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Mary Shaw

03/21/1966 - 01/05/2026

Obituary For Mary Shaw

Mary Shaw, 59 of Stokesdale, NC passed Monday, January 5, 2026.

The family will receive friends, Monday, January 12, 2026, from 12:00 p.m. –1:00 p.m. at Oak Springs Missionary Baptist Church 9070 US #158, Stokesdale, NC. The funeral service will begin at 1:00 p.m. with interment following at the church cemetery.

Livestream will be on Perry-Spencer Funeral Home Facebook account

Public viewing will be held on Sunday, January 11, 2026 from 1:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. at Perry Spencer Funeral Home, Madison, NC.

Mary Helen Wilson Shaw, 59, was born to the late Henry A. Wilson and Frances Chandler Lowe Wilson on March 21,1966 in Winston Salem, North Carolina. She entered into eternal peace on Monday, January 5, 2026 at the trellis Supportive Care Center at 101 Hospice Lane, Winston Salem, NC.

Mary Helen graduated in the Class of 1984 from Northwest Senior High School. Mary continued her education and graduated from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill in 1988 with her Bachelor of Science Degree in Nursing. Mary Helen was a devoted Registered Nurse whose life's work was caring for others. She served in a total of 38 years as a healthcare professional, 28 of those years were served at the Guilford County Department of Public Health, dedicating her career to compassion, excellence and service. Mary approached nursing not just as a profession, but as a calling, offering comfort, dignity, and hope to countless patients and families during their mot vulnerable moments. Mary accepted Christ as a child and became an active member of Oak Springs Missionary Baptist Church. She served as the Director of the Health and Wellness Ministry for several years, sang in the Senior Choir and was a member of the Women's Ministry. Mary remained faithful to the Lord and continued to spread the Word of God and the Heart of Christ till she was called home to Glory.

Mary Helen was also preceded in death by her brother, Ronnie Lowe and sister, Cynthia Diane Lowe. She leaves her cherished memory to her husband, Vernon Shaw, Stoneville, NC, daughters, Amber Davis (Jimmy), Eden, NC and Alisha Shaw, Stoneville, NC; God children, Aricka Jackson, Greensboro, NC, Kaya Jackson, Winston Salem, NC, Quentin Jackson, Winston Salem, NC; brothers, Henry Wilson, League City, TX and Al Wilson, Winston Salem, NC; sisters, Flo Grant (Calvin), Winston Salem, NC, Peggy Love (Robert) Stoneville, NC: sisters in love, Mary Hill, Supply, NC, vanessa Benn, Durham, NC, Ann Robinson (Michael), Wilmington, NC, brother in love, Joseph Shaw, Supply, NC; one sweet grandchild, Jimmy β€œJam” Davis, III and a host of loving nieces, nephews, family and friends.

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Tammy Koonce sent Enduring Spirit Pothos Basket for Mary Shaw - January 12, 2026

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I am saddened to hear of the passing of Mrs. Mary. She was sweetest person I have ever worked with! She always carried a warm smile, a genuine hug, and most encouraging words. Guilford County Health Department was definitely a better place to work with her being there. Rest easy, Mrs. Mary!

Michelle Barden Thompson

Mary was such a joy to work with at the Health Department. She truly served and cared about everyone that crossed her path, both patients and coworkers. Mary has left us to be an Angel in Heaven with the Lord and her memory will continue to touch those of us left here on earth. Much love, sympathy, and prayers to Mary's family.

Karen House

Vernon, I was saddened to hear of the passing of your precious wife Mary. Please know that my heart and prayers are with you and your family. Please let me know how I can help. Ceresta Bryant Cedar Grove, NC Greensboro, NC

Ceresta Bryant

I'm truly at a loss for words to hear of your passing Mary! We've been friends since elementary school and I've been so blessed and thankful to call you my forever friend! You always had such a huge smile on your face and a warm hug every time I seen you! Your face would light up when I asked about your family especially your beautiful girls! You are going to truly truly be missed. I love you my sweet friend! Your family is in my heart and my prayers!!πŸ˜’πŸ™β™₯️

Jennifer Privette Pegram

I've had the honor of knowing Mary and her infectious smile. May God give your family peace knowing you are resting in God's eternal warm embrace. πŸ™πŸΎπŸ•ŠοΈ

Stephanie Harris

I met Mary in 2006 when we (CITIES) were in partnership with Oak Springs and provided health screenings. We made an instant connection and loved picking on her because of the southern belle charm she would use when calling Vernon's name..😁 Such a sweet and loving spirit..Rest in His arms and may loving memories comfort the family..

Lealia Martin

Dear Vernon and family, Our hearts are heavy with sorrow for your loss. Mary was loving, kind and authentic. When I went to the Health Department in 2006, I was assigned an office next to hers. She was a good Neighbor, and her door was always open for those in need. She had a superpower, a gift of God. It is called "Presence". Whenever one spoke with Mary, she always gave them her full attention. In today's world that not a small thing. Her laughter, her smile, those eyes; they looked directly into yours. There was no hiding from Mary, she saw your heart. She was truly one of God's Elect. She is in His Presence now. Praying for the entire family to be surrounded by the love of God. May He give you comfort and strength needed during this most difficult time.

"Embrace the sweet precious memories and let the tears flow when needed ~ That's what LOVE does."

Shirley King Spencer and Family

I was extremely sad to hear this news! I worked with Mary at the Health Department for years, and I always loved her happy deposition and positive outlook. She really cared about our patients at the Health Department and went above and beyond to give them the best care. She will be truly missed! My heartfelt condolences to her family!

Ugonna Anyanwu

I am so sorry to hear of Mary'S passing Prayers for the family We worked together when Mary first graduated She was so nice

Christine Galloway

Mary was LOVE at work in every part of her life, her marriage, children, family, church, work and community. "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails" (1 Corinthians 13:4-8a).

The Page/Walker Family

My deepest condolences to the family of Mary Helen. One day we will not have to shed tear because of lost oh love ones. Jehovah's promise of no sickness, or death will heal this very pain one day soon. May memories brighten your day when you think of Mary.

Everette L. Scales

Right now I am experiencing many different emotions from the pain of losing my friend, but peace comes in knowing she's no longer suffering. She will be truly missed

Pam Davis

Sending prayers to the family. May God's Grace and Mercy sustain you today and in all the days to come.

Travis and Eldress Martha Malloy

Mary Shaw will forever hold a special place in my heart. Mary has always been an angel has always done God's work and she will forever be missed.

Shawn Dawson

I am very sad that Mary has left us. I pray that the love and memories she leaves behind will bring peace and comfort to all those who love her as we try to learn how to live in a world without Mary.

Susie Horvath

Sending my deepest and heartfelt condolences. May God bless and comfort you all during this most difficult time. May you find peace in knowing that to be absent from the body is to be present with The Lord.

Twanna Wadelington

I am sorry to hear about you and family's loss. All are in my thoughts and prayers. Love all

Sunshine

May you rest in eternal peace. You left a tremendous gift of love. I thank you for touching my life in so many ways. Praying for your family.

Andrea Caldwell

I was blessed to have worked closely with Mary at the Guilford County Health Dept for several years. She was not only my coworker but she was my dear friend and sister in Christ. Mary always had a smile on her face and had a joyful, uplifting spirit. She was such a hardworker and took such great care of our Maternity patients. I loved going down to her office and chatting with her about life. We laughed together, cried together, and prayed together. She had a way of uplifting your spirit just by being in her presence. I did not know she had cancer as she did not share it with us cause she did not want her friends to worry over her. If I had known she was ill, I would have surely helped her in any way I could have, visited her, loved on her, encouraged her, prayed with her, etc. I now live 2 hours away in Kings Mtn but would have traveled to do anything for her cause she was just that special to me. My prayers and love go out to her family who I know are mourning her loss. Mary Shaw now celebrates in Heaven with Jesus and no longer suffers. I love you Mary Shaw, and I was blessed to have the gift of you in my life

Julie Marine

Mrs. Mary was one of the sweetest people I've worked with. Always positive and upbeat. She never hesitated to help me in any way she could. She will be missed dearly.

Jasmine Jones

Mary Helen is my 1st cousin on uncle Henry Wilson's side of the family. I have many cousins, but Mary Helen was by far one of the SWEETEST cousin anyone would ever want. Mary Helen carried the FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT in her heart β™₯️ and it truly showed every time we either saw each other or communicated on the phone. I Praise God, because she's now resting in God's presence! To God be all the Glory in Jesus Name! Cousin Catherine β™₯οΈπŸ™πŸΎ

Catherine Scott

My prayers for comfort go out to your family. You were a light and a joy to work with.

Stephanie Todmann

Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

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