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Ms. Tonya Yvette Monteiro

Passed 03/28/2026

Obituary For Ms. Tonya Yvette Monteiro

Ms. Tonya Yvette Graham Monteiro was born to the late Burnest Edgar Graham and LaVerne Briley Graham on June 15, 1969. She fell asleep on March 28, 2026.

Tonya truly loved life. She was always full of fun, love and positivity even while dealing with her mounting health concerns. From a very young age, she learned about the one true God Jehovah. As her love for the Truth grew, she dedicated her life to Jehovah and got baptized in June of 1984.

She truly valued her personal relationship with Jehovah. And she strived to imitate Jesus in her daily living. Her encouraging comments during our worship meetings revealed her deep love for God and His word the Bible. She was also known for her zeal in the ministry. She found great joy in sharing with others what she learned from the Bible whether it be in person or by letter writing.

Tonya received her education from Sandhills Community College in Hamlet, NC. During her working career, Tonya enjoyed working in many roles but she especially loved her role as an Office Manager for Keller Williams Realty. This was the last position she held before coming out of secular work due to her health.

She was a very creative person that appreciated the beauty of the Arts including poetry and music. One of Tonya’s greatest accomplishments was the publishing of her book “Inside a Butterfly.” A beautiful compilation of personal poetry writings she created. She loved to drive and take enjoyable road trips on beautiful sunny days. She loved going to the Coast. She loved the beach.

Tonya enjoyed spending every minute with family and friends that sincerely loved her back. She especially valued her close friendship with the Callahan family (Lauren, Kevin, Aiden and Madison). She also viewed Brother Preston Graham and Alvin Spivey as a “poppa”. She always exuded a real zest for life and uplifted anyone in her company. She will be greatly missed.

She is survived by her dear mother, LaVerne Briley Graham (Burnest Edgar Graham) of High Point, NC; six siblings, Carlos Ramon Graham of Laurinburg, NC, Bobby Nashon Graham (Tanoy Sisavoth) of Florida, LaSherrie Dawn Graham Bates (Steven Bates) of High Point, NC, Toshiko Renee Graham of High Point, NC, Jennifer Lynn Graham of Winston Salem, NC and Bradford Eli Graham of Laurinburg, NC; a host of loving and supportive aunts, uncles, and cousins that show loving support and engagement in Tonya’s life until the very end. Tonya was also a proud auntie of numerous nieces and nephews; a great aunt to two great nieces.

A celebration of Life Service will be held Saturday, April 11, 2026 at 3:00 p.m. at Kingdom Hall of Jehovah's Witness, 1600 N. Centennial Street.

Final arrangements are entrusted to Phillips Funeral Service, Inc.

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I remember Tonya as a sweet and beautiful girl, with a wonderful, and very respectful persona. And not only was her beauty external...it was radiantly internal as well! Even as a girl, her love for Jehovah was obvious. On this picture, she does not appear to have aged at all! I know that she'll be greatly missed by her family and friends, but I'm also well aware that you all are, even now, deriving great comfort in God's promise of the resurrection hope, through Christ Jesus, His Son. (Surely, she will be with You in Paradise.) 🌺🌷🌺🌷🌺 Ty With Love, Melanie Boyd-Jones

Melanie Boyd Jones

Tonya was a constant ray of light when I worked with her for several years. We loved talking about fashion, food, and real estate. I will certainly miss her, but I know the kingdom she is entering, is where she wanted to be. May God bless her family and friends with beautiful memories of a beautiful soul. See you on the other side, T. ❤️

Jim Dowell, Jr

My Condolences to the Graham Family, I remember Tonya as a little girl when Lavern studied with my mother in the late 70's. What a beautiful person inside and out. She will be missed. I can't wait to see you in the resurrection my sister.

Rhonda Johnson Fairley

Sending our love and heartfelt condolences to the Graham and Bates family..We'll continue to keep you in our prayers as it will not be long before we will see that beautiful smile again and welcome her back..John 5:28-29

Delores & Dana Gilmore

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Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

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