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Melvina Ross

Passed 05/06/2023

Obituary For Melvina Ross

On Saturday morning, May 6th 2023, Melvina Wilson Ross, 83 of Shelby, NC moved to her heavenly home. Melvina was a godly woman who loved the Lord, her family, and her church. She set an example of faith, love and worship for her family and community.

Melvina was born in Cleveland County, NC on August 14, 1939 to the late John Columbus and Annie Howell Wilson. She was married for 57 years to the late Robert Ross.


Melvina loved her savior the Lord Jesus and she loved God’s word. Melvina was a powerful prayer warrior, and only heaven knows what a wonderful and eternal impact all her many years of faithfully praying has had on her family, friends and the world at large. She was a mentor to many, known by her unforgettable hugs and kisses. She was a faithful member of Washington Missionary Baptist Church.

Melvina was employed by Modern Ploymers as a Data-Shipping Processor for 18 years.

Melvina believed in christian education and mission ministry of the church. She served as a Sunday School Teacher, choir member, VBS teacher, and led the Women’s Auxiliary Missionary Department in Washington, Ebenezer Missionary Baptist Association, Cleveland County Union and District III Group 1. She also served the Worthy Matron of Love Chapter No.9 of the Eastern Stars.


One of her greatest contributions to the community was helping as a Food Pantry Coordinator along with Rev. Francis Webber, Evelyn Haynes and Fannie Dickerson of Washington Baptist Church Food Ministry which has developed into Washington Outreach Ministry. To this day 15,000 people are served monthly.

She was preceded in death by her late husband, Robert Ross, her son, Melvin Ross, her granddaughter Faith Webber and her brother James Wilson.

Melvina is survived by her children Thomas Ross (LeVonda), Charles Ross (Mary), Audrey Webber (Pastor Charles), Ronald Ross(Brenda), Douglas Ross(Linda), Vincent Ross (LaKita).12 grandchildren, 10 great grandchildren and 4 great great grandchildren. Her siblings Annie Sue Wilson, Robert Wilson ( Shirley), Evelyn ( R.B. deceased), Jersey Wilson(Debra), Bendatra(Danny). Her aunts, Ruby Mackey and Carolyn Wilson , in-laws, Josephine Hunt, Joseph Ross(Jessie), and a host nieces,nephews, cousins and godchildren.

Two of her favorite scriptures which she is known by is:
Galatian 1:5
“To whom be glory for ever and ever and ever. Amen”
Psalms 118:24
“This is the day which the Lord hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it.”

The family would like to extend a special appreciation to her caregivers: Shannon Hush, Andora Ross, Bendetra McDowell, Evelyn Haynes and Peak Resources Shelby.

Funeral services will be held on Friday, May 12, 2023 at 1:30 PM at Washington Missionary Baptist Church. The service will be livestreamed starting at 1:15 PM from Enloe’s Mortuary Facebook Page. The family will receive friends from 1:00 PM until 1:30 PM and from 3:00 PM until 8:00 PM daily at her home. She may be viewed also on Thursday May 11, 2023 from 6:00 PM until 7:00 PM at Enloe Mortuary. Burial will take place at the church cemetery.


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Chaski Courier & Logistics, In sent Serene Lily Basket for Melvina Ross - May 11, 2023

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Dianne A. Brown sent The Peace Lily for Melvina Ross - May 10, 2023

Bishop Dianne Brown and family we are praying for the family Love you all God Bless.

Nora Ramseur Steed sent French Garden for Melvina Ross - May 10, 2023

In loving memories of a beautiful mom, sister, grandmother and most of all a child of God. Praying for the family, Nora Ramseur Steed and family

Barbara Oglesby sent Living Spirit Dishgarden for Melvina Ross - May 10, 2023

In Deepest Sympathy, The Miller Family: Dorothy Miller, Janice (JP) Miller and Barbara Miller-Oglesby

Guiding Grace Bouquet was sent for Melvina Ross - May 08, 2023

"She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future. When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness." Proverbs‬ ‭31‬:‭25‬-‭26‬ ‭NLT‬‬ ‭‭

"She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future. When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness." ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭31‬:‭25‬-‭26‬ ‭NLT‬‬

I truly love this lady. She taught me so much by her words and example.

My prayers and condolences go out to this family. Ms. Melvina was such a wonderful leader for the youth department of EMBA when I was a kid. I loved her spirit and her fervent zeal for God. She will truly be missed.

Acorea Sims- Miamisburg, OH

We are so sorry for your loss. We have so many wonderful memories of Mrs. Melvina. May the Lord keep you safe under his wings as you begin to navigate this new existence without your mother, sister, grandmother, aunt, godmother and friend. Our prayers are with the entire family. The Hargrove Family: Louis, Judy and Javonnia

Our prayers are with the family of Mrs.Melvina.May God sustain you in your hours ,days,and months to come as you walk this journey.God is a very present help. In time of need.Such a wonderful gift she was to our family.We love you all ,and are always here to support you.Mr.James Webber,Roger/Suzette Ross,Ronald/Elizabeth Webber,Eric/Sharon Davis,Barry/Andrea McNeil and families 🙏🏽❤️

To the Family: So sorry for your loss. I know she will definitely be missed. She was such a sweet person. She was always so pleasant and she enjoyed socializing. I never will forget she called me and song for my Birthday which to me was so Precious and Sweet. I will ALWAYS cherish my Birthday song from her and I will keep it so I can remember her by..She may be gone but definitely will not be forgotten. Keeping the family in thoughts and many prayers.

Cherry Davis-Adams and Family

To the family,God is near, may he bless you with peace and grace in this time of sadness. So sorry for your loss. David Pettyjohn

Sorry for your loss, prayers go out to you and your family.

Cynthia Hoyle Stover

Mr.& Mrs. Rufus Douglas Parker sending our condolences to the family. May Going Blessed and keep you all doing the passing of your mother, sister, auntie. and a friend to all!!!

Condolences to the Ross family may her memory live in your hearts forever. May God strengthen, console and give you peace that surpasses all of your understanding In Jesus Name 🙌🏽😜🙇🏽‍♀️

Melvina's love and smile will be everlasting. We loss another pillow from the family and Washington Community. My deepest sympathy and Condelences to the Ross and Wilson families Scottie T. Borders

Miss Melvina is one of my favorite memories of my childhood church. Her sweet spirit was comforting to be around. Dede Howell Jordan

May God be with all of you during your time of grief, our prayers and condolences goes out to all of you, we will always remember our cousin ❤️ you. Melinda Whitworth and Mamie Foster.

Melvina was a godly woman many of times she would give.me some good advice and scriptures to read om truly gone to miss her advice but I will always remember her gone but not forgotten. Mart Dorsey Sims

So sorry to hear of the passing of Mrs. Ross. She was indeed a jewel. May God grant you strength.🙏🏽❤️ Morris & Wanda Cates

Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

Enloe Mortuary | Shelby, NC

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