Joseph John Wagner Jr. passed away on August 10, 2020, at Duke Hospital. Joe was born in Buffalo NY on November 9, 1943, to Joseph and Marie (Culotta) Wagner. He was the eldest of seven. Joe graduated from Mater Dei High School of Santa Ana, CA. He earned a BA of Arts in Geography from Cal State Long Beach. Joe enlisted in the Army and served during the Vietnam War. He proudly served his country, just like his Dad. Joe continued to serve his community as a postal carrier and then supervisor. After retirement, he and his wife Peg left California for Jackson Mississippi and opened espresso bars in medical centers at Ole Miss, Methodist Rehab, Baptist Hospital, and Café 51. They arrived in Jackson before Starbucks! This was such an event, the local paper wrote a large article about them. He was known as Jackson Joe Java. Several years later, they sold the business and moved to North Carolina to be closer to family.
Joe immediately embraced his new community. Joe participated in many organizations and clubs. He was an active member of Knights of Columbus of Holy Infant Church, having recently earned his 4th degree in December 2019. He was an avid poetry writer and was a member of the Haiku Society. He belonged to the Experimental Aviation Association and was involved with the Epilepsy Association, just to name a few. Joe could be found playing his Garbacello throughout the Research Triangle Area. He was known as “The Man with The Can”. When not in a jam session, Joe could be found helping in his neighbors’ gardens or puttering around Holy Infant’s grounds.
Joe was a friend to everyone.
Joe was predeceased by his parents Joseph Sr. and Marie; his dear son David and his beloved dog Goldie.
Joe leaves behind the love of his life, Peg, cat Kitty Caboose, daughter Andrea, granddaughter Ariana; son Phillip, grandchildren Andrew and Makaylee; step-daughter Kelley Reynolds, step-grandchildren Bryce and Berkeley; step-son Jason Albano (Wendy), step-grandsons Rocco, Wolf, and Jameson. Joe loved to be called “Guppie” by his grandkids. Brother Dennis (Natalie) of Washington, sister Sheila Godinez (Hector) of California, brother Michael of Washington, sister Maria Rogers (Kaycee) of Washington, brother Matthew (Tina) of Colorado, brother Robert (Barbara) of California, and many nieces and nephews whom he loved and was very proud.
The family would like to thank Dr. Rogers, nurse Jennifer Lewis, Dr. Sinha, nurse Hanna 3rd floor DCT who provided outstanding care during Joe’s final days.
Due to the pandemic, services are expected to be held in early 2021.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Knights of Columbus, Council 17125, Rey Ramirez FS Att. Blessed Louis Brisson,1316 Elmset Lane, Durham, NC. 27713
I just now found out that Joe has died. He was a vibrant, happy presence at the High Strung Violin booth at the Festival for the Eno, for several years. I am sorry for his loss. - Lee Raymond
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked for many years with Joe at the North Grand Post Office in Santa Ana, CA.
To Peg, Sincere sympathy. I'm so sorry for your loss. You were blessed to have so many years with the love of your life. Nanette (Cardamenis) Bowman
I met Joe and Peg at UMMC and Methodist Rehab in Jackson, MS. They were so friendly and I loved their story of driving from California, crossing the Mississippi River at Vicksburg, and feeling at home in Mississippi. He was Java Joe in Jackson with his colorful Java shirt. Good man. Nice to see Joe was in the Knights of Columbus. Rest in peace, Java Joe. Don Flood - Jackson
Sending prayers to all the Wagner family~ Mary Kilfoy Coleman
Always a hug or kiss; such a generous heart. He will be missed....Ellie Mayer
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