Betty Lightner Davis, 84, peacefully slipped away into eternal rest on October 20, 2021, at The Shannon Gray Rehabilitation and Recovery Center, after a period of declining health. Betty (also known as BJ to family and friends) was born on June 15, 1937, in High Point, NC, a daughter of the late Mary Lightner Blackwell and Kaiser Blackwell. In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death on April 25, 2018, by her husband of 57 years, Edward Davis; a sister, Barbara Blackwell McCloud; and stepsons, Gregory Davis and Craig Little.
Betty attended High Point Public Schools and graduated from the historic William Penn High School, Class of 1956. She was a proud William Penn alumna and looked forward to class reunions and other occasions where classmates came together to fellowship.
Betty’s work history began in high school, where she was a cafeteria worker. After high school and several years in housekeeping and janitorial services, she joined Alma Desk Furniture Company as a finisher. There, she worked for over 20 years.
Betty was a lifelong member of Calvary Baptist Church, where she was nurtured as a child. She was an active member who faithfully attended Bible Study, Church School and Sunday services. She served as church announcer, a member of the Senior and Gospel Choirs, the Kingdom Seekers, and President of the Blue-Ribbon Missionary Circle. She dearly loved her church and church family. Posthumously, Betty will be recognized as an honorary Mother of the Church.
Betty loved people! She was well known in the community, and she never met a stranger. She cherished her family and many friends. Whether she was on her front porch, the city bus, at the laundromat, or walking to Five Points, she was bound to stop and chat! Her bright smile, quick wit, and talkative nature will long be remembered!
Betty loved music! As a teen and throughout adulthood, she loved her records. From the early Motown sounds to the Gospel greats, her record collection included them all! It was often music that stimulated Betty during her stay at The Shannon Gray Rehabilitation and Recovery Center.
Betty will most be remembered for her love of family and her joy of life. The memory of her joyful spirit will be cherished by sisters, Betsy Morgan (Harry) of Riverdale, GA, Elaine Jones of Avenel, NJ, Dorothea Shepard of Roselle, NJ; brother, Arnold Blackwell of Newark, NJ; stepchildren, Delores Davis of Selma, AL, Glen Davis of Norwich, CT, Larry Davis, Bernadette Davis, Jacqueline Chapman, and Beanie Davis, of High Point, NC; step-grandchildren and great-grandchildren; aunt, Sarah Lightner of Salisbury, NC; godson, James K. Squirewell of Morrisville, NC; a loving cousin and caregiver, Deborah Squirewell of High Point, NC; other cousins, nieces, nephews, other relatives, and friends.
Funeral services will be held on Wednesday, October 27, 2021, at 1:00 p.m. at Calvary Baptist Church, 808 Hilltop Street, High Point, NC. Burial will be on Thursday, October 28, 2021, at 10:00 a.m. at Salisbury National Cemetery, Salisbury, NC. The family will receive friends on Wednesday from 12:30 p.m. to 1:00 p.m. at the church. Due to COVID regulations, masks are required. Live streaming will be on Calvary Baptist Church Facebook page, Calvary Baptist Church website, and YouTube. Mrs. Davis may be viewed on Tuesday, October 26, 2021 at Phillips Funeral Service Chapel from 4:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m.
Final arrangements are entrusted to Phillips Funeral Service, Inc.
The family would like to express their gratitude to the staff of the Shannon Gray Rehabilitation and Recovery Center, Hospice of the Piedmont, and Hospice of Randolph for their warm and compassionate care of Betty during her illness.
In lieu of floral arrangements, the family requests that donations be made to Calvary Baptist Church, 808 Hilltop Street, High Point, NC 27260, in memory of Betty L. Davis
To the family of Mrs Betty: I had the pleasure of working with at Alma Desk she had a very kind spirit about her self she will be miss After Alma Desk I had the pleasure of see and talking to her when she came in Walmart to shop
Sorry to hear by Betty she was a very sweet lady always smiling and she will be missed
I grew up in Calvary,l remember Her she was a beautiful lady My condolences to the family.Peggy B.Robinson
While I did not know Ms Betty personally, I knew of her essence through her cousin (Deborah Squirewell). She certainly seems to have been a kind, fun & loving soul. May she rest in heavenly peace. To the family, I send my most sincere condolences... Jean Jackson
While I did not know Ms Betty personally, I knew of her through her cousin (Deborah Squirewell) and she seems to have certainly been a kind & loving soul; may she rest in heavenly peace eternally. To the family, I send my most sincere condolences.
My aunt Betty was something else. She could talk about anything and make a complete story of the topic. She was always smiling and I could say she was smart but most people who met her figured that out because she would be telling them a thing or two about something. Aunt Betty I love you and I'll miss you but I never will forget you. Now you and your sister Barbara (my mom)) holding it down in heaven.❤️Wallace Jr❤️
Sending a very special prayer to my friend family Ms.Betty she was a very nice lady and never met a stranger she always had a kind word of encouragement to me.She loved my son Brian from a baby.She will be missed but never forgotten. RIP.. Ms.Betty Cynthia Walden, Family
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