle until we all meet again! We will have the best Hampton county family reunion!! (((Hugs and + all my ))). Tara Ruth ( niece of the best uncle in the entire ) Savannah Ga.

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My Uncle Oscar was a very kind & caring man. When I wasa little girl I would alwayslook forward to him visiting my Grandma Verna here in Savannah and how exciting it was to see he and his family. Uncle Oscar was for the White, Ruth & Williams family that " Glue " that held them together. He may have resided in NewYork , but his heart was Always on Family. He had a funny sense of humor as well. I know that my dad , Napoleon Ruth misses & will continue to miss his brother & and their long distance phone conversations, but Thank God he can relish those times. May the Lord bring comfort to the family, the comfort that ONLY He can give & the blessed assurance of knowing that Uncle Oscar is resting Peacefully in Heaven. We love you , Uncle Oscar & Family . Family. & loved ones you are in our prayers.. Your neice.. Priscilla & Family

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I remembered when my Uncle Oscar came to live with us to Brooklyn he had the kind of personality that immediately you liked and loved at the same time. You just enjoyed being in his company! He will be truly missed! My deepest condolences to you Aunty, family. Love always Joyce Williams-Lewis Brooklyn, New York 11225

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"It's not the Years in your life that count, it's the Life in your years!." Uncle Oscar was like a Big Brother to me. Not only that, he was a best friend! Never, have I met a person who lived their life to the fullest. A wonderful man who would do Anything for Anyone! Although my heart is full of pain I know he would want me to celebrate the life we shared. So I will keep my faith in God and always remember the good times, the love we had for each other and the Family ~ We Shared! - James F. & Mary Davis-Williams, Dumfries, Virginia.

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Oscar James White

08/01/1941 - 04/03/2020

Obituary For Oscar James White

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