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Obituary For Mary Wilder
Mary Lee Harrison Wilder was born on March 31, 1950 in Fairfax, South Carolina, the youngest
daughter of the late Isaiah Harrison, Sr., and Albertha Coath. She was a beloved sister, wife,
mother, grandmother, cousin, neighbor, and friend. She received her education from the
Allendale-Fairfax public education system and completed her training and certification in X-Ray
Technology in 1975.
Sis. Wilder was passionate about her work for the church, community, her family, and friends.
At church, she participated in various ministries, which included Sunday School, Vacation Bible
School, Bible Study, the Ushers’ Ministry, and the Hospitality Committee. In the communities
she lived, she served as an X-Ray Technician at Allendale County Hospital. Later, she worked
in Food Services at Barnwell County School District 45. And for 3 years, she supplied meals to
families in her neighborhood for the Summer Feeding Program in Barnwell. She also co-owned
with her husband, Leland, N & M Enterprises. In her spare time, she enjoyed cooking, baking,
gardening, reading, entertaining family and friends, serving at church, traveling, and watching
movies, just to name a few.
Although Sis. Wilder was preceded in death by her parents, husband, the Reverend Dr. Leland
Nathaniel Wilder, brother, Isaiah Harrison, Jr. and sisters Minnie Lee Harrison and Lillie Mae
Henry, she is survived by her two sons, the Reverend Dr. Lerone (Kelli) Jonathan Wilder of
Simpsonville, SC, and the Reverend Dr. Jerone (Jasmine) Nathan Wilder of Spartanburg, SC;
and grandchildren, Douglass Jonathan and Robert Asher of Simpsonville, SC, Jonathan Tyson,
Jeremiah Nathan, Naylie Corrine, and Ian of Spartanburg, SC. She is also survived by six
brothers: George (Maggie) Harrison of Brockton, MA, Isaiah Edward Harrison, Tonnie George
(Francina) Harrison of Virginia Beach, VA, Lyndon Baines (L.B.) Harrison of Washington, D.C, Johnnie Lee (Tina) Harrison of Orangeburg, SC, and Isaiah Joseph Harrison of Tampa, FL. Nine
sisters: Lucille F. Smith of Columbia, SC, Barbara Harrison of Fairfax, SC, Gloria J. Lowe of
Columbia, SC, Queen E. Haddad, Jannsive Lorraine Harrison and Mary Ann (Antoine) Hancock
of Columbia, SC, Pleasant Marie (Vernon) Lane of Upper Marlboro, MD, Merilyn (Leon)
Williams of Walterboro, SC, and Ernie Mae (Lewis) Mitchell of Fairfax, SC. One brother-in-
law, James C. Wilder of Sumter, SC, along with a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, and
godchildren.
Funeral Services will be held on Friday, September 18, 2026 at 11:00 a.m. at Mt. Moriah Baptist Church. Burial will be in the Heritage Memorial Gardens. Livestream will be available at: https://evt.live/mary-wilder
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Dr. Mari Mew and Queen Haddad (lovely sister) Columbia SC sent Heavenly Heights Bouquet for Mary Wilder - September 16, 2026
Honoring the unwavering memory of a devoted mother, Mary Wilder. Your enduring legacy will resonate in our hearts forever. Rest in Peace.
Exquisite Tribute Standing Spray was sent for Mary Wilder - September 08, 2026
From The Hallingquest Family Donald & Diane Hallingquest Carletta & Arnez Hallingquest Thank you for loving all of us.
Rev Lerone Wilder we extend our condolences to you and your brother. You and Mattoon Presbyterian hold a sacred position in our family's hearts, and we are forever grateful for you during our mother's homegoing services. Standing with you in Faith. Leatherwood/Johnson Family (Greenville)
It was a joy to adopt her in my church family as "Mother Mary" as I would call her and she would call me daughter. So loving and kind. My whole heart grieves as well as rejoices for I know her Godly transition to unite with the Father is the reassuring rest we all hope to embrace. My deepest condolences to the family. Ms. Bonita Chester
To the Wilder family: I have been speechless since learning of Sister Mary's passing. And now in the past few days, I have reflected on the loving stories she shared with me some months ago about her husband and also about how she dreamt and prayed to have twins, and of her vow to God to bring them up to preach His Word. Her dreams are now standing tall and firm, men of Godly standards. I gifted her a teacup for her birthday last year, and I wish I had one more day to raise a cup with her in celebration of the loving person she was. Your halo is firmly established Sis Mary, rest in peace. Prayers to the family in your time of sorrow.
Mrs. Lillie Morrow
My sister Mary, my heart is truly broken from your passing. I will miss your phone calls and calling me your sister. You had a heart of gold. And a smile like sunshine. Lawrence and I praying for comfort, peace and comfort to your sons and family. Rest now my sister up in heaven with the love of your life, Pastor Wilder. Love Lawrence and Priscilla Porter
My Condolences in the loss of mom Wilder. God saw that you were tired and gave you rest. I will miss our phone calls, our holiday gatherings, your advice, and all the special moments we shared. You were more than my godmother---you were someone very special in my life. Your love, wisdom, and beautiful memories will always remain in my heart. Though I will miss you dearly, I am grateful for the time God allowed us to share. Rest peacefully Godmother. You will always be loved, always be remembered, and forever be missed. We will continue your legacy of faith, determination, and love. Your words, your wisdom, and the love you gave us will continue to live through us. Take your rest, Godmother. You have fought a good fight and finished your course. We will miss you dearly, but we know this is not goodbye. We will see you again on the other side. Rest peacefully. Your goddaughter Sharion. Your goddaughter.
Jerone and Lerone, there is nothing we can say to ease the pain you are going through. We will miss Aunt Mary and her phone calls. She was truly a gentle soul.
Our most sincere condolences to the Wilder Family. In this time of grief, may you find happiness and joy in remembrance of Mother Wilder. Mr. Darrius Anderson & Family
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My heartfelt condolences go out to the Wilder family. Mary, a kind, gentle woman of faith, touched many lives and will be truly missed. Rest in Peace! Love, Dr. Mari Mew & Family
My deepest condolences to the family during this difficult time. I pray that God's presence grants them comfort and strength. May her treasured memory and love forever inspire and remain alive in our hearts. So many will sincerely miss you. Rest in peace, my beloved sister, in Christ.
It is my honor to acknowledge a Saint in my eyes mama Mary who was brought into my life by Christ Jesus. I will forever miss you. My condolences 🙏🏽 to her son's Jarone & Lerone & her sister's & brother's my deepest sympathy and prayers to all of you.
My sincerest condolences to the Wilder family.
With deepest sympathy to the Wilder family. May God's peace and love surround you all during this devastating loss of such a kind-hearted, thoughtful child of the Lord. She loved her twin sons, her two beautiful DIL's, her adorable grandchildren, and all of her siblings as well. Mother Wilder, I'm going to miss your phone calls to say hello. I pray that God will comfort the entire Wilder family. May the Lord richly bless you as you grieve, and may the light of his presence be a continual source of consolation. Mother Wilder, may you rest in Heavenly peace. 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
Deepest sympathy is extended to the Wilder family. Such a sweet lady❤️🙏🏾
Condolences and prayers to all Ms Mary sweet spirt touched. She brought light to many with her caring heart and sweet sweet spirit.
I remember Mrs Mary...very sweet lady and her husband would notorized papers at her home on farley ave... haven't seen her in a few years..get your rest sweet lady ❤️
My sincere condolences to you and your family for your loss of your beautiful mother.
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Mary,she was a lovely sweet spirited lady,I will truly miss her beautiful smile.she was a child of the king.Prayers for her handsome young men and their family's ❤️
My sister, Mary. I will miss your phone calls. You had the most beautiful spirit. Words can't express my feelings of your passing. Praying comfort, peace and strength to the twins and family. Love the Porter's
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