Trice Funeral Home, Inc. | Fuquay-Varina, NC

Obituary For Leroy Reshard

Leroy Desheen Reshard, 75, the son of the late Minnie Lee Reshard and Napoleon Rivers, was born in Tallahassee, Florida on March 13, 1945. Leroy fought his prostate cancer steadfastly, but succumbed and slipped away to eternal rest on November 16, 2020 at his home in Fuquay-Varina, North Carolina in the presence of his immediate family.

Leroy, the second eldest of eight children was reared in a loving home. His early education was received in the public schools of Tallahassee, Florida. Upon graduating from Lincoln High School in 1963, he joined the United States Army. During his time in the armed forces, he earned the prestigious Bronze Star Medal, Vietnam Campaign Medal, Vietnam Service Medal and National Defense Service Medal with Device 60. Upon return from Vietnam, he moved to Long Island, New York and worked as an electrician while attending night school at Hofstra University.

On July 1, 1978 he was joined in holy matrimony to Audrey Mae Shockley. This union was blessed with two daughters, Shawna and Phylicia.

Leroy was a very loving, dedicated, and passionate father who had a gift for inspiring and motivating his children to always be the best person they could be.

He worked for over two decades as a top salesperson for 3M Company prior to retiring and working as a motivational speaker, consultant, and entrepreneur. He enjoyed volunteering and serving at-risk youth and dedicated much of his time to Rotary International, where he held various leadership positions over the years, was a Paul Harris Fellow, and served as the President of the Fuquay-Varina Chapter of Rotary International from 2018-2019.

His brother-in-law Dr. John R. Shockley, Jr. and nephew John R. Shockley, III preceded him in death.

He is survived by his loving wife, Audrey Reshard of Fuquay-Varina, North Carolina; two daughters, Shawna Reshard-Harmon (Maurice) of Apex, North Carolina and Phylicia Reshard of Charlotte, North Carolina; seven siblings, James Reshard (Christoria) of Westbury, New York; Connie Reshard of Washington, D.C.; Clinton Reshard (Cynthia) of Tallahassee, Florida; Belinda McClam (James) of Titusville, Florida; Lloyd Reshard (Robin) of Pensacola, Florida; Wilbur Reshard (Larosita) of Pensacola, Florida; and Brenda Jones (Greg) of Tallahassee, Florida; two grandchildren, Maurice, Jr. and Sterling Harmon; and three sister-in-laws Carol Shockley, Zarina Sparling (Steve), and Diane Shockley; many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, Godchildren, other relatives and friends.

His zest for life and friendly smile were known in all the relationships that he developed with the people he met. His love, kindness, and energy for life will be missed by all that knew and loved him. May God grant him His peace.

Viewing: 4:00 -6 :00 pm, Friday, November 20, 2020 at Trice Funeral Home Chapel,, with no more than 10 individuals at any one time.

"Service is private and by invitation only due to Covid-19. The service will be streamed live on YouTube, type in Trice Funeral Home live stream in order to watch the service. MASK are required in order to attend the visitation or funeral service.

Funeral will be held 2:00 pm Saturday, November 21, 2020 at Trice Funeral Home Chapel, 127 N. West Street in Fuquay-Varina, NC 27526.

Due to Covid-19, the family will not be accepting any visitors at this time.

In lieu of flowers the family would like all donations to be made to the American Cancer Society.

Guest Book

From Robbie Crosby-Hunt

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Today I just found out that Leroy went home to be with the Lord. I extend my love and sympathy to Audrey and the family. I visited their home on a few occasions and always found Leroy to be very kind. Audrey, I want you to know that I will keep in touch with you, and hope we will be able to see each other once the pandemic has passed. Love you and family.

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Dear Audrey, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time. We hope you find comfort in the memories you shared with Leroy and, as he said, the best is yet to be. May God provide you with peace and comfort now and in the days ahead. With love, Michael Mahalik and family

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Leroy was the big brother I did not have in more ways than most could imagine. The peace of God is Leroy's. I am here for you. Peace and Blessings, Jamil el-Shair

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I never had the privilege meeting Leory in person but I felt I knew him from Audrey. In her words, I saw them walking side by side, hand in hand, with strong commitment and in unyielding love. Audrey and family, may you always have the loving memories in your heart. Love and hugs. -Yen Kuo

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Audrey and family, Roland and I are so sorry to hear of the passing of LeRoy. He was such a wonderful person. We're keeping you all in our prayers. May God grant you peace during this difficult time. Sincerely, Roland and Yvonne West West Chester, Ohio

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felt honored to help mentor a young man with Leroy 10 years or so ago. During our last conversation, he asked how the young man was doing. He made a lasting impression on his life. May God Bless the soul of this great man! -Bruce Bufford

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I felt honored to help mentor a young man with Leroy 10 years or so ago. During our last conversation, he asked how the young man was doing. He made a lasting impression on his life. May God Bless the soul of this great man!

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It is a joy to9 virtually celebrate the life, love, and legacy of Leroy. I remember the call the day after meeting my Delaware homegirl, Audrey, "Pam, I met the woman I am going to marry." I remain so grateful for his time and investment in Lil' Ronnie over 40 years ago. To God be the glory for his life and his impact on the lives of others. We know when Leroy closed his eyes for the last time, he opened them in the presence of the Lord. He is already embraced by the Shockleys, the Wimberlys, and a host of heavenly believers in Jesus Christ. With gratitude and appreciation, Mike and Pamela Jones

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Our deepest and sincere condolences to the Reshard family. May our Lord comfort you and carry you through this time of sadness to a place of peace. Skeen Family

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Our condolences to the Reshard family. We extend our love and prayers to you for strength and comfort. Mike and Linda Hicks and Family

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While Leroy worked for 3M we were a client of his in the Infianapolis area. We always enjoyed working with him and he was a wonderful gentleman. We send our love to all his family. John and Loretta Head Head Sales

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We met Leroy and his family twenty years ago when we moved into point at Beckett in west Chester Ohio. What an incredible human being. We are sending our love to your family. I know that his legacy lives on. Many blessing to you.

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Climmie and I are deeply saddened by the news of Leroy's passing. The race of life is not won by the swift but by those who endure to the end. May Leroy now receive his crown which is stored for him in Heaven. Be strong family as you whether this storm of life and know that Our Creator and Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ will stand with you closer than a Brother if you will only call upon his name. Deacon Robert & Sis. Climmie DeBrew, Jr.

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Leroy was a part of our family through marriage. My brother Maurice married Leroy's daughter, Shawna, and the rest is history. We were blessed with a few opportunities to spend the holidays together as one big family. Leroy accomplished a lot in his life but his proudest accomplishment was his family. The fond memories and legacy that he leaves behind for his family will last a lifetime. Being a devoted husband and father speaks volumes about his character. Leroy will be sorely missed by his family and friends. Rest In Peace Leroy! Love, Harmon Family

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To Audrey and to Leroy's entire family, please accept my deepest condolences on your loss. I was blessed to have met Leroy when we served together on the Atrium Medical Center Foundation Board in Middletown, Ohio. As so many have already said, Leroy touched so many people through his enduring faith, positive outlook, vibrant personality, and genuine kindness. May God grant you comfort in the days ahead and may Leroy's memory be eternal. - Jim Papakirk (Middletown, Ohio)

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Leroy was one of the first friendly faces we met when we moved into our neighborhood. He saw my husband, Keng out mowing the lawn and immediately walked over in his smiling and welcoming manner. From then on, we became not only neighbors but friends. We will dearly miss Leroy and his smiles and cheerful conversations. Rest in peace dear friend and neighbor; our culdesac will never be the same without you. - Ling and Keng He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away." Revelation 21:4

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I did not have the honor of knowing you, Leroy, however, if you were anything like your Sister Connie, indeed, you were a fine person. May you rest in the Lord Thy God. Diane Hill Vann, Esq.

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Barbara and I offer our sincere condolences to you, we thoroughly enjoyed our friendship as former GA neighbors. We are happy we stayed in touch over the years. We had a fun afternoon at Aaron's house in NC when we were last together. Please do not hesitate to contact us if we can be of assistance to you. Bill

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From the moment I met Mr. Reshard I knew he was a man of strong values, integrity and loving the people around him and building his community. Coming from strong men in my own family I felt an instant bond with him and would soak up some knowledge from him every chance that I was able too. Every interaction with Mr. Reshard always started with a big smile from him, enthusiasm and a lot of "can do". I love being around a person that lives their life through love and laughter and I can truly say that was my experience with Mr. Reshard. From my family to the Reshard family we love you all and our prayers of strength are with you all and we are here for any and all needs of any kind of support. Love Roderick & Kelsey Ellis

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It was our pleasure to know Leroy. I loved talking with him about almost anything, especially about events that were impacting the world. He had a very special view. We send our love and deepest sympathy to Audrey and family. Robert and Janet Moore

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It's many years since I last saw or spoke with Uncle Leroy . However he stayed in close contact with his siblings including my father, James. So, my memories of Uncle Leroy are both direct memories I have of my interactions with him and the relationship of brothers seen through my father's eyes. My earliest memories of Uncle Leroy date back to his bachelor days. He was my dad's cool younger brother. He was easy to smile, laugh and had so much charisma. He had a gift of making you feel special, that he wanted to know how you were and what you've been up to. Through the years my father would keep the family up to date with what was going on with Uncle Leroy especially with major life milestones such as moves around the country, jobs, marriage and his girls. As I grew older and had opportunities to speak with him, Uncle Leroy would have sage advice on whatever was relevant to current life stages at the time. My father was proud of his brother in what he accomplished in life, the family man that he was. As brothers they supported, encouraged each other and shared confidences as brothers do. I mourn for what my father has lost but especially for Aunt Audrey, cousins Shawna and Phylicia, son-in law Maurice and grandchildren Maurice Jr. and Sterling. RIP, Uncle Leroy Angela Reshard-Player

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God bless & comfort the Reshards as they celebrate Leroy's life. Rodney & Tolliny Rankins

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"Memory is the treasury and guardian of all things" - Cicero Long will we remember Leroy and the experiences we shared in the over 50 years we have known him. From happy go lucky bachelors to married men and from miles across the country, we maintained a special bond. I will remember how he loved music, dancing and engaging in great conversation and we will always love and respect the proud Black man he was to his wife, his children, his grandchildren and all he encountered. We feel blessed to have known him. We wish we had more time together. Gerald & Wilma Tootle

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I met Mr. Reshard when I was in high school with his daughter, my good friend Shawna Reshard Harmon. He took me out for breakfast and invited me into his home. He became a major influence in my life. I remember him showing me his amazing music collection of vinyl records, we listened to Donny Hathaway and some jazz artists. I will never forget those moments and certainly the moments when he did the "James Brown" dance. I didn't have too many male role models in my life, but Mr. Reshard was one of the few. His role as a husband and father inspired me. His words of wisdom and encouragement lifted me. His presence was a blessing and God needed him. The family must understand that he is happy and no longer suffering in God's presence and he wants you all to be comforted. God will heal and allow you to move on. He will always be remembered as a great man who impacted many. I love him and his family. Christopher Pendergrass Maryland

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I first met Leroy in March 1976 in Los Angeles, CA. I was a new salesman for 3M and was sent to train under Leroy in sunny Southern California. What a thrill for me and what a great trainer he was. We had so many good memories together at our National Sales meetings that were held all over the country. Over the years we reflected on many good times together at 3M and his subsequent career after 3M. We spoke last just a couple months ago and I had no idea the cancer had continued its spread. My wife was a urology nurse and was hoping for his recovery and continuation of a life well-lived. I look forward to seeing Leroy once again and continuing our remembrances when that day comes. All the best to Audrey and family. You will always be in our prayers. Gary & Laura Smith, Woodbury, MN.

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I never had the pleasure of meeting Leroy Reshard except through his sister Connie. So I will just say that my entire family grieves for your loss. This year has brought so much loss that it's hard to imagine going forward. But I know that you will keep Leroy in your hearts forever and his memory will guide us through the darkness. Best, Valerie, Frank and Isabella Hlavacek.

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As you walk through this time of loss, may you know that the Lord walks with you and He will comfort you. Walter and Beatrice Spencer

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Our thoughts and prayers are with Reshard family as they mourn the death of Leroy. One is never prepared to lose a loved one. However, Leroy's presence will remain in your hearts forever. Leroy has been called home and is in God's hands now. Brenda Walker & Arthur McClearin

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My condolences to Audrey and her family. Leroy and Audrey made such a lovely couple. May God comfort and guide you during this difficult time. RIP Leroy. Victoria Hill

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I had the pleasure of meeting Mr.Reshard last year at Lincoln Heights Elementary School here in Fuquay-Varina, where he and I along with a group of volunteers read with students in the Heroes Read Program.For the short time I knew him I found him to be a very kind individual with great knowledge and wisdom. To his family, may God grant you peace and comfort at this difficult time. Mamie Mckoy Richardson

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I met Mr. Leroy at Lincoln Heights Elementary volunteering with the Heroes Read Program helping encourage young children to be inspired and enjoy reading. He had a gentle, warm spirit and always had a smile on his face. The young children loved reading with him. I felt like every time we spoke I walked away just wanting to spend a little more time with him. The times I spoke with him I could tell he was a man full of wisdom and God's love. I am praying for you Reshard family. - Ryan

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As neighbors in West Chester, Ohio, we shared many meals and neighborhood events. The respect that our neighbors had for him was evident. He was learned, yet warm. Proud, yet a fun loving man who valued and loved his 3 girls- Audrey, Shawna and Phylicia. - Mary LeRoy let his hair down with me. I just remember great talks about life families and our wives and just sprinkle in James Brown, Motown, barbecue, and Mr. Jack Daniels which left us both with some great times. LeRoy I just had some Jack and it was for great times. Your are in the bosom of God and in a much better place. You made a mark on my life. - Al Rest In Peace our friend. - Al and Mary McCurdy

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To the Reshard family, my heart is heavy hearing this news today of a person I respect so much! I am so grateful that our paths crossed because we shared a passion of knowing the importance of utilizing our gifts and passion to help small businesses excel. I shall miss you my friend who I never called Leroy because I have always thought the name "Reshard" was sooooo cool. I celebrate your life my friend along with all those you have touched in so many positive ways. This day of November 16th in my personal life will always be a day that in my family, we welcomed new life in the birth of my granddaughter along with honoring a life well lived in that of you Reshard! How blessed you are Reshard family for the gift of sharing his life. A celebration for sure!!! Your family will remain in my prayers for healing. Please remember to "Take One Day At a Time".- Sincerely, Jenea Norris White

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I'll miss your stories uncle. I love you very much. -Nathalie

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Above is from Tony Apro Lexington, KY

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When I heard this news yesterday I immediately visualize Leroy smiling as he talked about his lovely wife, beautiful daughters, grandchildren and family. He loves you all so dearly and when he and I spoke it was family always first. I then immediately thought of his childhood growing up in a large family in the panhandle of Florida and how he loved epithet events of his formative years. His groundbreaking career at 3M and his passion for helping others. See Leroy and I met over ten years ago and immediately bonded with a respected friendship. I heard stories of his daughter in Med school and his gymnast at the University of KY. Living in Lexington I got to follow her career and frequently talked to Leroy about both of them and his lovely wife. I will miss my friend but will always remember him fondly. His most endearing quality was his smile. He loved his faith, his family and his fellowship. And I for one, am a better person simply for knowing Leroy. Godspeed my friend. You were a gift from God, that's for sure and I'm grateful for knowing you.

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Condolences to the Reshard family We pray for strength comfort and peace during this time of bereavement You are in our thoughts and prayers. From pam mack james reliable sanitation service inc

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