M.F. Riley's Funeral Home | Fairfax, SC

Obituary For James W. "Jay" Loadholt

Fairfax, SC

~WELL DONE~

"I fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith. Henceforth there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge shall give me..." II Timothy 4:7 - 8

James Willie Loadholt left this life to return to the open arms of his Creator, on Tuesday morning, September 15, 2020.

"Jay" as he was affectionately called was born on September 15, 1935, to the late Queenie Harvin and John Ayers in Hampton County, South Carolina. He was the only child born to Ms. Queenie Harvin.

He was educated in the public -school system of Hampton County.

At any early age of seventeen, Jay relocated to New York City to be with his mother, and he began his work ethics, where he was employed with the New York City Transit where he later retired. He also worked at Axially Policeman 79th Percent in Brooklyn, New York. While living in New York Jay met many friends whom he loved and cared for dearly.

After living in New York for many years, "Jay" returned to Fairfax, South Carolina with his family and reunited with his family church "Greater Cherry Grove Christian Church Discipline Of Christ."

While living in Fairfax, Jay decided to return to work. He worked as a South Carolina Constable, and he was also a Bailiff in Allendale County Court System, including: The Allendale County Magistrate Office. Jay made for certain he kept the order, and looked after prisoners, etc.

Jay was a soft-spoken, hardworking and gentle man who cherished his family and friends. He was a strong man who did not let his illness defined him, in order to survive his life challenges. Jay continued to get up and down doing what he needed to do for himself. No matter what he was going through, he would stay positive, by saying, "Can I Say One Thing."

His parents, grandparents, son: Fredrick Crosby; daughter: Cheryl Greene, Grand-daughter; April Crosby, brother: Thomas Ayers, and Niece: Antoinette Dunaway, will greet him as he enters his new life.

His departure on Tuesday, September 15, 2020 at Allendale County Hospital, Fairfax, South Carolina has left a tremendous void in the lives of his children: Melinda Green, of the home; James Wayne Gardner; Islandton, SC; Trashawn Frails; NY; Edward (Wendy) Dillard; Martinsville, VA; Tricia (Terrance) Jackson; Stafford, VA; Teresa Pennington; Brooklyn, NY; (1) Sister: Betty Castillo; Riverdale, NY; (2) granddaughters reared in the home: Chyna Elmore and Kahryn Bryant; both of Fairfax, SC, (1) daughter-in-law: April Crosby, NY. A host of nieces, nephews, cousins, God-children, other relatives and friends.

"A SERVICE ABOVE SELF"

Remember to keep the Loadholt Family lifted up in prayer.

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Guest Book

My uncle's Jay was soo cool.. he showed me a lot of things.. But the most important thing he showed was as a man, it's not what you do it's how you do it. And Of course, God first and you will do what's right.

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Cousin Jimmy you will truly be missed! You was such a warm hearted and caring person. Always looked out for your girls.I'm blessed for all the memories we shared. May you rest in peace! Love always Sandra Loadholt

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We the members and Clergy of Faith Tabernacle L.D.P.H.C sends our deepest condolences to the Loadholt family. Brother Jay's son Deacon Edward is a faithful member of our church. He is one that don't say much but he would often share a memory about his dad. Deacon Edward "ED" lived his dad and will truly miss him. Brother James 'Jay" came to our church when he would visit his son. Needless to say when meeting him for the first time was like we been knowing him all out lives. He was a kind spirited and gentle hearted man. The family will truly miss him and we will miss his great big smile. Just know that he love you but God loved him even more. He has claimed his wings and now resting in the sweet arms of our Savior Lord Jesus Christ. Lovingly Submitted, Bishop Loretta W Dillard & Congregation Bassett, VA

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Praying for your Strength at this time.

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"Although we were apart in miles, we were together always in heart and spirit" Bonnie & I had the pleasure of living in Brooklyn, NY, during the time Jay lived there as well, he made everything seemed brighter when he was around. We were family. Melinda may fond memories of Jay bring you and your family comfort during this time in your life. We share your sorrow with heartfelt sympathy. Heaven has received a new member. Barbara Gray & Bonnie Washington

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"Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted". Matthew 5:4 Melinda, we the children of the late Marion Washington offer our condolences to you and your family on the passing Jay. May our thoughts and prayers ease you through this challenging time.

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Mr. JAY YOU WILL BE MISSED SIR... I remember growing up walking pass your house I love the way you kept everything so nice and neat from your Yard to your cars. You were a great example to me growing I'm sorry I never got the chance to tell you.

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God please keep this family in strong strength.

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I WILL truly MISS MY Friend Jay known him for over 30 years GOD BLESS AND KEEP THE FAMILY MY Prayers ARE continuously going UP FOR YOU ALL LOVE CANDY

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Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. Allendale County Sheriff Office

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Melinda, I can't imagine what you must be feeling right now, but I want you to know that I'm just a phone call away. When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. No words can describe how sorry I am for your loss. Words fall short of expressing my sorrow for you and the Girls, I'm always there in your hour of need. God Bless. Carl & Catherine L. Russell

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Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

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