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Obituary For Harriet Nesmith
Harriet Elaine Gleaton Nesmith, 47, peacefully transitioned on Monday, December 25, 2023 at Greenville Memorial Hospital. She was born on June 28, 1976 to the late Harry Lane and Martha Nell Gleaton in Seneca, SC.
Harriet attended Pendleton and Seneca Schools. She went on to further her education at Claflin University in Orangeburg, SC. After college, Harriet worked as a DJJ officer and later joined the Urban League where she was assigned to Union County High School. During that time, she met the love of her life, Gary L. Nesmith. She was currently working for the Department of Health and Human Health Services (DHHS) as a LTC Eligibility Coach (Trainer).
Harriet was married to Gary on May 19, 2007. To this union four children were born, three of whom preceded her in death: Tamara Michelle, Kristen London and Kaitlyn MaKenzie Nesmith.
Harriet was a huge advocate for her children and protected them at any cost.
She was a devoted member of First Worship Church where she served on the Choir as she possessed a strong alto voice, Stewardess Board and Director of the Children's Choir. Harriet enjoyed singing, talking and counseling people.
In addition to her loving husband, Gary, left to cherish fond and loving memories are: her son, Drake; her brother/son, Alonzo (Jobreyia) Gleaton of Whitmire; her father and mother-in-law, Rand and Bobbie Nesmith of Andrew, SC; her sisters-in-law, Gail Pressley of Kingstree, SC and Attia Nesmith of Andrews, SC; her special brothers-in-law, Howard Giles (Juanita) and Balvin Dorsey (Ruby); her special nieces, Andrea Gleaton and Salaysia Nesmith; her six nieces; her four great-nieces; her great-nephew; her godson, Malachi Johnson; her seven aunts, Bobbie Jean Rice, Mary E. Richardson, Betty Hardy, Jannie (William) Acker, Mamie Norwood (Allen), Tacoa Johnson (James) and Elizabeth Holland; her three uncles, John Henry Lee (Effie), Izaaiah Lee (Maggie) and Tommy Lee; and a host of cousins and friends.
A Celebration of the Life of Harriet Elaine Gleaton Nesmith will be held on Sunday, December 31, 2023 at 1:00 p.m. at First Worship Church, 504 N. Church Street, Spartanburg, South Carolina. Livestream will be available via Facebook on the TEEFERGUSONREPORT.
Burial will be held on Wednesday, January 3, 2024 at 1:00 p.m. at St. Mark AME Church, 21 Ransom Road, Kingstree, South Carolina.
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Monique McElveen sent Enduring Spirit Pothos Basket for Harriet Nesmith - December 29, 2023
In loving memory of my dear friend and housemate, Harriet Nesmith. My God give the Gleaton-Nesmith strength during this time of bereavement. Monique McElveen
Beautiful Dreams was sent for Harriet Nesmith - December 29, 2023
Kindra Rush sent Solace Ivy Planter for Harriet Nesmith - December 28, 2023
I'll never forget Harriet. One of the sweetest souls from Seneca. Your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kindra (Lee) Rush
Shirley Connelly sent Beautiful Dreams for Harriet Nesmith - December 26, 2023
We loved Harriet. Garry, we were shocked to hear the news. Prayers for you and Drake at this sad time. So many precious memories of Harriet. Love you. Shirley and Harrell
Jacqualyn Canada planted 5 trees in memory of Harriet Nesmith . - December 28, 2023
Harriet, was beautiful inside and out. She is truly missed! May GOD bless and keep you all, and you are continually in my prayers
Love,
Michele A. Cunningham
May you all find peace in knowing that to be absent from the body is to be present with God. I remember Harriet's smile, she would always light up a room, so I began calling her Queen Harriet. As she always carried herself in the likeness and dignity of a ๐ queen. Although she's not here in the body, her spirit lives
Malachi, and Dr's Anthony & Yvette Gaines
Gary you are in my thoughts and prayers. You know how much Harold and I cared for your family. You were so good to us during Harold's illness and death. I will be by to see you later at work. God bless you and the family. I did not know until today about Harriet's death, Cynthia Bates called me. Bobbie Jean Lawson
To Gary and Drake,
Our deepest sympathy as you navigate this very difficult time. May God provide comfort to you!. God Bless!
Matt and Denise Infanzon
I met Harriet , second, when we worked at WOM-Spartanburg but Gary, first, when we worked at SRMC. Harriet was always sunshine out -of- the - gray. My condolences to Gary, Drake, and family/friends. Grief is not a journey to getting over it or getting past it. It is about adjusting your life to accommodate it. To revel in the love and live for them! โSalena & Doug Richardson
Our deepest and heartfelt condolences to Gary and Drake. She will be missed by all of us. Much love and prayers.
To Gary and family, you have my condolences.l pray that God will comfort you and your family doing this time. God's grace and mercy will bring you through.. He will be there for you morning, noon and night, he will comfort you and give you peace during this time Rev., Sandra Giles McBeth๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐พ
Gary, My deepest condolences to you and Drake & the other family members. I pray God's peace that surpasses all understanding & strength as you grieve the loss of the love of your life! May the memories that you all created get you through the days ahead. This be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord.๐๐ฝ LaShay Montgomery Austin & Family
Gary and Drake, I am so sorry to hear of Harriet's transition to her heavenly home. She had such a sweet spirit that radiated like a breath of fresh air. Praying that God's strength and power will sustain you at this difficult time. Bert๐
Harriett will truly be missed! I'll never forget her contagious smile and vibrant energy. With sisterly and genuine love and concern, she always looked out for those she encountered! This is what made her such an awesome person and joy to have in your presence. Now, "to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord"! Rest in peace! Until we meet again- Farewell, friend!
Miss u family R.I.P
Gary and family Our thoughts and continued prayers to you and the family during this difficult time. May God keep you all in His eternal care... Darren and Christie Wright
My condolences to you Dr.Nesmith and your family , Harriett and I were classmates at Seneca High, Her love will continue on
I met Harriet while working at WOM-Spartanburg! She was a sweet person always gave encouraging words and always had a smile on her face! We had some great talks and laughs in her office! A strong woman who loved God, her family, and friends. A sweet beautiful person! She will be greatly missed! Prayers and comfort to her husband, son, brother, family and friends! Lamitris Sarter
To Dr. Gary Nesmith, my condolences to you and your family. May God continue to comfort you and give you peace. - Sesonya Fincher
I met Harriet a few years ago at SCDHHS it was always a pleasure to see and chat with her! We connected over our Oconee Co roots and common friends. I will surely miss my sweet friend, our jokes, her sweet smile and warm hugs. My heart and prayers go out to Gary, Drake and the rest of her family and friends.
Harriet was a treasure. To know her was to love her. Her kindness and vibrancy will always be remembered. My deepest condolences to the family and all her friends.
Harriet was as beautiful as her smile. Our Lord picked another lovely flower. Prayers with the family as you readjust. Emma S Garner Union SC
Harriet was a beautiful person inside and out. I met her at Claflin back in 1997. She was very sweet and funny and she could slay some hair to the Gods! She use to work at MMcDonald's and would hook me up. She and I spoke thru messenger on Nov 20th and she shared some things with me about her new diagnosis after she lost Kaitlin.... I honestly believe she died from a broken heart. ๐ She missed her baby girl more than anything.
My condolences to you cousin Gary and family. Be encourage, God will take care of you. Peace & Love, Cousin, Pastor Diana Davis
Gary you and your family have my deepest condolences. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Tracey Harmon
To Gary, Drake and Alonzo, Prayers for you in this time of sorrow. Harriet was my girl and she called me Mom because she was the daughter I had always wanted. I cherish our times together just as you do always. Praises to God on High. Love yall
Debra Hill Hunter
Deepest condolences, Cousin Gary you have my heart felt sympathy. When ever I saw Harriet she had a smile and personality that would light up any room. She will be missed. You are in our prayers. Sending condolences. Ritchie and Blondell Nesmith Smith
Gary & family, we are so saddened by the sudden loss of your beautiful wife Harriet. Please know that are prayers and thoughts are with you always. She is with our Lord Jesus and will be reunited with her precious daughter and other family members in heaven. May you and Drake know that we have you in our thoughts and prayers always....We love you all with all our hearts!!! Cathy & Larry Webber & family
My condolences to the family at this time of your loss my prayers are with the entire family. May God give you all the peace you need.
Love, Sonya Gillespie
Deepest sympathy is extended to you Gary and family. Harriet called me Momma ever since we met through my daughter Davice while at Claflin. What an angel she was! That smile radiated wherever we saw each other. Much love to the family.
Evangelist Ella Williams
Gary, I'm so sorry for your loss. Harriet was a beautiful Christian woman inside and out. Praying for your strength and comfort in the days ahead. Lara & Matthew Goodfellow
Or deepest condolences from Warren, Jameka, and Ashton Williams. Harriet was an amazing friend and well loved. She will be greatly missed. Praying for Gary and Drake.
To Gary and Family.Our thoughts and prayers are with you.Harriet was a pleasant young lady with a gentle smile.Demetra Monique Williams Jeter and Christine Peake Williams of Cross Keys Community, Enoree SC
Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.
