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Pamela Bell

Passed 12/16/2022

Obituary For Pamela Bell

Pamela Jean Bell, 74 of Durham, NC passed away unexpectedly at home, December 16, 2022. Pam was born in Portsmouth, VA and is preceded in death by her father Paul Cordell of Black Mountain, NC; mother Edna Cordell (Burke) of Lee County, VA; and sister, Diane Goode of Portsmouth, VA. Pam is survived by her husband, Robert Bell of Durham, NC; sister Linda Gervasi (John) of Haymarket, VA; daughter Kelly Bell (Brandie Jones) of Durham, NC; and grandson Tyler Bell of Reston, VA; and brother-in-law, Michael Goode of Charlestown, WVA. Pam is also survived by many nieces and nephews.

Pam was a wonderful wife, mother, daughter, sister, grandmother, aunt, and friend who was loved by so many. She touched so many hearts far and wide, she always wore a smile on her face. She was a loving wife and a loyal caregiver to her husband, Bob, of 56 years. Pam loved and adored her daughter, Kelly, grandson, Tyler, and her grand puppies, Bella and Bryson. Although Pam suffered from severe pain daily, she never complained, she lived her life to the fullest, and loved with a full heart unconditionally. Pam was a bright light in the darkness and would always make you smile, and if you found it difficult to find one, she would wear one for you. Pam was full of spunk and had a vibrant personality. Pam passed away doing what she loved most, sitting in her rocker, drinking coffee, and watching Hallmark Christmas movies. The love, support, and prayers of so many has been a comfort to the family, we are so blessed to have all of you during this difficult time, and we want to say “Thank You” from the bottom of our hearts. We know Pam gained her angel wings and is in heaven shining her bright light down upon us all, smiling that big smile, and enjoying her time drinking coffee and catching up with her mom, dad and sister while letting us know that everything is okay, and she is no longer in pain. A celebration of life for Pam will be held at a later date.


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My deepest sincere condolences to the family. Pam was a Facebook friend who many adored and love. I will miss those mornings greetings. I remember when I lost my grandbady at 2 months she called me and gave me words of comfort and I was so grateful to her. She loved her family and we loved her too. She will surely be missed. Rest in paradise to such a sweet lady

Pam, her sister Diane and I were in the same class at Herndon High. We spent a lot of time together and I knew both her parents from that time. I was a bridesmaid when she married Bob and we remained close friends all these years. There were times she would babysit my son when he was little when I was in a pinch for help and she even went to his school on special days when I could not be there because I was also teaching. Always a considerate, kind, and lovely person who never said a bad word about anyone and never complained, even when she was in back pain for so many years. I will miss her. Sending love to Bob and Kelly. Monika

I meant Pam on Facebook and always enjoyed her morning greetings. I could see the love she had for her family,for life and will miss seeing her uplifting greetings. Prayers to her family while they go through this time of grief.

Many fond memories of Pam from Herndon High school. She was always gracious and a joy to be around. Followed her beautiful daily morning greetings. Her daily posts of love and kindness will be missed by all her FB friends. Kelly, May all your wonderful memories of your Mother give you peace. RIP Pam. Patty Hall

We met Pam through a game we played on face book we went through a similar journey but she would try to raise a smile when i found things in life hard going She had a kind loving heart and the morning greeting was so lovely and our Many chats we offer our Love and Prayers to Bob and Kelly and all her loving family friends and fur babies may you fly high safe with the angels xx

Bobby, I understand the pain and loss you are feeling now and hope your years of precious memories with Pam and the knowledge of her devoted love for you will help lessen that pain! You and Pam were special to both Roger and I and we love the times we were able to be together!! Take care of yourself and know you are in my thoughts and prayers! Love, Janet Teates

Kelly, Your mom will be missed!! She has such a special place in my heart, always offering help, support, friendship and love when you needed it most! Her positive outlook and loving generosity was a bright spot on FB, reading her positive posts daily and admiring her outlook on life in general. I am thinking about you and holding you close during this difficult time!! Love you, Janet Pegg Teates

Bob and Kelly I am so sorry for your loss. Pam was indeed a great friend and will be missed. Prayers for all

My life has been enriched knowing Pam through her Facebook posts. I looked forward to them daily for the last 4 years. I felt like I knew her as a personal friend. I am deeply saddened by her loss but knowing she is no longer in pain and in a better place comforts me. Yet I will always miss her. She was a kind, sweet, beautiful soul and she definitely brightened my days. Pam will forever be in my thoughts. God bless you Pam. I know you are with Him now.

Dear Family and Friends...I met Pamela on Facebook. I'm a FB Friend and would like to send our Sincere Condolences To All Family And Friends.RIP..Not Goodbye...See You Later. Marlene Vorster South Africa

Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

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