Thomas Lee Effend was born on March 2, 1938 to Virgil and Eloise Effend, in Fort Pierce, Florida. He attended public school in St. Lucie County and graduated from Lincoln Park Academy with the class of 1958. He subsequently joined the United States Air Force and served his country honorably for 20 years. He was relieved from active duty July 31, 1978. Following his tenure as an Air Force technical sergeant, he came back to Fort Pierce and worked for the US Postal Service and the Fort Pierce Housing Authority.
As a young man, Reverend Effend joined the Mount Olive Missionary Baptist Church and was ordained Deacon under Reverend R. James Clifton. There he served for several years before he received the call to ministry. Reverend Effend was ordained to the ministry under the Reverend Howard D. Coleman.
In later years, he established an outreach ministry for the Beull Brown Center for Senior Citizens at the Fort Pierce Housing Authority in Fort Pierce. This ministry took the gospel to the senior citizens who could not attend regular church services.
Reverend Dr. Effend, was a community man and a community preacher. He served for some years at the St. Matthews Baptist Church under Rev. Jimmie Lee Gary Sr. and he served as an associate at Goodwill Presbyterian Church. In his later years, he joined the New Testament Baptist Church under Bishop Ronald Wright Sr. There he served as an associate minister and the corresponding secretary for the Florida Treasure Coast Baptist Association under the leadership of Bishop Ronald Wright who is the moderator. He served as a Commander and adjutant at the American Legion Post 171 for several years. He was a life member of the NAACP.
Reverend Tommy Effend was the second child among his siblings Ulysses Effend, Samuel Ingram, Tommy Ingram, Virginia Pye & Maddie Jean Johnson.
Left to cherish his memories are his loving wife, Emma Effend; children, Kerwin Effend (Tawana), Sandra Reeves, Sharon Spivey, Camellia D. Williams, and Crystal Orandi (Alex); grandchildren, Leonard Childs, Crystal Spivey, Melissa Spivey, Lakresha Lacey, Blondell Effend, Jamorrow Effend, Gia Reeves, Immanuel Ochako Orandi, Arie Aikens, Jasmine Countiss, and Jade Davis; Sister-in-laws, Mary Newkirk, Leona Williams, Pandora Ingram; Brother-in-law, James Kroger, and a host of nieces, nephews, other relatives, and sorrowing friends who will miss him dearly.
Reverend Effend was called from labor to reward on May 31, 2022 at the Lawnwood Regional Medical Center. “Blessed are the dead which die in the lord from henceforth; Yea they shall rest from their labors, and their works do follow them.” Revelations 19:13b.
Public visitation for Rev. Thomas Effend will take place on Friday, June 3, 2022 from 4:00pm-7:00pm at Stone Brothers Funeral Home in Fort Pierce, FL. Funeral services will convene on Saturday, June 4, 2022 at the River of Life Fellowship in Fort Pierce, FL beginning at 12:00pm. Burial will immediately follow in Hillcrest Memorial Gardens.
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James Young sent Sympathy Spray for Rev. Thomas Lee Effend - June 03, 2022
There are no words or flowers to express how much Tommy did for our family. The Youngs - Jimmy, Cheryl, Faruq, Carla, Roger and Tammi.
Garden of Memories was sent for Rev. Thomas Lee Effend - June 02, 2022
Chrysanthemum Arrangement was sent for Rev. Thomas Lee Effend - June 02, 2022
Sending prayers for strength and comfort to the family.
We so enjoyed his messages at Goodwill Presbyterian Church with Reverend Coleman! He was a good soul who will be missed! Juliette Lomax-Homier and Greg Homier
,Ernest White, Chicago, Illinois
Thinking of you Emma Jean and family as I'm wishing you moments of peace and comfort in this time of great pain in the loss of Tommy. I'm keeping you Emma Jean and Family in my prayers.
Mrs.Virginia Pye, the Ushers Ministry No.1, Greater New Mt. Moriah MBC, Detroit, MI, wish to extend our deepest condolences to you on the loss of your brother, Rev. Thomas Lee Effend. We love you and know that we are here for you. May God continue to Bless you and your family.
Mrs. Effend, you and your family are in our prayers. May God give you strength, peace and comfort during your time of grieving. Mr. Effend will surely be missed.
My deepest sympathy to Ms. Emma and the Effend family. May GOD give you peace and comfort. Mary A. Belton and Family.
To Ms.Emma and the Effend family, May God comfort you in this time of bereavement. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Cynthia Ashley and family.
To Ms. Emma Jean and the Effend Family, may God give you peace and comfort. My condolences to each of you.
Sharon B. Mims
May the Lord give the loved ones comfort and strength. I share my deepest heartfelt condolences to the family. My dearest friend/ brother Tommy, you will be greatly missed. If ever I had a friend, it would have been him. Our Lord and Savior has given you rest from this journey called life. I am blessed to have known you on this journey. Coiley Johnson
May the Lord give the loved ones comfort and strength. I share my deepest heartfelt condolences to the family. My dearest friend/ brother Tommy, you will be greatly missed. If ever I had a friend, it would have been him. Our Lord and Savior has given you rest from this journey called life. I am blessed to have known you on this journey.
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