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Obituary For Patricia Ann Wiley Kirksey

Funeral services will be Friday, July 17, 2020 at 11:00 a.m., Oaklawn Memorial Park, 805 Abide Road, Greenville, MS 38701.

Visitation will be Thursday at Westhaven Funeral Home from 4:00 - 6:00 p.m.

Visitation will be Friday at Byas Funeral Home from 9:30 - 10:30 a.m.

Patricia Ann Wiley-Kirksey entered this world on May 5, 1959 to Nelson and Joella Wiley as their youngest daughter. Under the leadership of Reverend H.A. Armstrong at New Mount Zion Baptist Church in Greenville, MS she confessed faith in Christ. Patricia was a product of Greenville Public School District in Greenville, MS. She was a 1977 graduate of Greenville High School where she was a proud member of the Solid Gold Marching Band. She furthered her education at Jackson State University and Mississippi College. In 2000, she received her Associate’s degree in Nursing from Alcorn State University. Patricia was united in holy matrimony to the love of her life, Mario Kirksey, Sr. on July 4, 1985. They were married for thirty-five blissful years that was full of fun and laughter. From this union, they raised two sons; Lamario, Sr., and Tyler Kirksey. Affectionately known as “Pat”, she was chic and always presented herself with the ultimate style and grace. Although small in stature she led with a vivacious, larger than life personality that would illuminate any room she walked in. Pat was a dutiful wife and mother who loved “Mari”, “Lamari”, and Tyler “T.K.” fiercely. She supported her husband in all of his career endeavors and raised her sons with a mother’s love like no other. She was definitely the needle and thread in the fabric makings of her family. She absolutely adored her grandchildren, Laila and Lamario “Deuce”. She wanted the absolute best for them and would accept nothing less. As the youngest sister she loved and admired her older siblings. Education and success were her cornerstones as she not only strived to instill these qualities in her children and grandchildren, but she passed her jewels of knowledge to her nieces and nephews in high regard. Her beautiful personality shined through the colorful conversations she would have with people. Pat was hospitable and never met a stranger that did not leave as a friend. She was a great storyteller, loved to listen to music, and show off her dance moves. To know Pat, was to love Pat. Patricia loved her field of work; which was Nursing. She served as a mentor to many who entered the profession and fulfilled her destiny with purpose and passion. She was a beloved member of the Eliza Pillars Registered Nurses of MS where she once served as the President and President- Elect. In addition, she served as District 2 Membership Chair, Project Chair, and Program Chair. She was also a member of the Progressive Arts and Civic Club of Greenville, MS; where she mentored many young ladies of the community. On Friday, July, 10, 2020, Patricia transitioned from the surly bonds of this world and took her final resting place in God’s bosom. She leaves behind many cherished memories with her devoted husband of thirty-five years, Mario Kirksey, Sr. of Greenville, MS, her loving sons, LaMario (Shayla) Kirksey of Jackson, MS, Tyler Kirksey of Greenville, MS, and Mario Kirksey, Jr. of Tempe, AZ. Her grandchildren Laila and LaMario, Jr., who were her pride and joy. Her siblings; Lula (Neal) Williams of Park Forest, IL, Nelson (Debra) Wiley, Jr. of Raymond, MS, Linda (William) Johnson of Dallas, TX, Sylvester (Deborah) Wiley of Shreveport, LA, Leroy (Barbara) Wiley of Greenville, MS, and Rosa (Roosevelt) Matthews of Greenville, MS. A host of very special nieces and nephews whom she loved and treated as her own children. Brothers-in-law; Vincent (Brenda) Kirksey of Yazoo City, MS and Jason (Kimberly) Kirksey of Stillwater, OK. Throughout life she met many friends that were near and dear to her heart. To name a few, but not all; Phyllis Brooks, Barbara Caldwell, Lisa Moore, Robin Wells, Freda Braboy-Williams, and Janet Whitlow. She was preceded in death by her parents Nelson and Joella Wiley, father and mother-in-law Leon and Alia B. Kirksey, and nieces Valerie Abbey and Leroice Wiley-Davis.

Guest Book

Thank you for extending so much love, and support to our family. We feel incredibly blessed to be surrounded by so many friends, and family during this very sad and stressful time.Your thoughts, prayers, and words of sympathy will always be remembered, The KIRKSEY / Wiley Family

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Our deepest sympathy and condolensces to the Kirksey and Wiley Families. Pat will be greatly missed, her sense of humor and smile is like no other. Expressing our thoughts and prayers from your Carver Circle friends neighbors (the Layton Family). May God wrap his everloving arms around you all and grant you peace. Demetria (Layton) Davis, Brandywine, MD

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The beauty of a life well lived never dies.It continues to embrace and inspire us.May you find comfort in your loving memories. Prayerfully, Brenda Solomon Harris

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The beauty of a life well lived never dies.It continues to embrace and inspire us.May you find comfort in your loving memories.Prayerfully.Brenda Solomon Harris

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My condolences to the Kirksey Family. Praying for your strength and comfort.-Jessica Smith

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With heartfelt sympathy. Praying for the family at this most difficult time. Belinda Allen Rodgers "Class of 77"

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Hi May God bless you all during this time. Your family is in our prayers. We pray you know Thunderboldt love surrounds you. Loretta Willis and Johnetta Tave

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RIH my friend. Praying for strength and peace. Toni Myles & Family

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Condolences to the Wiley & Kirksey Family on the loss of your love one, Patricia. May The Comforter give you peace and substain you during this time. I work for several years with Patricia at MDOT and there was never a dull moment. Her favorite thing she would say to me was "White, you always think your big head is right" and my reply would be "I usually am". Then within a few minutes, we would be laughing and helping each other out on a task. Patricia was a joy to be around and I will miss her. Hilliard & Cynthia White

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My dear friend I'll never forget you, you were there to no avail. I remember being in need of a caregiver for my mom and you with that usual sense of humor and Beautiful smile "Girlfriend I Got You" just know that I'm Forever" grateful. I know you are resting with your mom Ms JoElla Love you girl forever!! Love Joann Newson Norman

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Pat, where do I start? You were a force, so smart, so beautiful, so funny, so loving, so engaging, so caring Literally walking love. I thank God for all the times we spent together and for our friendship. Love and miss you Forever. Rest in the Lord

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My deepest sympathy is extended to Leroy Wiley, the entire Wiley and Kirksey families. Praying that God will give you all strength during this most difficult time.-Atlean Toplin

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My dear friend I'll never forget you, you were there to no avail. I remember being in need of a caregiver for my mom and you with that usual sense of humor and Beautiful smile "Girlfriend I Got You" just know that I'm Forever" grateful. I know you are resting with your mom Ms JoElla Love you girl forever

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Those we love don't go away, they walk beside is every day. Unseen, unheard, but always near, so loved, so missed, so very dear. --------------------- Love and Prayers, Dorothy Smith Nelson and Family

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RIP Prayers for the family. God Bless your Soul in Heaven.

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Pat there is no one on this earth like you!! You were a great friend person and awesome comedianNever a dull moment when you were around!! I love you dearly and appreciate all of our wonderful times together!! Get you some rest and keep keeping us straight!! Love Gwendolyn Williams

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I have nothing but fond memories of my times spent in Pat's presence. She was full of life, love and laughs. This is a big loss for all families and friends, but we know that God knows best. Thanking Him that she is resting with her parents and we thank Him for her time here on earth with us. Comfort and peace to her husband, sons, siblings, nieces and nephews. Rhonda Cooper

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I Was deeply saddened to learn that Pat is no longer with us. She was someone I had come to know well and to love. I spoke with her by phone and my last communication was by text. I offer my thoughts, prayers and well-wishes during this dark time in your life. I extend my deepest sympathies to you and your family. Geneva Curry

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I am deeply saddened, and my heart is heavy! Pat was loved beyond words and will be missed beyond measure! My prayers, condolences, and love are extended to the Kirksey and Wiley family. Patricia Sellers Hampton

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My condolences to the Kirsey and Wiley family. Pat was a real jewel. I will remember you always. Rest in haven my friend. Ouida & Michael Magee Denver, CO

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There will only be one Pat Wiley Kirksey. She was true to family who she adored; especially her college sweetheart and husband Mr Kirksey. She loved being a nurse and was faithful to Eliza Pillar Pat was good friend who could carry a conversation forever and she never met a stranger. Rest well my friend. Love Pat Barber

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Pat Wiley, you were my first friend since before kindergarten. We didn't talk everyday or every month; however, we just picked up the phone and continued where we left off before. Pat you were such a beautiful, funny, caring and hospitable person. I will truly miss you. You were always the life of every gathering...My deepest condolences Kirksey and Wiley families

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It's so heart to say goodbye to yesterday, Pat will always be in my heart, she was one of a kind. My prayers are with the family.Take over Heaven, like you took over Class of 77,we will always keep you in our hearts. Luv you Dorris Singleton

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God has taken another Soldier to join his Kingdom in Heaven. May the soul of Pat Wiley live on. She is just a blessing from class of 77. She will be truly be missed. She always had that GHS class. We will continue to keep her dream aliv. May God continue to bless and keep her family. Rest in paradise my friend

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My heartfelt condolences to the family

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Pat, you were my sweet, jolly, fun, dear friend ! We have shared so many good times together and talked or texted on our phones for hours. I will love you and about you forever. Phyllis Brooks

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You are now our ANGEL... Rest in Love my Friend. I love you and will see you again. Your JSU Classmate Carmen Alexander Calvin

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You are now our Angel. Rest in Love My Friend. I love you and will see you again.

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Sending my condolences to the family, may God give you strength and comfort in your time of sorrow. Grant Marie Cain #Classmate of 1977 RIP Pat

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Sharing in your sorrow with love and friendship. Pat was such a loving and enduring person with a heart of Gold and the life of the party! I'm still waiting for her to call me and say Rose, I know you're not on Facebook, but here is what's going on...(LOL) My Deepest Sympathy and Condolences to the Family. With Love, Rose Jenkins Minor - (Classmate-GHS Class of 1977)

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In this time of bereavement of your wife ,mother, sister, and love one, may you find God's peace, comfort (Jn 14:27),love, strength, and joy (Ne 8:10).The Carpenters, James DeLaris (Collins),Jamila & James II

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My prayers go out to the Wiley and Kirksey Family. Pat was such an outgoing, joyful and loving person. She will surely be missed.. Sending our prayers from the Entire Washington County Sheriff's Department in Greenville, Ms. We love you guys...Angelia Sorrell.....

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With heartfelt condolences at this difficult time! Albert and Sharon Ray

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Lord knows this is so surreal!! You left an everlasting impact on every life you touched. Thanks for the love and memories. Adjust your crown, Queen, you've earned it.

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May Pat rejoice in the presence of the Lord. Catherine and I send our deepest sympathy to you and the family. Praying that God give you all strength during this difficult time. Curtis and Catherine Hunter, Germantown, Maryland.

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Love, sympathy and prayers to the Kirksey and Wiley families Pat was one of my girls. She made sure that I was kept informed

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Sending my deepest heartfelt condolences to your family and loved ones. You will truly be missed. Rest Peacefully until we meet again.

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My condolences to the Kirksey and Wiley family. We were truly what you may call a whole village, just like family. Much love to all and God will be Our Comforter and Guide. Rest on Pat Kirk's, my Sis and friend! The Suber/ McDavis and Williams Family!

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Friends and shoes have a lot in common,The perfect ones are hard to find,but once you do, you can't imagine life without them!Rest in Heaven friend & Cuz !

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To the Kirksey and Wiley families: Pat was a rare jewel. She lit up the room wherever she went. Her beautiful Spirit will live on through her family and everyone she met. The Strong and Davis family sends our deepest condolences and sincere prayers for your peace and comfort in the Lord. Angela Davis-Strong.

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Pat was a beautiful spirit. There was never a dull moment in her presence. She will be missed!! Rest Easy. Prayers for her entire family. Jacquelyne Jackson Benson

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My deepest sympathy is extended to the Wiley and Kirksey families, on the transition, of Pat. May God provide his comfort, peace and strength, to all of you as you travel this journey, of loss. Mrs. Sandra J. Boyd & Family Memphis, TN

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Pat was a rare jewel in these times when it's hard to find real...she was real and she kept it real...Rest Easy My Friend...my deepest condolences and prayers to the family...#GHS77strong

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Sending my Condolences to the Wiley Family

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Sending my Condolences to the Wiley family.. Kimberly Eubanks

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