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Obituary For Ruby Jean Butler
Mrs. Ruby Jean Martin Butler departed this life on May 9, 2026, at the age of 89. She was born on October 7, 1936, in Martinsville, Virginia. Ruby was the beloved daughter of the late Willie Grant Martin and Annie Reynolds-Martin.
She attended Carver High School and dedicated much of her early life caring for the family home and was considered a “second mother” to her siblings. She later served as a devoted homemaker for her husband and children. Ruby found joy in spending time with those she loved and creating lasting memories with her children and grandchildren.
Ruby was united in marriage to Clarence Butler Sr., who affectionately referred to her as “the love of my life”. Over the past 71 years, Ruby and her husband built a life centered around faith, family, and love. She was overwhelmed with excitement that she was blessed to see her 5th generation great-great grandson, Kaysen Page.
Ruby was a faithful member of Gospel Light United Holy Church, where she served as an active Mother of the church. Her faith guided her life, and she was known for her caring heart, warm smile, and unwavering love for her family and community. She was considered a spiritual and life mentor to all that received her wisdom.
Those left to cherish her memory include her loving husband, Clarence Butler Sr. of the home; and two sisters, Jacquelyn Myers and Hildred Moorman; one daughter, Janice Butler-Muse (Michael); one son, Clarence P. Butler Jr.; one adopted son, Johnny Cokley (Phyllis); four grandsons, Andreas Strong, Julius Page, Brandon Page, and Allen Muse; three granddaughters, Jessica Butler, Clarice Butler, and Andrea Muse; and five great-grandsons, Alexander Butler, Brandon D. Page, Justyce Page, Ayden Butler, and Avion Rich; and two great-granddaughters, Jazmyn Page and Jada Page; and one great-great grandson Kaysen Page, all of Martinsville, VA; along with a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, extended family, and dear friends who will forever treasure her memory.
A visitation service will be held on Tuesday, May 19, 2026, at 12 noon with the funeral service at 12:30 p.m. at C.R.V. Memorial Chapel with Elder James Leath, officiating. Interment will follow at Roselawn Burial Park.
The family will receive friends at the residence, 124 Seller St. Martinsville, VA.
Courteous, efficient and dependable services provided by Hairston Funeral Home.
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Sam Alston sent Sweet Moments for Ruby Jean Butler - May 15, 2026
My deepest prayers of sympathy to the Butler family. Remembering a precious neighbor that will be sorely missed. Rest in sweet peace Mrs. Ruby until we all meet again...Margie and family.
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Uncle Clarence, Janice, and Phillip. We send our Condolences and Sympathies to you all. Praying for strength and comfort to you as you go through this difficult time. We Love you All Dearly.
Clarence, Janice, and Philip. I am sending my Condolences and Love to you. My heart is heavy, but I know my Sister walked her journey out to the best of her earthly ability. Rest in Peace now Ruby. I Love You!
Aunt Ruby, a week ago you left with no notice. Shocked, saddened, reflective, loved, grateful, humble, diligent, meticulous, traditional, grounded — cook, baker, mom, auntie — my list is a personal account. I know my list of words. My life. Not just your baby sister oldest boy. Good, bad, and indifferent. Love at the core. Not always understood by the beholder. Bundt to casserole — I swear it was an accident getting him to like a casserole. Nothing "something sweet" could not fix.
Have a half‑eaten Mississippi mud cake waiting for me, and I will know you in any life.
❤U rljj
I'm deeply saddened to learn of the passing of Ruby. I didn't know her as well as I did her father and sisters and brothers. They were very well known in the Park Lane community 👏 Family be encouraged. God will take you through. God loves you and so do we. Norma, Lillie, Joe,Steve,Loretta ( The Gravely family)
Mr. Butler, Janice and Phillip my heartfelt condolences for your loss. Mrs. Butler was near and dear to all our hearts. We were neighbors for so many years and so many memories. Keeping all of you in our prayers.
Sending My Condolences To The Butler Family. You're In My Thoughts & Prayers.
Clarence, Janice and Family, My sincere condolences to you at this very sad time. You're in my thoughts and prayers. May Gods Mercy and Peace be with you. 🙏💗🙏 Love, Betty Draper Day Charlotte, NC
Momma, I really miss you. I never imagined that this would hurt so bad. I am so glad that I don't have to see your pain. I can see your smile and that warms my heart. I feel your presence and love you for always being with me. Loving you and missing you always. Jan
SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF A WONDERFUL LADY,FRIEND, MOTHER,AUNT MAY THE LORD BE WITH YOU ALL AT THIS TIME.
So sorry for the family's loss. With Deepest sympathy, Fannie Smith
Heartfelt condolences to the family from the Cokley's.
Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.
