Brian Oxner Obituary in Durham at American Cremation and Funeral Service

Obituary For Brian Oxner

Brian Oxner, formerly of Memphis but most recently of Durham, NC, passed away unexpectedly at his home on March 13, 2024. Brian was born May 23, 1966 and raised in Memphis, TN, the son of Fred H. and Nancy Oxner. He graduated from St Paul Catholic School, Bishop Byrne High School, and Arkansas College, where he was a proud member of the Tau Kappa Epsilon fraternity. Brian had a career of over 30 years as a Research Scientist and Laboratory Manager at several prestigious hospitals including Methodist Memphis, St Jude Children’s Research Hospital, and Children’s Mercy Hospital in Kansas City. At the time of his death, Brian was employed at GRAIL LLC, an innovative company on the leading edge of cancer detection technology, at its office in the North Carolina Research Triangle.

But his professional accomplishments did not define him. Brian was an Eagle Scout with the legendary Boy Scout Troop 97 out of Whitehaven and returned to the troop as an adult to help lead and develop other young scouts including his son, Asa, who would go on to achieve Eagle Scout with the same troop. He coached his daughter, Micah’s, trap team at St Agnes for several years. He read to the blind at the Memphis Public Library and performed countless acts of anonymous kindness in whatever community he occupied. He was a gifted chef, an avid outdoorsman, and a genuine man of God. Brian will be remembered for the unconditional love that he showed to his family and friends and for leaving the world better than he found it.

Brian was predeceased by his younger brother John, and is survived and mourned by many, including his wife Paulette, his mother Nancy Oxner of Leominster, MA; father and stepmother Fred and Donna Oxner of Memphis, son Asa (Hannah) Latham of Mobile, AL, daughter Micah Oxner (Tucker Comes) of Chicago, sisters Donna (Tony) Lefebvre of Balch Pond, ME; Debbie (Hope) Brooks of Coffeeville, and a stepsister, Renee (Barry) Minatra of Memphis. Brian also leaves many nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends, all of whom will miss him terribly.

Donations in Brian’s loving memory can either be sent to St Jude Children’s Hospital or The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention.

A memorial service will be held at American Cremation & Funeral Service in Durham, North Carolina, on Saturday, March 16, 2024 from 4pm-6pm.

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Jasmine Bobadilla sent Blessings Bouquet for Brian Oxner - March 15, 2024

With deepest sympathy. -Jasmine Bobadilla, GRAIL

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Coertney Scoggin sent Sweet Moments for Brian Oxner - March 15, 2024

Dear Paulette, Micah, and family, We are so sorry for your loss and hope for your comfort in this difficult time. Coertney, Miranda, Nicki, Allie, Hasbrouck, Nick, Sim, Jeff, and Sarah

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Nikki Sun planted 5 trees in memory of Brian Oxner . - March 15, 2024

Brian, your presence will be deeply missed by countless. I am grateful for the kindness you showed, your welcoming nature, and the joy in your smile. Your comforting embrace and wise guidance meant the world to me. Even from afar, you were an exceptional colleague. My sincerest condolences and prayers go out to your family during this time of loss.- Nikki Sun (MPK GRAIL)

Brian was not only a colleague but a beacon of positivity, known for his friendly smile and eagerness to share knowledge, making everyone feel warm and welcome, especially during our memorable visit to GRAIL site at NC. He had a profound love for plants, which was evident in both his workspace and personal life, showcasing his passion and the way he cared for his surroundings. As we remember Brian, his legacy of joy, generosity, and love for life continues to inspire us, leaving a lasting impact in the MSAT teams at GRAIL.

Brian touched so many lives in the very best way. From the stories about growing up in Memphis to riding Harley's, caring for our plants, and planning dinner date night's with Paulette. I'm grateful I got the chance to know him as both a colleague and a friend. Brian's shining personality and kindness will live on in our hearts. Sending love, thoughts, and prayers to Brian's family during this tough time. -Shardae' Holmes, (MSAT) GRAIL

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