~~Obituary~~
"I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith Henceforth there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness, which the Lord the righteous judge, shall give me at that day......"
Ms. Selma Denise Flowers was born August 20, 1964, in Hampton County, South Carolina. She was the daughter of the late Levi and Daisy L. Ritter Flowers. On Thursday, September 5, 2019, Selma entered into eternal rest at her home in Allendale, South Carolina.
At an early age, she chose Christ as her savior and joined Huspah Missionary Baptist Church in Hampton, South Carolina. Selma lovingly known as Denise to everyone, was educated in the public schools of Hampton County graduating from Wade Hampton High School, in 1982.
Denise resided in Tampa, Fl., and worked as an Insurance Adjuster until her health declined, and she relocated back to South Carolina until God called her to rest from labor to reward.
Denise was blessed with two sons: Selwin and Markiane Ahmed Flowers whom both preceded her in death.
Denise broutht love and compassion to her family and friends. She was an absolute joy to be around. Denise lived, loved, laughed, and danced to music. Those who knew her knows that she had a genuine heart which allowed her to help and encourage many people. She loved her family dearly; our times with her will be cherished within our hearts for eternity.
In additions, to her parents and sons she is preceded in death by her sister Shirley Flowers Benton along with grandparents, aunts, and uncles.
"But the Comforter which is the Holy Ghost whom the father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever, I have said unto you."
She leaves to cherish fond memories: One brother; Wayne Morris Ritter (Debra), Estill, SC., Six aunts: Shirley Ritter Morrell, Barnwell, SC., Cherolyn Harris, Allendale, SC., Lizzie White, Brunson, SC., Dinar (Joe) Robinson, and Aliece Drayton all of Fairfax, SC.: One sister-in-law: Josephine Ritter, Atlanta, GA.; One grand-aunt: Clairetha Easley, Tampa, Fla.; Three uncles: Newton K. Ritter, York, PA., Nathaniel Ritter, Barnwell, SC., Johnnie L. Ritter, Columbia, SC.: One loving God daughter: Dora Cieria Ritter, Allendale, SC.: One God-son: Micheal Smith, Orangeburg, SC.: A devoted cousin and best friend; Felicia White, along with Tranna Neblett whom was a devoted cousin, friend, and caregiver as well as during Denise's illness. A host of nieces, nephews, loving cousins, and friends.
"A SERVICE ABOVE SELF"
Please remember to keep The Flowers Family lifted up in prayer.
You may email condolences at:mfrileysfuneralhome@yahoo.com
You will be dearly missed by us all.It was such Pleasure working along side you many years ago at Ruth's Wardrobe.Even though we lost contact we always held you dear in our hearts.Our deepest condolences to the Flowers Family
So sad to lose Denise here on earth, but she is now in a much better place. It was indeed an honor to get to know and work with Denise here at HealthPlanOne. We have missed her not being part of our family here in Tampa, but she is always in our hearts. Our prayers and best wishes to her family and friends. God Bless. Rob Evans
Denise has been my friend for so many years, even though we lost contact, there has not been a time she has not been in my thoughts. What we shared, many wouldn't understand. It's amazing that only few weeks ago I pulled out letters that we shared. Now, those memories will be all that I have. Our secrets we shared will now just be my secrets. I will forever miss that smile and that soft gentle voice and soothing laughter that you always had. I could write pages of times we shared but for now I will just say farewell my beautiful friend. I love you but Hod loves you more and He needs you to be a part of His Beautiful Garden. You will never be forgotten! Remember it's our SECRETS ♥️♥️
This was my other mom.. Me and her son grew up together until I lost him.. This is so heartbreaking.. I just cnt imagine i I loved this lady.. From the neighborhood .
To the Flowers Family, Sending love, prayers and our condolences. May our God comfort each of you during the days ahead. Denise will be missed. The Brabham and Badger Family Hampton, SC
Denise. My prayers are with you and your family.. Talia Denise Terry and Anthony will carry you in their heart forever.
Words can't express the sadness i feel of your passing...I must say i am so grateful our spirits cross each other path...I meet Denise/Selma in 2014 working at HPONE together and we became very FOND of each other...Then by her referral we also worked at TRUGREEN in Tampa,Florida and came back to HPONE ...I will forever remember the Wisdom and Faith In GOD we shared in this journey called LIFE also your pleasant Smile:)...She was a STRONG women that ALWAYS handled her business in order and kept it REAL with everyone...May your Beautiful Spirit rest with our Heavenly Father...Prayers & Condolences to the FLOWER family-Love always your friend/Lil Sister Jaquita Lee
Selma,I called her Denise at HPONE, was my co-worker and friend, she was a very kind, friendly and compassionate soul... She made friends with everyone... She always had a smile on her face. I have nothing but kind thoughts of her and will miss her dearly. May God Bless all of her love ones family and friends...May Your soul rest in Peace. We Love you Sister Lisa Taylor
My Mother in faith, I entrust you to God Who created you. May you return to the One Who formed you from the dust of this earth. May Mary, the angels, and all the saints come to meet you as you go forth from this life. May Christ Who was crucified for you bring you freedom and peace. May Christ, the Son of God, Who died for you take you into His kingdom. May Christ, the Good Shepherd, give you a place within His flock. May He forgive your sins and keep you among His people. May you see your Redeemer face to face and enjoy the sight of God forever. Amen.
Love You Selma -Jessica Akinrimisi <3 xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Selma was a co-worker of mine at HPONE and one of the kindest women I knew. She was always available to share a hug and a smile. Her passing has been a huge impact on me and she will be missed tremendously. I know in my heart that she is celebrating her good life on this Earth with the heavenly Angels from Above. When she arrived at the Gates of Heaven, God was stand there with a smile on His face as He shared His eternal embrace with her. My payers for her family go out to you all. -- Richard Peterson
Selma was a sweet and kind colleague, who turned into a very dear friend. She touched the heart of all of us lucky enough to know her. I'll forever miss your laughter and funny ways. May God bless you always as he did us, by bringing you into our lives. Take your rest knowing that you were loved and appreciated. My very sincere condolences to her family.
Selma was my Daughter in Faith and at Health Plan One. We rode the hurricane from Tampa to Fairfax, S. Carolina. She will be truly missed. We formed a family in Tampa of kindred souls based in Christ. Everything is in Divine Order, take your rest. My prayers are with your family. Linda King
Selma was a warm a loving friend and co-worker. Her kind words and gentle spirit will be missed. Praying for the family. Min. Rebecca Watson
Rest In Peace. We will miss you! Our prayers are with you and your family.
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