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Nelda Ramseur

Passed 04/22/2021

Obituary For Nelda Ramseur

Nelda Mirama Holloway Ramseur was born March 18, 1940 in Fort Pierce, Florida to Catherine Russell Holloway and Leonard P. Holloway. After a lingering illness, she departed this earthly realm on Thursday, April 22, 2021 at the Levine-Dixon Hospice House in Charlotte, North Carolina.

Nelda grew up, was baptized, confirmed and married as a member of St. Cyprian’s Episcopal Church in Lincolnton. She attended and graduated from both Oaklawn Elementary School and from Newbold High School. Upon graduating from high school and before moving to California, she had her first job as a photography assistant at Frazier Studio. She returned from California to marry the love of her life, Roger Smith Ramseur. Before his demise, they were married for 49 years. To this union, three children were born. After marriage, she was employed as a children’s crossing guard with the Lincolnton Police Department, an assistant to her father’s catering business and at Edmos Textile Company. Nelda’s hobbies included collecting and planting flowers and needlework. At one time she- along with her sister Shelia, Ermentrude and Olivia Lewis and Mose Shuford-sang gospel music as The Melodores.

She was preceded in death by her brother, Reginald Lenard Holloway; her parents, Catherine and Leonard Holloway, her beloved husband Roger Smith Ramseur and their grandson, Josh Tyler Thomas.

She leaves to mourn her passing three children; Tamara Ramseur Doughty (Brian), Rodney Ramseur, Renard Ramseur (Shirley); one grandson, Austyn Doughty (Carolyn); two great granddaughters; Sydney and Aliza Thomas; six siblings, Shelia H. Hatch (Fred), Ronald Holloway (Charlene), Alana H. Barter, Felecia H. Helms, Theresa H. Ravelomanantsoa and Stephanie H. Fenske; Friends, Vivian Hall, Casandra Robenson and nieces Claudia Teague and Judy England will mourn her passing along with other nieces, nephews, cousins, neighbors and family friends.

Memorial tributes may be made to the Newbold High School Alumni, Scholarship Fund P.O. Box 1387 Lincolnton, NC 28092 and/or The Levine & Dickson on Hospice House at Aldersgate In Memory of Nelda Ramseur 1825 Eastway Drive Charlotte, North Carolina 28205

All services will be live streamed on Ebony & White’s Funeral Service Facebook page

Funeral service will be Thursday, April 29, 2021 at 1:00 p.m. in White’s Family Chapel with burial to follow in Hollybrook Cemetery. The family will receive friends 30 minutes prior to the service. Masks are required for all services.

Ebony & White’s Funeral Service is providing services for the family


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Sending prayers and love to the Ramseur Family,l grew up with Nelda, Shelia and Ronald in elementary and high school .Nelda was a beautiful person to have known growing up.Although we move away as we grow older we will always remember each other. Love you Nelda

I'm a little upset with myself for not standing up and saying this at Nelda's Service yesterday, I let fear that I wouldn't be able to get through all that I wanted to say get the best of me. I'm Tabitha The wife of Brad Ramseur.. Nelda was like a 2nd mother to Brad, so when he wanted to take me to meet her in the beginning of our relationship I was extremely nervous.. As I knew Brad was seeking Nelda's approval... I had already met Roger.. She certainly sized me up! And to my relief she was pleased with me! I've NEVER in my life met anyone like her. She welcomed me into the family with Wide Open arms, she made such an impact on me that I told my closest family about her. Saying, "Every family NEEDS a Nelda! This couldn't be more true and anyone that knew her knows this to be a fact. Brad's parents had already passed when I met him so when we married I didn't have any "In-laws" At times I felt kinda cheated as I wanted "In-laws".. Well Nella as Brad calls her was a FANTASTIC FILLER! For that matter while Roger aka Nap as Brad called him was living he too was a FANTASTIC FILLER! Nelda was more precious to me than there are words in the English language to describe. And I will forever stand by my saying.. EVERY FAMILY NEEDS a Nelda! Always In My Heart is Where she'll be...Until We Met Again, Tabitha Ramseur

It was my honor to have known you! I loved you and your family as my own.You will truly be missed but what a wonderful place you will be. Much 💕 love... Cheryl Auton

William Holland and family wish to extend our heart felt condolences to the family of Nelda Ramseur. She was a life long friend whose family was part of our extended family. Our love goes out to all.

William Holland and family extend their heart felt condolences to the family of my life long friend Nelda Ramseur.She and her entire family were part of my extended family and will always be remembered. Love to all.

Dearest Family, We are all mourning the loss of Aunt Nelda. She was such a bright and warming person, always so kind and thoughtful. I have the best memories of coming over to visit Aunt Nelda, Uncle Roger and Cousins, Renard, Rodney and Tammy. I know my Mom just adored Aunt Nelda. Perhaps they can once again enjoy each other's company now that they have both left this earth. It's so hard to lose Aunt Nelda, and even harder that we can't all be together to say good-bye. Please know we're with you in spirit - now and in the days and weeks ahead.

-The Fox Family

Dearest Family, words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. Nelda was such an angel and has always held such a special place in my heart. She will be greatly missed. Love, hugs and prayers to you all. The Coleman Family

The Frances Friday family are so sorry for your loss. Nelda was a sweet lady.

Tammy, Rodney, Nard and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. We are all Ramseur Family. I will send prayers 🙏. Reggie "Sam" Ramseur

Tamera and Family, So sorry to hear of your Mothers' passing....she is now with Jesus and has no more worries or pains. You all are in my thoughts and prayers at this time.

Sincerely, Kim Scott Hudson Lincolnton, NC

Dearest Family Nelda was a great and lovely lady. Her warm smile and loving heart will be truly missed. May God keep you close to him during this time of loss. Rest in Heaven Dear Nelda. The Cooke Family

Dearest family and friends: My heart is still processing the loss of this Great Lady. I loved her like a sister and she always made me feel, just like a member of the family. I will hold close the times I was in her presence and pray that her memories remain close to you during the days and years to come. We are blessed to have had Nelda. I know her cousin Walt will totally agree. To God Be the Glory. Rest in Heavenly Peace, Dear Nelda

Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

Ebony & White's Funeral Service | Lincolnton, NC

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