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Obituary For Christopher Parker Bear

Christopher Parker Bear, 42, of River Bend died Sunday, February 7, 2021 at his residence.

His service is 1:00 PM Wednesday February 17, 2021 at Greenleaf Memorial Park 900 River Rd. New Bern.

He is survived by his son, Asher William Parker Bear of London, England; his parents, William C. Bear and Carol R. Bear of the home; one sister, Elizabeth Bear Bryant Mullens.

Guest Book

Though our times with Chris were few, we know the thread that runs throughout the wonderful Bear family and are saddened by what our world has lost but are certain heaven can always use another beautiful soul that can not only cook but catch what he cooks! Our prayers and thoughts are with you now and always. Skip, Geri & Shaylah Bishop

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Though our times with Chris were few, we know the thread that runs throughout the wonderful Bear family and are saddened by what our world has lost but are certain heaven can always use another beautiful soul that can not only cook but catch what he cooks! Our prayers and thoughts are with you now and always.

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This is so very, very sad. The loss of a child is the worst thing imaginable. I wish there were the right words at a time like this but there just aren't. Most Truly, Leslie Frantz

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Oh, Carol and Bill, this is such terribly sad news. My heart is with you.

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Carol and Bill - We were so sorry to hear of Chris' passing. It is tragic to lose a family member, but doubly so to lose a child. Our thoughts are with you. Lois & Joe Weik

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David, Ciaran and I would like send the Bear family our heartfelt condolences. I love the photo of Chris with baby Asher on this page. We knew Chris in London, and that is how he looked when I last saw him, probably in 2011 or 2012. Emily was our flatmate, and Chris joined her in our flat shortly before their wedding. We got to know him, and he and Emily were part of our circle. They even came to our flat to pick up Bob, our dog, to look after him when I went into labour with Ciaran. Chris was so much fun, with a wicked sense of humour and a talent for making decadent and delicious food (these sinful 'butter bomb' mushroom thingies come to mind). Although we hadn't seen him in so long (we moved to a different part of the UK, but I have kept in touch with Emily) we knew of his struggles the last few years and his failing health. I'm so sorry that he had to pass on, but there is peace in his memory and knowing and passing on the memories of who he was, which is more than his illness: a dynamic, foodie, super fun guy who loved his little boy. Condolences, Kristin Leith

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I remember playing with Christopher and Lizzy at the beach and staying with your family at your beach house in Duck, NC. He was happy in the sand and ocean. I hope he has found peace now. We send our love.

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My thoughts and prayers for the entire Bear family in their time of loss. Chris will be missed by all. Tony Aydelotte

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We are so deeply sorry to hear of Chris's passing. He loved so big and with a full heart. We pray that you find comfort in his peace and smiles and laughter in the many wonderful memories you shared together. Our hearts are with the entire family. Sending you lots of love 💕 Whitney and Brian

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For Chris, the man who taught me how to cook a mean pork chop, who sang from 'Phantom' in beautiful rich, warm tones and who loved Asher to bits, you will be remembered with much affection and will always be part of our lives. Rest in peace, dear man. For Asher, Carol, Bill, Lizzie and family, at this time of such great sadness and loss, my love and thoughts are with you. Sally (London)

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Please accept our condolences. Chris was a great guy-straight, honest and full of enthusiasm. We shall miss him. Thinking of you today. Len, Sally, Charlie UK.

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This is a tragedy and sad loss for all of us in Chris' wider family and we send love and comfort to you in this painful time. We treasure the memories of all the good times shared with him - over fine food, adventurous rides and family fun. We'll remember especially his rich cuisine crafted in a cramped kitchen, on a grill in a tiny backyard, or the new spacious kitchen - as well as his famed pulled pork and his baby back ribs sauce. May you cherish these memories too and see his spirit continuing in Asher. Love from Ros and Bill Paterson in New Zealand

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Bill and Carole - so sorry to hear of your sons passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May he rest in peace. Your friends - Mike and Jeannie

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Chris had such a spirit about him. A spirit that impacted. We were deeply sadden to hear the news of his passing. He will be remembered fondly. Our condolences to his family. May the many memories shared bring you peace during this difficult time and may Chris rest in eternal peace. With love, Tom and Diane Kovats

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There are really no words to express our condolences for a life cut too short by a heartbreaking disease. We will forever cherish the joyous relationship that he and Asher shared together; lots of laughter with a twinkle in their eyes and a bit of mischief in their smiles. Rest assured that we will continue to share our stories in the years to come. May you find the strength to get through this time as we send healing prayers your way. Love, Joanna, Simon, Owen, Tobin and Maya

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Over the years, when our children were growing up, many happy English Christmas dinners (with silly jokes and funny hats), spent with the Bear family. Special memories, and also of one time we met Chris in London. Rest in peace and love Christopher. Celia & Jed

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We are so deeply sorry for your heartbreaking loss. We will forever be thankful to have had Chris in our lives and promise to share our memories of him with Asher. Sending lots of love from your Canadian family, Megan, Jeff, Luca and Alex Ross

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So sorry for your family's loss.I will be praying for you to have comfort and strength.May good memories provide you some peace in the days ahead. Charlene Washington

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Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

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