Tare McSwain Obituary in Shelby at Enloe Mortuary

Obituary For Tare McSwain

Born May 14, 1984 Left to be with the Lord on February 16, 2022

Tare’ loved his family and was very protective of them. He made friends during his younger years, that remained his close friends until today. He also made new friends from Charlotte to Atlanta and beyond, that remained his friend until today as well. He never met a stranger and had a giving heart. If you needed him, he was there.

Tare’ was a graduate of Shelby High in 2002. He played football, ran track and he was a member of the Orchestra from Middle School until he graduated. Some of Tare’s honors included being named Most outstanding Freshman , which he received the Horn Citizenship Award. He received the Teen Achiever of the year in 2002, from the Cleveland County YMCA Black Achievers Program. He received the Andrews Academic Scholarship Award, where attended Gardner Webb University. Tare’ has also received numerous awards during his adult life. Tare’ attended Shiloh Baptist Church, where he was baptized at an early age. During his youth, he participated in the Youth Choir, Youth Mission Group and Sunday School.

Tare’ was an avid traveler, he loved adventure. His travels started early in life, when he was a Boy Scout with Troop 101 at First Baptist Church in Shelby. During this time his troop traveled to Canada, where he said was one of the best experiences ever. He loved to dress, and look nice wherever he went. He always said that he wanted to get best dressed in High School, and his Senior year he was honored with “Best Dressed” Superlative. He loved toying with electronics, if you needed anything fixed on your computer, tv, phone etc. he was the man for the job.

Tare’ worked in many different areas, Hotel customer service, and Insurance, just to name a few. His last job was with State Farm, In Atlanta, as a Claims Consultant, before his illness caused him to take a leave of absence.

He was preceded in death by his grandfather, Freddie Cannon and two uncles, Gerald Cannon and Jay Surratt.

He leaves behind to honor and cherish his memory: his parents, Todd and Veronica Wray and Harvey and Sherrie McSwain; sister: Deveney McSwain;, brothers, Christopher Wray, Harvey McSwain II, Brian Sims (Princess), Brad Strong; grandmother, Bernice Cannon; special niece and nephew: Kaylee Mack, Christopher Wray Jr (CJ).; special aunts and uncles: Frieda C. Lattimore, Alesia Cannon, Sherwood Hardin, Rodney Cannon (Mary Ann); special cousins that were more like brothers and sisters, Tajuana Cannon, Laquandra Cannon, Felicia Cannon, and Cedric Cannon;.other cousins: Rodnisha Cannon, Steven Lattimore and Mia Cannon.

There were many that helped him during his illness and we say thank you, but a special thanks goes out to Brandon Filelds, who helped with his travels back and forth to his doctor appointments, grocery shopping, medicine runs, etc. for that we will be forever grateful.

Along with a host of uncles, aunts, cousins and friends.

Funeral services will be held on Sunday, February 27, 2022 at 2:00 PM at Shiloh Baptist Church. The family will receive friends from 1:30 PM until 2:00 PM on Sunday. Burial will take place at Sunset Cemetery. The service will be livestreamed from the funeral home’s web page

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You became such a big part of my everyday life that the void I now feel is excruciating, Panic attacks and can barely sleep some nights, At the same time it's all so surreal. I am trying desperately to hold on to the many many laughs and great memories and not be selfish because I saw the pain and the fight you put up for the last few years even before we knew what was going on you were fighting the symptoms that were developing. We took time for granted but I appreciate the time we had, I will forever miss your presence in my life. I hope you knew you were loved by so many of us because you made sure we that you loved felt loved. My God continue to be with your family and heal all of our hearts. Brandon F.

RIP kidd , you will be truly missed
Sonix

Words can't explain what Tare meant to so many people. Thank you to his parents for sharing an amazing guy with the world. The love and impact he made in lives extended farther than his biological family could see but it's a love that you would be proud of. It's truly sad to know we all loss a piece of us but I know I am thankful for even having him as a friend. God bless each of you going forward and may his love and the memories be the strength that moves everyone through the days ahead.
Robert Harrison Dinkins "Father Harold Balenciaga"

Rip Kidd. My heart is forever with you today but my body couldn't. 🕊🕊🕊🕊🙏🏽 Love MOTHER SHANNON KHAN BALENCIAGA

ET (emotional twin) if ever there was a person that I felt emotionally connected to it was you. Always there to cheer me on and pull me out of my head. You were a fighter to the very end with a smile and a laugh despite your struggles. I know that your soul is resting easily now...and I pray that the fond memories bring your family comfort during their time of mourning. Sleep Easy Babe
-Lorin (ET forever)

I love you so much Tare and you will be missed beyond measure. You were always kind and had a smile that lit up any room. My prayers and condolences go out to the entire family. -Shortii

Sorry to Kidd family keep y'all heads up he's n a better place watching over everyone is loved it was a pleasure getting to know him May he Sleep n Peace

Tare, Thank you for being an amazing friend, brother, son and father. You will forever be loved and admired. Please guide us and watch over us. We love you, we honor you and rest well my brother.
Love always, DeSean

Cherishing the days of life with lasting memories of love, and friendship. My condolences to the Mcswain family in this time of despair. May God keep you all and protect your heavy hearts. Matthews 11:28. Rest easy my friend. Jr❤️

Sending prayers to the family. I know that this time is hard but to have had any moment with him is a golden gift from god. He was an amazing friend a great listener and most of all his heart was loving. He played so many roles in different peoples life and holds different moments with us all. I'm glad I got to enjoy the time I did with you. He will truly be missed by so many. But to be absent in the body is to be present with the lord. Save me a seat up there. Gone to soon but it's understood your at peace.
Loving you always Aniyah ❤️

Veronica, I am so sorry for the loss of your son. He was always a very sweet and respectful young man. His smile was infectious and will be missed. My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. May God comfort your hearts and give you peace. God bless, Allison Whitworth and family

To the McSwain and Wray Families I am so sorry for your loss Vernoica I am so sorry for loss of your first born I will keep you and your family in my prayers and in my heart stay strong my dear friend and keep your faith with Jesus because Tare with Jesus now looking down with a beautiful smile on his face saying I am okay yall because I am with Jesus I love you all and God bless you all from a dear friend Bridgitt Adams

You all have my sympathy and may God continue to bless you all as you mourned the loss of your love one Michelle Sims Family

On behalf of the Gist and Vanlue families please accept our condolences during the difficult time. My prayer is that the Lord strengthen, comfort, and keep the family and friends both now and in the future as you remember all of the good times and memorable moments with Tare'. Blessings and peace to you! Minister Terrance Gist.

I am so Truly sorry for your loss. I pray strength and comfort for you all as you go through this difficult time❤ Barbara McIntosh

So Truly sorry for your loss. Prayers for peace and comfort for the Family ❤

You will live on in our thoughts, memories, and our hearts. We love you and we miss you.

May The Peace and Love of GOD Comfort you all during your hours of bereavement. Sending Love and Hugs To The Family.
Doris McKissick

Nothing that I could ever say could honestly be enough to prove what you meant to me. For over 18 years we've been closer than close and to never get that call saying "hey big head" is gonna hurt. I know you are resting and I'm glad that you're in no more pain. I love you forever and a year! Jake

You were such a light to this world! The world was a better place because you were in it! You were loved by many! You'll be missed by many! Rest well! I love you so much!

When you first moved to Charlotte with me and we cooked spaghetti first night! You actually threw a noodle against the wall! I knew about it but had never seen someone as young as me actually do it! I must have laughed for two hours straight! Just one of endless memories I'll cherish! Rest up King