Hugh M. Reid

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The NC Prince Hall Masonic Brothers of District 19 were deeply saddened to learn of the passing of our dear Brother, Hugh Reid. Brother Reid was loved and respected by members of Wisdom Lodge #34 and within our district. He will certainly be missed. We send our condolences to Brother Reid's family and pray for God's comfort during this time of bereavement. - MWPHGLNC District 19 {Wake County}

I was saddened by the loss of Hugh. His cheerful spirit, kindness, and friendly nature touched everyone at pickleball. I always looked forward to our conversations between games. Hugh had a an ability to make those around him feel valued and appreciated. I'm fortunate to have known him. He will be sincerely missed.

So sad to hear of Hugh's transition and joy to know he is in his heavenly home eternal home. We worked together for many years. His kindness to others, smilie and twinkling eyes will be remembered. I could always count on him to help when needed. His bubbly personality and working with various groups made each day brighter. Most of all will miss our conversations about any and-every thing. He so loved talking about his family and the accomplishments of each. Hugh was a much appreciated team player and made everyone feel needed. That is rare And cherished in a group, I will miss our daily conversations and cherish his memory. May God continue to bless each one of you and provide peace within. Will-miss you, my friend.

My sincere condolences to the family and loved ones of Hugh. It was sad to hear of his passing. I knew Hugh from the pickleball courts at the Brown Center in Apex. From the first time I met him a little more than a year ago, through all of the pickleball games we played together, I have appreciated his warm, welcoming nature. He welcomed new pickleball players at all skill levels and was always quick to compliment other players on a good shot made, whether his teammate or an opponent. It was a joy to play with him, to compete against him and to simply be in his company. I know how much Hugh will be missed on the pickleball courts. I can only imagine how much he will be missed by those who knew him more intimately.

It was so sad to learn of Hugh's passing. I knew Hugh from the pickleball courts. He was one of those people who was such a nice guy. He was calm and enjoyable to play with (or against). Despite everything he was going through, he never complained. He will be missed on the courts.

Although I only knew Hugh for the past several months, I spent many hours talking with him between games and at the end of playing at the Seymour Park PB courts. Turns out we had a lot in common and commiserated about the +/- of those things. He offered me as much advice as I gave him. I will truly miss his wisdom and our conversations. God bless Hugh. Warm regards.

Sincere condolences to Mother Reid, Starlina, Hugh's children, and the Reid Clan. Godspeed Cousin, till we meet again. Alaafia ati Ife from Bankole Adé and family

I will miss Hugh greatly... his smile with the eye twinkle, the peace he brought, the understanding and kindness he showed.

I met Hugh through pickleball where his athleticism, sportsmanship, and good nature shined. He was the kind of friend that reached out, cared, checked in... I feel so fortunate to have had Hugh as my friend. I will miss him very much.

I knew Hugh through pickleball. He brought joy to everyone he met. Hugh was such a kind man. He was tremendously warm and caring. He glowed with peace and faith, in spite of knowing that he faced a difficult future with his cancer. It was a privilege to know him.

I am very sorry to hear about Hugh's passing. Hugh and I worked for Cisco and we collaborated on a few programs. Hugh's positive energy was contagious and refreshing. I am praying for Hugh and his family and sending positive thoughts in this difficult time of sorrow. May good memories of time spent with him bring you comfort.

I'm deeply sorry to hear about Hugh. He was always a delightful person to be around and an exceptional sport on the pickleball court. We played together at Hope Community Church, and he was incredibly friendly and courteous to everyone.

I had the opportunity to get to know him beyond the pickleball court, and I genuinely wished we had more time to spend with him.

Hugh will be deeply missed. Please accept our deepest condolences.

Kelly and Patti Mills

I was very sorry to learn of Hugh's passing. I have had the pleasure of playing pickleball with him many times. I watched him progress in his game from a beginner to become a really good player. He had a wonderful attitude, terrific sense of humor and was always fun to be with. As fellow a player and and friend to share time with he will be missed.

My thoughts and prayers are with Hugh's family. I knew Hugh through pickleball and always enjoyed his spirit and positive attitude. He will be remembered as a kind man. So sorry for your loss.

I am so heartbroken to learn of the passing of my dear friend Hugh Reid! 25 yrs ago, we worked next to each other as telecomm project managers in Morrisville. After we were both laid off during the post-9/11 tech bust, I immediately got recalled to active duty for seaport security with the US Coast Guard Reserve. At Atlantic Command in Norfolk, I was in a govt-paid apt building full of USCG and Navy reservists like me. But, Hugh remained unemployed for much longer. Then he called me to say he finally got an IT PM job at Newport News Shipyard Virginia, but the job was too far to commute from Apex! I immediately told him- "I'm here in VA, stay on my couch for free!" So we were "geo-batchelor" roomates for a year, until Hugh found a good new job back here in Cary.

That Father's Day, my young daughter gave me a card that asked "Daddy, do you miss U Read?" After 20 years, I am filled with tears of grief and once again saying YES, I really miss Hugh Reid!! Deepest condolences to Starlina and all Hugh's family!

Very sincerely, John Leonard Cary NC

I will miss Hugh's positive energy. I recall fondly our ping pong battles in each others garages when becoming neighbors in the same cul-de-sac. I remember sprinting with Hugh and Jordan on the street. Hugh loved testing himself with competition... but he was always a great sport. He always made interactions more fun. He made our superbowl parties more fun ...same with fire pits in the driveway on Halloween. His last favor to me was re-numbering my mailbox. One more thing I loved was that Hugh wouldn't simply text me ...he'd knock on my door or ring the doorbell to see if I could play pickleball... like kids saying "can Chris come out and play?" Last week when visiting Hugh and Starlina, I helped him sit up in bed ...but I slow rolled it to actually give him a hug. I'm thankful for that last opportunity to hear him whisper in my ear and know we connected once more as friends. It's touching that he passed on Father's Day. I see it as one more victory.... Hugh's competitive spirit... enduring to see one more birthday, one more anniversary, and one more Father's day. You win Hugh!

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