Obituary For Mrs. Theresa B. Whitfield "Buddy"

Sunrise ~Theresa “Buddy” Bethea Whitfield was born on Sunday, March 21, 1937 in Dillon County, South Carolina to the late Ella “Dal” and Lee William Bethea.

Sunset ~ On Sunday, December 9, 2018, at the age of 81 and on her late sister, Lee Carolyn’s birthday, she entered into eternal rest at McLeod Hospice House in Florence, South Carolina.

Education/Vocation ~ Theresa graduated from Gordon High School, class of 1955. Then, she moved to Virginia with her aunt and took a few nursing courses. This indicated her passion for taking care of others. Afterwards, she was employed at Dixiana Mills and subsequently, operated her own daycare business. Young people of all ages gravitated toward her warm, maternal spirit.

Church ~ Theresa grew up as a member of St. Stephens United Methodist Church. Many years later, she was baptized at Little Pee Dee State Park.

Family ~ In 1967, Theresa married Kinnie Whitfield. She was a loving, devoted, wife and mother who ensured that all four daughters were prepared for the joys and challenges of life. Buddy, as she was affectionately called, never hesitated to help her family and friends and was a wonderful listener. Many of us came to her for advice. Theresa also had a bold, witty personally and did not hesitate to speak her mind. She enjoyed reading, completing puzzles, and listening to soul and gospel music.

She was preceded in death by her parents; devoted husband: Kinnie Whitfield; her brother: Willie Marshall Bethea and sister: Lee Carolyn Johnson whom she shared a special bond.

Theresa leaves to cherish fond memories ~ two sisters: Mary Jane Ringgold and Bettye McGriff both of Hempstead, NY; four daughters: Kim, Lynn (Geno), Tonya (Keith) and Crystal all of Dillon, SC; seven grandchildren: Kenya, De’Andre’, Kyle, Kenny, Kalia, Kalah and Destini; three great grandchildren: Aubrey, Cameron, Hunter; a beloved pet: Skittles; one special sister: Pat (James) Thomas; one special sister-n-law: Anna Graves; special sons and daughters: Linda Greene, Darreyl Walker, Vivion Williams, Greg Harley, Rev. Anthony Alford, Suzanne McLaurin and Sion Bell; two best friends: Lena Poitier and Hazel Stephens and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, other relatives and friends.

Guest Book

Sorry for your loss, praying for you and your family

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My prayers and condolences are sent to the Whitfield family in the loss of Ms. Theresa. Hold to your memories and always remember JOY cometh in the morning. Peace & Blessings, Vickie Z. Whetstone Suitland, MD (formerly of Dillon)

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Sorry for your loss. As far as I can remember Theresa has been in my life. It is with a heavy heart to say good bye. I will always cherish the fond memories and love. May God Bless The Family. Joyce & Thurman Thompson

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She was Such A sweet person. When my Daugther Died suddenly in an auto accident. She didn't hesitate To Step in and help me. I will Always Love Her For That

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We have shared many beautiful times together, sorry we can’t be with you in this time of your sorry, Love Azalee Glenn and family

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My sincere condolences to Buddy's family. May she rest in perfect paradise. Joe Anne Bethea

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Carolyn and Family: I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. I know your heart is breaking. I pray that you are able to feel the presence of God and his comfort and peace during this valley of your life. Your mother did an amazing job raising you Carolyn - her family is her legacy. We are blessed to have you as part of our work family Carolyn. Know we are all thinking of you and praying for you. Love, Jeannie

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I am sadden to hear of the loss of cousin Theresa (Buddy) as we affectionately called her. Sending my prayers to Kim, Lynn, Tanya, and Crystal during this time. Cousin Buddy was comical and as a matter of fact . You could always leave her home with a good laugh. She will be missed. Family remember the good times. Sincerely with love , Cousin Terrance

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I was very saddened to find out about the passing of Ms. Theresa. I will always remember her kind words when you spoke to her and her sweet spirit. She will certainly be missed! To Kim, Lynn, Tonya, and Crystal: I know you are sad right now, but I hope the sweet memories you have of Ms. Whitfield will bring you some comfort in the days to come. Love, Hattie, Ronnie, and Lucretia

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To The Grieving Family of Ms. Theresa Bethea Whitfield.... A message of Solace at The Time of Your Lost of a Loved One………… Many Wonder: Is There Any Hope for the Dead? WHY THE QUESTION ARISES: We want to live, and we want to enjoy life with those we love. It is only natural that we yearn to see our dead loved ones again. WHAT THE BIBLE TEACHES: Most people who have died will be resurrected. Jesus promised that “those in the memorial tombs will . . . come out.” (John 5:28, 29) In harmony with God’s original purpose, those resurrected as humans will have the opportunity to live on a paradise earth. (Luke 23:43) This promised future includes perfect health and everlasting life for obedient humans. The Bible says: “The righteous will possess the earth, and they will live forever on it.”—Psalm 37:29. Isn’t this wonderful news! To think, our lost loved ones will have an opportunity for ”Eternal Life” on Paradise Earth at this Resurrection. It is my sincere hope that these words/this knowledge helps to sustain you, your family during your Bereavement… See also Job 14:14, 15; Luke 7:11-17; and Acts 24:15. Along with your Bible Go to www.jw.org 'Bible' or 'Publications' to answer any bible topic

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