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Obituary For Ferman Alton Dockery

Ferman Alton Dockery,69, of Durham, NC died Sunday, November 22, 2020 at the VA Medical Center, Durham, NC.

His interment service is 2:00 PM, Monday, November 30, 2020 at the Mesic Memorial Cemetery, Mesic, North Carolina.

He is survived by his soulmate, Darnell Dockery; children Teresa Dockery, Maurice Dockery, Marcus Dockery; step-children, Danielle Vann and Arlie Ponds, Jr.; brother, Lacy Dockery; sisters, Debra Dockery and Delcina Attaway.

Guest Book

Ms. Dockery, Mr. Furman, was a patient that I will never forget. He was ALWAYS nice to me and I loved how he would give the office a "run for their money". It was funny to me. That is just one of the wonderful memories I had of him. I also loved how he would always say " ask my wife" amd how he was still "courting" you. Such good memories. Love you, "B" Davis

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Sylvia, Eddie and I enjoyed the times that Furman brought you to Pittsboro to visit us. We will remember his jovial spirit. Losing a loved one is a difficult experience, and each time takes on its own meaning. You have many lasting memories to hold onto. Your nursing classmate at NCA&T, 1968-1972, and your friend over the many years, Marva Mizell Price

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To my dear sister and friend Sylvia, My heart goes out to you and the family at the passing of Furman. The two of you shared a very special relationship. You were indeed Soulmates. My mind goes back to the days when he was courting you. It would be nothing to see him in the clinic talking to you everyday when he was supposed to be driving the bus (smile). Losing a loved one is never easy, but I pray you will be comforted by the knowledge that he truly loved and cared for you until the end. He is at peace now. Let the strength of the love you shared and the precious memories you made give you a peace that surpasses all understanding. I love you and will keep you and the family in prayer. Jacqueline (Jackie) Howell/ Bahama, NC

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Mrs Sylvia, I am deeply saddened by the loss of Mr. Ferman. I will cherish the wonderful stories you shared with me. Please know that I am here if you need anything. Edna Robinson, Durham NC

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Miss Sylvia as I read your text message and broke down. Papa and I had plans after Covid to travel, he had already map out his year and put it on my calendar to be his driver. I send my condolences to the family and friends. I adopted papa and could call him to help calm my nerves whenever I was going through something. It saddens me that I am not able to get that great advice from papa and him making sure I get off the phone laughing because he made a joke. The last conversation I had with papa was him calling me to tell me not to get on my motorcycle pregnant with that baby. I said how you figure that? He told me he had people watching me (lol). I told him he must have been reading my mind because I want to ride so bad, but I know I can't. Papa was the kind of individual who looked out for those who had his best interest at heart. Papa, Ferman A Dockery you will truly be missed. I wasn't able to let you see the baby, but I want you to know she is healthy. The girls, my husband and I miss you and will cherish the day we all sat and had a great conversation at the VA. Love Canda aka Kina and the Family (Charrales, Zaharah, Zanadyia and baby Carmen).

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To my Momma Sylvia and family, I want to express my sympathy for your loss. I pray God's strength and peace will comfort you in the days to come. As we morn the loss of Mr. Furman, we mourn not without our hope in Christ Jesus. With much love, Jerrell and Ebony Jarvis, Charlotte, NC

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The memories of the pleasant times that we had together makes an imprint on our minds and heart. Ferman, your joyful spirit will live with us forever. Sylvia, we are deeply affected by the loss of Ferman, deepest sympathy to you and the Family. Thomas and Delores Brown, Summerville, South Carolina

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The memories of the pleasant times that we had together makes an imprint on our minds and heart. Ferman, your joyful spirit will live with us forever. Sylvia, we are certainly affected by the loss of Ferman, deepest sympathy to you and the Family.

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Darnell and family we send our sincerest condolences during this difficult time of loss. Furman was a man that loved his family and was not hesitant to show you or tell you how much he loved and appreciated you. We had a heartfelt conversation a few months ago that we will be forever grateful for. God is in total control, he knows best. Darnell know we love you and will always be here for you. Delilah and Toria Smith

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Through the years, Richard and I were privileged to be the recipients of Mr. Ferman's generosity. I remember going over to celebrate Danielle's graduation. So much laughter with food and family. Ferman loved to fry fish and tell stories. He would send us money for helping Sylvia through her chemo treatments. It never seemed right for us to accept it. We were just doing what we thought was right. Regardless, Ferman wanted us to have that money. His heart was so big. He lives on through his children and family. We share his families' loss and pray for God to wrap his loving arms around you.

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Sylvia we share in your sadness. Ferman was a "Gentle Gaint.' He couldn't give enough. He couldn't Share enough, He couldn't Love enough. BUT HE DID!!! SYLVIA, YOU HAVE SO MANY WONDERFUL MEMORIES TO KEEP THRU THESE MOMENTS.

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Barbara Watson. cary NC

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Sylvia...so sorry for your loss..I will miss the visits with you to the VA to see Mr.Ferman..he was a very good man..may he rest in peace..always remember how much he cared for you..EFF

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Sylvia, we share in your loss as you know Alton was not only a cousin but a true friend. Ralph Bostic. Candor, NC.

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Darnell Dockery and Family, we are praying God's Strength and His Mercy as you say farewell to one who loved you and you loved so dearly. Praying you will find peace remembering the cherished memories you shared which are your gifts, that will bring you lasting peace, joy and laughter, knowing you will meet again and will be together forever!! &Dr.Samuel & Arimental Moseley

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I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Aleatha,John's Island, South Carolina

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Darnell and children I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Lillian Burley-Guion

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Wishing the Dockery family strength for today and hope for tomorrow. Those we love can never be more than a thought away; for as long as there's a memory, they live on in our hearts! As you grieve the loss of your dear husband, our thoughts and prayers are always with you and your family! Gregory and Gloria Russell Williamsburg, VA

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Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

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