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Obituary For La’Var Wayne Autry
La’Var Wayne Autry, also known as “All Star”, was born on December 20, 1987, in Raleigh, North Carolina, to Clifton and Lynnest Autry. On November 16, 2025, at the age of 37, God sent His angels to carry La'Var home.
La'Var's interests included spending cherished time with his family, teaching gymnastics to children of all ages, and placing smiles on the faces of everyone he met. He devoted much of his time and energy to being a loving father, a devoted son, and a caring brother. His gestures spirit and joyful presence touched countless lives, and he will be remembered for the love he gave so freely.
La'Var always tried to find the silver lining in every situation life brought his way. He had a special gift for making children, adults, friends, family - and even strangers - feel seen, valued, and important. He understood that life came with its ups and downs, but he believed in celebrating the small wins that carried us forward.
This outlook on life is what made La'Var not only a remarkable coach and teacher, but also a loyal friend to so many. One of his favorite sayings and a phrase he lived by, was: “When life gives you lemons, make lemonade.” His positivity, resilience, and warm spirit continue to inspire all who knew him.
La'Var is survived by his two son, Elias (7 years old), and Kieran (5 years old), longtime partner who he shared a lasting bond of love and respect and the mother of his children, Danielle Malerba; Father, Clifton Autry; Mother, Lynnest Autry; Grandmother, Annie Conner, Siblings, Christopher, Cliff (Rhonda), Shauntina, Travis (Angela), Kevin (Tamieka), and Aspen; Uncles, Larry Autry (Dee), Garfield Autry (Doris), Mike Autry (Tony), and Al Linwood Conner (Angela); Aunt, Ruby Autry; Great Uncle, Kaso (Ann); Great Aunts, Christine Utley, and Gladys Adams; 15 nephews, and nieces and two great nieces; and a host of cousins, extended family and friends.
Visitation: 12:00 - 1:00 pm on Tuesday, December 2, 2025, at St. Mary’s FWB Church in Apex, NC
Funeral will be held 1:00 pm on Tuesday, December 2, 2025, at St Mary’s FWB Church, 9305 Holly Springs Road in Apex, NC 27539.
Burial: Jones - Turner Family Cemetery, 5607 Sunset Lake Rd in Holly Springs, NC 27540.
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I am so sad to hear of Lavar's passing. I was Lavar's 5th grade teacher. He always held a very special place in my heart! I have seen him several times since being his teacher and I always was the recipient of his big bear hugs, picking me up off the ground! His smile and positive, upbeat personality always brought me joy whenever I had the opportunity to see him. You will be so missed!!
Our hearts are with the family during this time of loss. May God hold you close, comfort you deeply and give you strength day by day.We are praying for peace, healing the assurance of God's presence. You will continually be in my thoughts and prayers 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
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Sending heartfelt condolences to the family. Lavar's kindness, big heart, and loving nature touched many. He will be sincerely missed.
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Sending my deepest sympathy to cousin Nette & her family, may Jesus keep you in his arms during this time, Lavar was a sweet & kind young man, he will truly be missed ❤️❤️🙏🏼
Lynest, I am sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Love to you. May God bless you and bring you peace and comfort
Sending healing to your family. Lavar was such a positive, lively and happy person. I remember him coaching my daughter in cheer. He was such a positive force. His smile was infectious! He made such a difference while he was with us. He was loved.
So sorry for your loss. Be encouraged, we loved him, but God loved him more.
I am deeply sorry for your loss....I have known Lavar for many years. He was part of my family...my daughter and him were best friends growing up. He was her best friend. Prayers for the family❤️❤️💔💔
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To the Autry family, and Mrs Phyllis, I am sending my deepest sympathy and condolences to your family. My heart is deeply saddened on hearing of the passing of Lavar. God definitely took an angel away to be with him. My prayers are with your family.
Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.
