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Cargin "Spanky" Dwayne Madison, IV

12/18/1995 - 08/23/2021

Obituary For Cargin "Spanky" Dwayne Madison, IV

Funeral services will be Saturday, August 4, 2021 at 2:00 p.m., New Horizon Church International, 1770 Ellis Avenue, Jackson, MS 39203 with burial in Garden Memorial Park, 8001 Highway 49 North, Jackson, MS 39209.


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In the rhythm of life, 'A Beautiful Day' was your signature scent, a subtle note that lingered in the air. Following a heated disagreement, I stored you in my phone as 'A Rainy Day,' an arbitrary choice that pales in significance to the perpetual storm unleashed by your untimely departure. The passing years have borne witness to the silent resistance that obscured the straightforward expressions of 'I'm sorry' and 'I love you.'

Scouring through the digital echoes of our shared past, a stark reality emerged—your name, now accompanied by the stark finality of R.I.P. My heart sank, grappling with the realization that I'm 2 years, 5 months, and 20 days too late to mend the frayed threads of connection.

Amidst the humdrum of life, I revisit the day our paths converged at Applebee's in Georgia. There, in the ordinary, we unwittingly slipped into the prophetic, channeling universal truths that resonated with the ebb and flow of life. Our laughter reverberated through the vast expanse of a cinema during the screening of 'A Madea Family Funeral,' etching a lasting memory of camaraderie in the theater's solitude.

Each call, every FaceTime session, every shared melody, and each special moment now stand as fragments of a fading mosaic. You, my friend, embodied the spirit of 'A Beautiful Day.' In this sober reflection, I extend my sincerest apologies. My love for you is steadfast, a straightforward confession echoing through the corridors of time, an acknowledgment that transcends the complexities of pride.

You were my heart I loved you more than any words could ever express and I wish I would've never let you go I wish I could go back but I can't I remember you had me in your phone as heartbeat cause you said I was your heart and to know you are no longer here I feel like my whole world has stopped it's not a day that goes by that I don't cry for you I feel like my whole world was taken away from me you picked me up in my darkest times you were the reason I got sober you saved me from demons I struggled with I always said you rescued me and you really did I admired you so much you were so young but had a great mind and had you own business I looked at you and was like someone so young can make his dream happen I can make mines so you inspired me to believe in myself you were my rock and I feel so lost without you but I hear you in my head saying baby you got this god gots you just put it in his hands and he will get you threw anything you will forever be apart of me I love you baby snoopy💙

I love and miss you so much. Thank you for being an awesome nephew. You help pull me through some of my sickest moments.

You will be missed by your Tiger Family!

Cargin was a beautiful soul who made everyone who came into contact with him feel special. He brought out the best in others and inspired them. We miss him terribly and love him dearly. Our hearts break for his family, friends, coworkers and everyone who knew him.

Wishing you peace to bring comfort and courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. With love and deepest sympathy. Lisa Thomas (former office manager, Jim Hill)

My sincerest condolences to the family for your loss. You all are in my prayers for much comfort, peace, and understanding. And may the memories of your son live in everyone's heart forever. Blessings. Candra Nelson Scott

You will be forevermore remembered, love you Cargin. Ma Joy that's what you called me

Our deepest sympathy to the Madison Family, continued prayers the Smith Family 💚💛

💚💛🐯 Love you Cargin C/o 15 -Meme

My sincerest condolence to the family. I was so very sorry to learn of the passing of your dear son. Love Georgia Sims and children (Harrison, Claresa & Laresa)

You will be truly missed💛💚 Tiger4Life

You will be truly missed💛💚 Tiger4Life

My Sincere Condulences to the Madison family.

You was always the best at planning our class activities you will be missed Cargin

You will forever be one of my favorite Boys & Girls Clubs babies. Love you forever Cargin.

Love, Mrs. Penney L. Ainsworth

Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

Westhaven Memorial Funeral Home, Inc. | MS

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