Elaine Phillips Elam

Darlene Chandler sent The Peace Lily for Elaine Phillips Elam - April 10, 2026

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Elam Family: My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Had the pleasure of working with Elaine at Duke many years ago. She was always very nice and friendly. May the precious memories of Elaine help to comfort each of you and give you all strength in the days ahead. Much love, many prayers and hugs. Sleep in Heavenly peace Elaine.

Sending my heartfelt condolences to the Elam family and friends. She will truly be missed by all the knew her.🕊️🕊️🕊️ Carolyn Brooks-Brodie

My condolences, Benita, to you and your family for the loss of your mother. May God give you all peace that surpasses all understanding and the strength to endure on days when it may feel like you're in the valley.

There are no words that can truly ease the pain of such a loss. Please accept my deepest sympathy, along with my prayers and condolences, for her family and all who loved her.

So very sorry about the loss of your Mom. My deepest condolences and heartfelt prayers for you during this very difficult time. Love and blessings to you and your family

Elaine has always been there for almost anything that was needed.l loved her like a sister,she always had the right conversation for you weather you wanted to hear it or not it was all in love. Rest in Peace my Sister-in-Law

We offer our deepest sympathy to the Elam family (Pastor & 1st Lady Elam). May God continue to bless each one of you. You are continually in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you all.

My condolences to Tyron and the Elam family, My heart goes out to you. Cherish the memories you had with Mrs. Elaine, I didn't get a chance to meet her but heard great things about her. Sincerely Neese Canady

I will miss you dearly.You have been so good too me.I always looked at you as my second Mom.I will always cherish the times that you had showed me when,things were tough.I love you,but our Father love's you more!💗

Sending heartfelt condolences and peace to the Elam family. My thoughts and prayers are with the you during this incredibly difficult time. May you find strength in the memories you hold close.

Elaine was the best supervisor I had during my employment with DUMC. Rest In Peace Lady E. To the Elam family, I send prayers comfort and condolences to each of you.

Much Love and Prayers to the Family

Neighbor for many years, thank you for the food and laughter shared over the years. Rest easy til we meet again some sweet day. I ❤️ you

MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCE TO THE ELAINE FAMILY MRS. ELAINE YOU WILL TRULY BE MISSED BY ALL R.I.P.

Sending love and prayers to Rev. Dwyane and Angela Elam. Trust in God during this difficult time. He will supply all your needs.

Sending you love as you remember your mother and her beautiful spirit.

The Lord Is My Light And My Salvation Whom Shall I Fear. I Thank God For You Being My Grandmother for the 46 Years I've Been Here On This Earth. You Loved,Rasied,And Chestized Me All At The Same Time. I Also Thank God For Blessing You To Live For 83 Years. I Can Truly Say That Your Latter Years Where Your Best Years,Cause You Didn't Want For Nothing Was Always Strong And Independent. You Raised All Of Your Children, Grandchildren,And Great-grandchildren To Love Each Other In Spite Of There Life Style Or Opinions. I'm Truly Gonna Miss Your Presence And Your SHARP TOUNGE. 😂 But Your Spirit Will Still Live On In Each And Everyone Of Us. Mama I Love You Always And Forever Till We Meet Again On The Other Side. Love Mario aka Dirty Red😘

Ms.Elaine will be missed!! Her wit her beautiful smile and her delicious meals!!! Love to her and her family!!

Thank you for loving and accepting me as your own. Thank you for the last conversation, the last laugh and the forever love! You will be missed, Momma E!

Nikki (Pap) and Kendrick (Drip)

Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.