Life Reflections: Celebrating Gary Dewayne Rogers Sr.
“Come to Me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” — Matthew 11:28-30
In the spirit of Matthew 11:28-30, we gather to honor the life and legacy of Gary Dewayne Rogers Sr., affectionately known as “Stank” or “Big Gary.” Born on October 15, 1973, in Memphis, Tennessee, Gary was the cherished son of Vanessa Dale Dorse Lott and Connie B. Rogers. From his earliest days, Gary’s faith was central to his character; he professed his hope in Christ at The Lord Tabernacle Holiness Church, a foundation that guided him throughout his life.
Gary graduated from Melrose High School and embarked on his professional journey at Kroger in the early 1990s. He later devoted two decades of loyal service to Vondrehle Tissue Company. In every role he took on, Gary was known for his warmth, sincerity, and willingness to help others. His gentle spirit and selfless nature made him a beacon of kindness, always ready to offer support to those in need.
Above all, Gary was a devoted son, father, grandfather, brother, and friend. He cherished his family deeply, sharing unconditional love with his children and grandchildren. Gary’s nurturing presence created a haven of love and support, and his legacy lives on through the lives he touched.
On November 17, 2025, Gary was called home to a place greater than this world. His departure leaves a profound void, but his legacy of love, compassion, and cherished memories remains with all who were fortunate enough to know him. We celebrate Gary for his unwavering commitment to his loved ones and for the light he brought into their lives.
Gary was preceded in death by his beloved mother, Vanessa Dorse Lott; his stepfather, Harvey Lott; his precious daughter, Vanessa Marie Rogers; and his dear brother, Eric Rogers. Their memories are forever woven into the hearts of those who loved them.
Gary leaves behind his wife, Robin Johnson Rogers; devoted father, Connie B. Rogers; caring mother-in-law, Doris P. Loving; uncle, Joseph Jones; aunt, Rosalind Scroggins; sister, Erica Rogers; stepsister, Shara Lott; brother, Markey Rogers; and brother-in-law, Norvel Avant.
Gary’s greatest joy was found in his children: Garielle Rogers, Gary Dewayne Rogers Jr., Alexandria Rogers, Jamarcus Deandre Fuller, and Deshawn Rogers. His seven grandchildren—Jordan Dewayne Rogers, Da’Khari Amir Rogers, Zandria Rogers, Courtez Robinson Jr., Journee Tamyra Fuller, Xavier Davis, and Aston Davis—brought him endless pride and happiness.
Gary’s circle of love included his cousin/brother, Terrance Scroggins; cousin/sister, Naomi Scroggins; nephew, Jacobie Scroggins; and his special friend, Sharita Humphery. His best friend, Dee-Dee, and a host of extended family and friends were a testament to the relationships he nurtured and the lasting impact he made.
As we mourn Gary’s passing, we find solace in the words of Matthew 5:4: “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.” Gary’s legacy of love and kindness will continue to inspire all who knew him.
Today, we celebrate not only the life Gary lived, but the love he gave and the comfort he brought to those around him. May his memory be a guiding light and source of peace for all who hold him dear.
I will cherish you beyond eternity!
Naomi
A memorial service will be held at 12:00 noon on Friday, December 5, 2025 at R. S. Lewis Funeral Home 2944 Walnut Grove Rd., Memphis, TN 38111
Our deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Big Gary. May he and Vanessa be reunited in paradise 💗.
My Condolences to the entire Family, Gary was unique and had a big Heart would help you in any kind of way, that is who he is a gentle giant. I will miss him dearly as a former Co-Worker but most of all a Dear Friend. Rest On My Brother, you have now got your Wings God Bless You ""R. I. P.""
My big brother who I always have looked up to wanted everything you had growing up,from the clothes Jordans and jewelry,you will be missed heavily rest in power Big Bro love u 4Life
Rest Easy Pops ! I love you and appreciate all the kindness and jokes you've gave me. I'll never forget how open you were to me ❤️. Your patience and love will always be remember by me. Thank you for being my second dad.
Condolences to the entire Rogers family! Gary will truly be missed. The times spent under the carport while you grilled will always be core memories. Thank you for always caring and being a grandpa to Juice, Grumpy and Ashton. We truly love you. Praying for the family!
My brother for life but you know this already get your rest. Naomi
Rest is peace Pops. A life well-lived, a heart so true, A steady path he always knew. With quiet strength he faced each day, With love and kindness as his way. Though he has gone beyond our sight, His memory stays, a lasting light
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