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Obituary For Rufus L. Hayes

Rufus L. Hayes, Jr., 75, of Stoneville, NC, died August 25, 2021. Public viewing 1:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Wednesday September 1,2021 at Perry Spencer Funeral Home, Madison, NC. A graveside service will be held 12 noon Thursday September 2, 2021, at Sandy Ridge Primitive Baptist Church Cemetery.

On Wednesday, August 25, 2021, God in His Infinite wisdom saw fit to call from labor to reward the soul of Mr. Rufus Leroy Hayes. He was born in Beckley, West Virginia on April 7, 1946 to the late Mr. Levi and Mrs. Gracie Spencer Hayes. Rufus was educated in the Rockingham County Public School System. He was drafted in the US Army in 1969 and served duty in Germany where he was promoted to Sergeant. He received an honorable discharge in 1971. He retired from Hertz Penske Transportation Company after many years of faithful service. He was a Shift Supervisor, Certified Lead Mechanic and Certified Diesel Trainer for over 30 years. His work ethics were impeccable and he obtained many diesel technician certifications and service awards throughout his career. Rufus was a kind and loving man with a gentle spirit who loved his family with a passion and he was an excellent provider for them. He was given the nickname "Man" while he was a young boy back in West VA, because of his self-determination, motivation and will power. It is only befitting that he carried this name because he was loved and respected by all who knew him regardless of age, race or gender. "Superhero", He lived by the words, "I might give out but I will new give up". Everyone looked up to him and his name and reputation superseded him throughout his life. God blessed him to touch the lives of so many people in so many ways. Rufus believed in our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. He was blessed to demonstrate his faith and trust in God on a daily basis as he went through life putting God first and loving and providing for Shirley, Teika and Steven. He was their knight and shining armor and he was Teika and Steven's superhero. He was a provider and caregiver t all who called him Son, a best friend to all who called him Brother and a father to all who called him Uncle. He was a helping hand to all who called him friend. Rufus was a gifted and talented man of many occupations. He not only was a diesel and automobile mechanic but he also was an electrician, plumber and carpenter. God blessed him with many talents and he shared those talents with so many families and friends in their time of need. he was always willing to lend a helping hand and he never boasted or bragged about how and how he helped. His hobbies were gardening, fishing, boating, drag racing, race car driving and building race car engines.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by 3 brothers; Mr. Jim Hayes (Betty), Mr. Paul Hayes (Emma Jane) and Mr. Johnny Hayes, 6 sisters; Mrs. Shirley Brim (June), Mrs. Henrietta Hamlin (Pete), Mrs. Gloria hamlin (Lewis), Ms. Edgenora Hayes, Ms. Faye Hayes and Mrs. Sarah McCoy. One adopted brother, Mr. Wiley Wade, his mother and father-in-law; Mr. & Mrs. John Dalton, 2 brothers-in-law; Mr. Leonard Dalton (Margaret) and Mr. OD Dalton.

Rufus Hayes leaves to cherish his memory: his loving wife of 52 years; Shirley Dalton Hayes of the home, one daughter; Ms. Teika Latoya Hayes of Winston Salem, NC, one grandson; Mr. Steven Ashaad Hayes (Taylor) of Greensboro, NC, two special adopted sons; Mr. Corey Hayes of Eden, NC and Mr. Leonard Hayes (Cynthia) of Stoneville, NC, tow special adopted brothers; Mr. William Waddell of Reidsville, NC and Mr. Michael Hayes (Rhoda) of Wilmington, NC, one brother-in-law; Mr. Harold Dalton (Doris) of Union Hall, VA, 3 sisters-in-law; Mrs. Nannie Martin (Elvin) of Walnut Cove, NC, Mrs. Christeen Gravely (Leon) of Martinsville, VA and Mrs. Faye Staten (Barry) of Browns Summit, NC and a host of special nieces, nephews, other family members and friends.

Guest Book

Condolences to the Hayes family I'm going to miss Mr. Rufus Hayes he and I talked a lot about horsepower and cars different things about life this man was very very intelligent and very,very smart.The times I came through Stoneville I would look for him or either BLUE.Both men I appreciated and respected.R.I.P. Rufus Hayes. Terry and Pamela Martin. Also thank you for your service.

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Rufus is remembered as a very nice person well liked and always with a smile. Knew him from work at Goldston and Penske. We saw him at BoJangles in Mayodan a couple of years ago and had lots of laughs. Know he is missed by many. Doris & Billy Johnson Doris Sink Johnson

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Sincere condolences to family, I would like for you to know that my prayers and thoughts are with you, Continue trusting in HIM . William Watkins jr. ( SQUASH@GMAIL.COM)

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Our prayers are for the Hayes family. May God Bless you with peace and sweet memories. David and Roberta Nickelson

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There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief...and unspeakable love. Rest In Peace Uncle "Man" Jamie ❤️

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There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief...and unspeakable love. Rest In Peace Uncle "Man" Jamie ❤️

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There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief...and unspeakable love. Rest In Peace Uncle "Man" Jamie ❤️

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Sending love and my deepest sympathy to Cousin Shirley Teika and the entire family. Sincerely, Rhonda Kellam Dalton

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Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us every day. Unseen, unheard, but always near; still loved, still missed and very dear. Rest In Peace Uncle "Man"

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I worked with Rufus for several years and thought a lot of him. he was a good friend. James Turner

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I worked with Rufus for several years and thought a lot of him. he was a good friend. James Turner

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"Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal." Please know Mrs.Hayes,Teika,and Steven...The James Family are here for you! Denise, Micha,and Michai.

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Teika, Words will not wipe away your tears and hugs may not ease the pain but hold onto your memories because they will remain with you forever. Keeping you and your family lifted in prayer during this time of sorrow. Jacqueline Payne and your friends at GXO Logistics

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Teika, Words will not wipe away your tears and hugs may not ease the pain but hold onto your memories because they will remain with you forever. Keeping you and your family lifted in prayer during this time of sorrow. Jacqueline Payne and your friends at GXO Logistics

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Sending my Love and Prayers to you Aunt Shirley Teika and Steven . Uncle Rufus will surly be miss. He was a great MAN!

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saiah 41:10,13: Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand ... For I, the LORD your God, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, "Fear not, I am the one who helps you." You all are in thoughts and prayers and in the hands of the Lord. God bless. Sisters Margaret & Yvonne White

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Isaiah 41:10,13: Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand ... For I, the LORD your God, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, "Fear not, I am the one who helps you." You all are in thoughts and prayers and in the hands of the Lord. God bless.

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Rufus L.Hayes(Uncle Man) You will truly be missed. Much Love to the family Love,Joseph and Traci Hamlin, Jr.

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Mr. Rufus (Uncle Man) is what have known him by. He fought a good fight. My condolences goes out to the Hayes family and Jamie. Love Barbara S.

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"When someone is hurting or brokenhearted, the Eternal moves in close and revives him in his pain". Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We pray that the love of God who has no limits cover you Shirley, Teika and Steven in this time of grief. Love, Jesse and Evelyn Martin

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We were so sorry to hear of Rufus's passing. Danny will miss him so much. Danny and Cheryl Williams

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My condolences to the family sorry for your loss praying for the family

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My thoughts an prayers go out to the Hayes family May God be with u all Galet an Dale twins

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Sending lots of love and prayers your way... Love you Shirley, Teika and Steven... Lisa Lowe-Hall and family

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Sending our love and heart felt sympathy to Mother Shirley, Sis.Teika, & Bro. Steven. Prayer Gods spirit will comfort you & give you peace. Love you all, Dominique. Shantrice, & Zion Hylton

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I love you Shirley, Teika, and Steven! Sending much love, and prayers!

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So, sorry this has happened! I love you Shirley, Teika, and Steven! May God bless you all with peace, and comfort!

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May God grant His peace and comfort to the family during this time. Sincerely Ronnie Alverson

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You will be truly missed by all who knew you. Our prayers are with the family. Sincerely Carlton Alverson

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Prayers of condolences to you Aunt Shirley, Teika & Steven. You were Uncle Mans Pride and joy. He will be missed and forever in our hearts. 💗 Love you My Hayes/Spencer family. 🧡 Angie, Mark, CJ & Marie

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Sending our condolences to the Hayes family we are truly sorry for your loss.John ,Carolyn and Carla Hairston

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Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

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