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Obituary For Dr. Paron T. Bailey
“A Faithful Servant, A Radiant Spirit, A Life Well Lived”
A Celebration of Life
Dr. Paron T. Bailey peacefully transitioned from labor to reward at her residence in High Point, North Carolina.
She was born on July 20, 1956, at the historic St. Agnes Hospital in Raleigh, North Carolina, to the late Mr. Thomas Edward Bailey (d. 2007) and the late Mrs. Bermadean Wyche Bailey (d. 2016). Paron was the eldest daughter and a cherished light in her family. She held a special place in the hearts of the late Mr. Gurvis Bailey, Sr. (d. 1984) and the late Mrs. Margie Landis Bailey (d.1999) as their first granddaughter and was adored as the second grandchild born to the late Mr. Burman Wyche (d. 1979) and the late Mrs. Alma Harris Wyche (d. 1979).
Early Life and Education
From a young age, Paron’s many gifts began to shine. She trained in ballet, tap, and jazz, took piano lessons, and learned to sew—early reflections of her creativity, grace, and determination.
Paron was educated in the Raleigh Public Schools, attending William H. Fuller Elementary, Charles B Aycock Junior High, and Needham Broughton High School. She went on to earn a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration from North Carolina Central University in 1978, and later earned both a Master of Theology and a Doctorate in Theology from Jacksonville Theological Seminary in Jacksonville, Florida in 2005. Paron’s early years reflected a balance of artistic talent, academic excellence, and steadfast faith- qualities that would define her life’s work and spiritual calling.
Professional Journey
After college, Paron began her professional career in insurance sales with Lee Faison and Associates, where she excelled and earned numerous awards and travel honors. In 1983, she accepted a management position with Allstate Insurance Company, which led her to Roanoke, Virginia—a city she called home for more than three decades.
While in Roanoke, she also worked with General Electric and the United States Postal Service, serving as both a contractor and civil servant. In 2015, she transferred to the Greensboro Regional Processing and Distribution Center, the mail hub for the region.
After 31 years of dedicated contract and federal service, she retired on April 30, 2025. Throughout her career, Paron was known for her professionalism, leadership, and unwavering commitment to excellence.
Christian Service and Ministry
Paron’s faith was deeply rooted from an early age. Her Christian journey began at Maple Temple United Church of Christ in Raleigh, NC where she was active in Sunday School and the Young Adult Choir. While living in Roanoke, she became a devoted member of Shiloh Baptist Church in Salem, Virginia. Paron served as a “Daughters of the King” Sunday School teacher, member of the Missionary Ministry, and assisted in leading Intercessory Prayer and 40 days of prayer services.
In 2004, she was licensed in ministry and later ordained as an Associate Minister/Evangelist. Her ministry was marked by wisdom, compassion, and sincerity. Her favorite scripture was Proverbs 3: 5-6, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make our paths straight.”
Paron shared the Gospel with joy—teaching, preaching, and evangelizing with a heart full of love. She frequently served as a keynote speaker at numerous Christian workshops and training events. In 2004, Paron was honored as the Zeta Phi Beta Woman of the Year in Roanoke, Virginia, for her Christian leadership and community service.
Legacy of Love
Affectionately known as Pam to her family and friends, she will be remembered for her radiant smile, gentle spirit, delicious meals and unwavering devotion to God and family. She lived with grace, loved deeply, and inspired all who crossed her path. Pam will be remembered for her quick wit, gentle wisdom, kind and uplifting spirit and the unwavering encouragement and generosity she shared with her family.
She leaves to cherish her memory, her caring and devoted sister, Dr. Freda Bailey Shipman (Keith, Sr.) of Reston, VA; two nephews Keith A. Shipman, Jr., and Thomas H. Shipman. An Uncle Deacon Emeritus Carl W. Bailey, Sr. (Clara), Charlotte, NC; Aunts Mrs. Martha W. Bailey, Raleigh, NC; Mrs. Virginia L. Bailey, Orange, VA; 8 first cousins Mrs. Sharon Bailey Johnson of Fredericksburg, VA; Mrs. Carlette Bailey Carlton (Maury) of Greensboro, NC; Ms. Marilyn Bailey of Coates, NC; Mrs. Greta Bailey Newkirk (Kenneth) of Raleigh, NC; and Deacon Kimberly Bailey Jones (Deacon John) of Charlotte, NC; Carl W. Bailey, Jr. (Dee), Kenneth A. Bailey (Victoria) of Charlotte, NC and Deacon Christopher L. Bryant (Dr. Edye) of Raleigh, NC. Pam’s light continues to shine through her family and all who were touched by her words and her faith.
She regularly texted daily devotionals to uplift and encourage others, revealing her unshakeable faith and prophetic gift to inspire hope–Pam’s ministry will remain a lasting legacy.
One of her last and most poignant reflections dated October 2, 2025, serves as a living demonstration of how to hold on to our faith in the midst of trials:
“Lord, I’m tired, I’ve prayed, I’ve waited, I’ve trusted, and yet the problems around me look the same – some even worse. But I refuse to let go of you. You are my refuge when life overwhelms me. Your word says in Psalms 46:1 that, "You are my present help in trouble, so I cling to that now.”
Contributions can be made to North Carolina Central University Institutional Advancement Class of 1978 Endowed Scholarship. The address is P O Box 19363 Durham, NC 27707-9990.
Visitation: 10:00 am - 11:00 am on Tuesday, October 21, 2025, at Trice Funeral Home Chapel in Fuquay-Varina, NC 27526.
Funeral will be held at 11:00 am on Tuesday, October 21, 2025, at Trice Funeral Home Chapel, 127 N. West Street in Fuquay-Varina, NC 27526.
Burial: Carolina Biblical Gardens, 1530 Creech Road in Raleigh, NC 27610
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Samuel D Adams sent The Peace Lily for Dr. Paron T. Bailey - October 19, 2025
MAY YOU FIND STRENGTH AND COMFORT IN THE CHERISHED MEMORIES THAT YOU HOLD IN YOUR HEART. MAY GOD'S LOVE, GRACE AND PEACE SUSTAIN YOU ALL.
MARGARET D. JENKINS Former Employer of Carolina Biblical Gardens
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My condolences to you Freda. My heart is saddened when I heard the news.
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Freda, I was heartbroken to hear about the loss of your sister. Please accept my deepest condolences. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. Wishing you comfort, strength, and peace in the days ahead.
Charlotte and Mary Merritt
My condolences to the family. I remember Paron from Broughton and later at NCCU. She had a sweet spirit and always an encouraging word. Had not seen her since college but I hear the Lord saying -- Well Done my faithful servant.
I am a member of Shiloh BC, where I had the honor of meeting Dr. Bailey! I loved hearing her preach God's Word and hear her encouraging prayers! I attended her Sunday School, which she always made the fellowship & teaching enjoyable! We truly missed her after relocating to NC! She was such an awesome person. My condolences and prayers for the Bailey family!
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Our condolences to the Bailey family.
To Freda and the Bailey family,
It is with sadness that I have learned of the passing of Paron. Paron and I met in the 10th Grade at Needham B. Broughton. We had the best time with lots of laughs, sharing classes, and sharing stories. I was happy to meet her mother, Mrs. Bailey, and her sister, Freda. As time moved forward, I lost contact with Paron, but I always kept in touch with her, sending messages through Freda. Today, I send my love to Freda and Keith. Although Paron was absent from my presence, she was never absent from my mind and heart. May God strengthen you and keep you during this time today and forever.
Sending my condolences to the family of Ms Bailey whom I knew she loved. I had the pleasure of working with Ms Bailey! She was such an inspirational person who kept me on my toes at work and outside of work. As she knew she was my work best friend 😁 that I'm going to miss dearly. The daily quotes she would send and hearts we would send one another on a regular will definitely be missed. Prayers to the family 🙏🏾
SB
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My heart is heavy, to hear of this angel gone too soon. I had the pleasure of working with Dr. Bailey whom she was one of the few that would speak to me about the goodness of Jesus, and prayed with me as we did daily. She was a God fearing woman, and so humble. We know God makes no mistakes.There is no pain family that god can't heal. I pray that we look to the hills which cometh your help, your help will come from the Lord family.Minister Naomi Herbin RIP Dr Bailey til we meet again
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Condolences to the family. PAM was a woman who loved God and his people. Her light was strong and friendship dear. RIP my friend 🧡.
Prayers and heartfelt condolences to the Bailey Family during this most difficult time. I had the pleasure of working with Dr. Bailey — she was always so encouraging, uplifting, and full of grace. Her kindness and wisdom will truly be missed, but her impact will continue to live on in all of us who had the honor of knowing her.
Prayers and Condolences to the Bailey family during our time of sorrow. Rest in Peace my dear cousin. John McCoy Rogers San Antonio, Texas
I am at a loss for words, my heart is so heavy right now. I will always cherish the words of encouragement, and the daily prayers. My deepest sympathy and condolences go out to the family, her friends and her loved ones. I'm so hurt, Ms. Bailey has been such an inspiration in my life and the life of others. I will always cherish the laughter we shared and the loving hugs. I love you Ms. Bailey my true friend you will forever have a place in my heart. 💜
Words cannot express how deeply sorry I am for the loss of "Mother Bailey" as I lovingly called her. A mentor, friend, coworker, powerful woman of God!! I will forever miss her, her prayers, and words of encouragement. I love you Mother Bailey until we meet again!! God bless and comfort you Bailey family, Valiencia Gainey
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