Obituary For Mrs. Shirley Jean Hayes

Shirley Jean Hayes, 79 of Lake View, South Carolina was the daughter of the late Will and Lila Brigman. She was born on July 7, 1938 and quietly departed this life, entering Heaven’s gates on Wednesday, February 7, 2018.

An adoring mother and friend to many, Shirley enjoyed shopping, gardening, spending time with her family and friends, traveling and passing on family fables. She loved beautiful hats and owned an extensive collection of such. Shirley attended Columbus High School, graduating salutatorian of her class. Over the years, she devoted much of her time and energy as a caregiver to family members and special friends.

Shirley had an unwavering faith in God and was an active member of Fork Chapel Missionary Baptist Church. She had a beautiful voice. On Sunday mornings she could be found in her kitchen drinking coffee before church, singing along with her favorite gospel radio station. For many years she served as a Trustee and the Financial Secretary, but she was most proud of serving on the Missionary Board. Her Christian life was as beautiful as the songs that she loved so well, and her influence will forever remain in the lives of all who knew her.

Shirley was preceded in death by her husband, Burnice Hayes and all of fifteen of her brothers and sisters.

Shirley’s beautiful life will forever be cherished in the lives of her family. She is survived by her "four boys" Burnice “Grant” Hayes of Greenville, NC, Derrick (Melissa) Hayes of Fairfax, VA, Corey (Pamela) Hayes of Columbia, SC, Hendrix Hayes of Charlotte, NC; three grand-daughters: Shakoria 'Boot' Hayes of Newberry, SC, Taryn 'Ladybug' Hayes of Richmond, VA, Lauren 'Cupcake' Hayes of Columbia, SC; one great grand-daughter: Kaylee 'Butterball' of Newberry, SC and a host of very special nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends.

Guest Book

To The Grieving Family of Ms. Shirley Jean Hayes.... A message of Solace at The Time of Your Lost of a Loved One………… JESUS’ ROLE IN COMFORTING ALL WHO MOURN God intended that Jesus have a key role in providing comfort. Among other tasks that God assigned him, Jesus was “to bind up the brokenhearted” and “comfort all who mourn.” (Isaiah 61:1, 2) As foretold, Jesus took a special interest in people who were “toiling and loaded down.”—Matthew 11:28-30. Today, the Son of God is not present on earth to comfort us personally. But his Father, Jehovah, “the God of all comfort,” continues to help those in need. (2 Corinthians 1:3) Consider four principal means that God uses to comfort people. • The Bible. “All the things that were written beforehand were written for our instruction, so that through our endurance and through the comfort from the Scriptures we might have hope.”—Romans 15:4. • God’s Holy Spirit. Not long after Jesus’ death, the whole Christian congregation entered into a period of peace. Why? “It walked in the fear of Jehovah and in the comfort of the holy spirit.” (Acts 9:31) The holy spirit, God’s active force, is very powerful. God can use it to comfort anyone in any circumstance. • Prayer. “Do not be anxious over anything,” the Bible advises us. Rather, it says, “let your petitions be made known to God; and the peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and your mental powers.”—Philippians 4:6, 7. • Fellow Christians can provide a comforting ‘safety net’ of true friends. The apostle Paul described his companions as “a source of great comfort” in times of “distress and tribulation.”—Colossians 4:11; 1 Thessalonians 3:7. It is my sincere hope that these words/this knowledge helps to sustain you, your family during your Bereavement… Along with your Bible Go to www.jw.org 'Bible' or 'Publications' to answer any bible topic

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Dean Hayes, I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. You spoke so highly of her and know she loved you and Bentley very much. Please let me know if you need anything. Heather Payne

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Corey and family you have our deepest sympathies with the passing of your mother. There is peace because she is no longer suffering in Jesus name! Amen! Lots of love and blessings your Uncle Shane, Aunt Melvenna, E.J.

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Corey, Our deepest condolences for your loss. We pray that you are comforted by loving memories of your mother. Sincerely, Roger & Quine Washington

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Dean Hayes, Your mother was a beautiful person both outside and within! I'm glad you are able to be with your family during this sad time. XOXO Karen Voytecki

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Dean Hayes, I'm so very sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. Although I didn't meet her, she must have been super special based on the amazing-ness of her son! Holding you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Elizabeth Swaggerty

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Dean Hayes, I'm so very sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. Although I didn't meet her, she must have been super special based on the amazing-ness of her son! Holding you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

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With deepest sympathy, Dean Hayes. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Kathy Misulis

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Dean Hayes, Your ECU College of Education family is deeply saddened by the loss of your beloved mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Guili Zhang

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Dean Hayes, condolences and prayers. Elaine Yontz

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Dean Hayes, I am deeply sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family during this time. Her legacy of good will, determination and service to all lives on through you. Sincerely ~ Nicole Moore

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Dean Hayes, Sending prayers and love to you and your family. I am so very sorry. Kristen Cuthrell

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Dean Hayes, please accept my deepest condolences. Praying for Peace and comfort. Julia Lynch

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Dean Hayes, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your mother. My thoughts, condolences and prayers are with you and your family. Lou Sua

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Grant: I know your mom was a very special woman and that her loss is filled with sadness along with celebration of a life of joy and love.5rsm3nh Sending you a cyber hug of comfort and care...Tricia Anderson

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Bernice/Derrick and family, you’re in our prayers at this challenging time. Benny Jones & Family.

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Grant, so very sorry for your loss, a mother's love will never fade cherish your sweet memories. You are in my prayers. Anna Weaver

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Grant, so very sorry for your loss, a mother's love will never fade cherish your sweet memories. You are in my prayers. Anna Weaver

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Dean Hayes, I am so very sorry for the loss of your dear mother. I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts and praying that you find peace during this difficult time. Dionna Manning

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Grant, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. She sounded like a very special lady. I know she will be missed. Paul

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Dean Hayes, You and your family are in our hearts at this difficult time and our prayers and thoughts are with you. Alana Zambone and the Office of Research

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I forgot my name below Elizabeth Hecker

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Dean Hayes, I am so very sorry. You and your family are in my prayers. Scott Gomez

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Dr. Hayes, So sorry for you and your family's loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.

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Dean Hayes, my condolences, thoughts of peace & love, and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Catrina Davis

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Dean Hayes, You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Art Rouse

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Dean Hayes, Your ECU COE family is praying for you and your family at this difficult time. Vivian Covington

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