Perry J. Brown Funeral Home | Greensboro, NC

Obituary For James Hayes

James Hayes, Sr. was a kind and dutiful man who loved his family fiercely. He was powerful and gentle, quiet and funny. James passed away on September 30, 2021, at the age of 86. He was Born on August 8, 1935, to Herbert Hayes and Lula Crowder Hayes. James grew up in High Point, North Carolina. James was one of 8 children. James attended public schools in High Point. James attended American University in Ft. Benning, Georgia and Loyola University in New Orleans, Louisiana where he majored in economics. James served in the United States Army for 27 years and earned the rank of Command Sargent Major.

James married the love of his life, Helen (Hill) Hayes December 7, 1958. This union produced five children, James E. Hayes, Jr., Kim B. Hayes, Deena A. Hayes-Greene (John), Carmen L. Hayes and Veronica Hayes. James adored his grandchildren, Claymon Taylor, Matthew A. Bell, Megan E. Hayes-Bell, Bronson Greene, Miles Martin.

James proudly served his country by enlisting in the United States Army. James fought and served in the Dominican Republic and four campaigns in Vietnam. He was wounded twice and received numerous awards including the two Silver Stars for valor, the Legion of Merit and three Purple Heart medals. He leaves to cherish his legacy, his wife, Helen Hayes, his children, grandchildren, brother, Robert Hayes, sister, Anthanette Virginia Hayes Sanchez (José) and a host of nieces, nephews and friends.

A private celebration of life service is planned.

Guest Book

You were such a patient and understanding father to your children and I will never forget how you all made me feel welcome in your home the first year of college at A&T. May your family find solace in each other's love and be comforted that you are definitely resting in splendor with the Lord above. Love to all, Lynn Robinson-Miller

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Words cannot explain how much my dad and his stories he told me of his siblings had on me growing up to become who God guided me to be today. So many negative opportunities in life was offered to me. I didn't accept because God surrounded me with positive men in my life who I didn't want to disappoint. Listening to my dad talk about my uncle James made me want to strive to be the best that I can be. Tony Hayes. I love my family tree

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To my Beloved Brother in Law James, whose loving memories will always brighten and warm my heart. Love and comfort to Helen and all the children from the Lord above. With heart felt sympathy from Katherine Hayes and all the family.

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Dear Family, I agree with all the above and even more than anyone will ever know. My fondest memory was being mistaken for his daughter and was surprised when I thought that I could have passed for his daughter because we favored so much. I was so proud to "look" like my Uncle James and showered him with love, kisses and hugs every chance I'd get. Now I shower that love to his family, my dear auntie and precious cousins and children. Wow! What a wonderful life you had and now you can rest in peace with our Lord and Savior. I love you. I love you. I LOVE YOU! your niece Ladene Hayes-Wiggins

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Uncle James was a man with many accomplishments not only as a solider but as a loving husband, father and grandfather! I have many fond memories of Uncle James that I will cherish always. He was an incredible person that others only dream they could be. May he rest in peace! May you look to God for comfort and strength during this sad time. Alvina Lau and family.

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James, our dear brother. We will miss you and all your familiar ways. Your brightest smile when you always feel the room with laughter. Your desire to help anyone in need having the kindness of heart. Never once bragging over all the honor you achieved from the army you served. Yes, we will never forget our moments with the family reunion. Sadly, to say there will always be an ache in our heart. Lovingly, Virginia and Robert Hayes

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Uncle James was one of the nicest gentleman I ever knew. He was a loving & caring, husband, father, and grandfather. I have so many found memories of him growing up. He knew how to light up a room with his smile, humor and laughter. He was a selfless man who was dedicated to his family. He will be truly missed and the memories of my uncle will live on forever in our hearts. Our heartfelt sympathies & prayers are with your family. May the Lord give you all the peace, comfort & strength you need to get through this difficult time🙏🏽Veronica Smith & family

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Uncle James was a devoted man in so many ways!!! I pray for strength and comfort for the Hayes family ❤️🙏🏾 Michelle Rivers and family

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Much love, blessings and prayers to the Hayes family. I will truly miss Uncle James especially at our family gatherings and reunions. Karon Walls and Family

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Much love, blessings and prayers to the Hayes family. I will truly miss Uncle James especially at our family gatherings and reunions.

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Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

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