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Anitra Nelson

Passed 11/11/2023

Obituary For Anitra Nelson

Anitra LaVerne Howard Nelson, 65, of New Bern passed away Saturday, November 11, 2023.

Anitra's request was NO VIEWING at funeral home or church.

Her service is 11:00 AM, Thursday, November 16, 2023 at Clinton Chapel AMEZ Church, 1015 Church St., New Bern.

Funeral service will be held, Saturday, November 18, 2023 at Torrence Chapel AME Zion Church followed by the interment at Torrence Chapel Cemetery, Cornelius, NC.

She is survived by her husband, Jeffrey E. Nelson of the home; daughter, Angela (Eugene) Walker, New Bern; son, Jeffrey R. Nelson, Havelock; two grandchildren; brother, Steven (Deborah) Howard, Charlotte; sisters, Audrey Howard, Avery (Michael), Charlotte, Kerry (Milton) Smith, Kannapolis, NC and Kelly (Adrian) McNeely, Charlotte.

A. E. Grier & Sons Funeral Home 23210 Statesville Ave., Charlotte, NC is in charge of Charlotte Service.


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Angela and family -- we were so saddened to hear of your loss. Sending our deepest condolences and lots of hugs and love to you and your precious family.

Love, Gwen & Tom

Condolences from the Simmons family (Donnie and Shauna Simmons). I worked with Anitra at Mecklenburg County CSE. Anita was such a sweet person. When we visited Newbern, where my husband is from a few times years ago I would stop in to visit her and her family. Praying for strength and peace for the family.❤️

To: Jeffrey & Family, Our deepest condolences to you and the family. Much Love (Fam), Barbara Hawkins Perry, Donnica & D'Onnica Perry !!!

Condolences to The Family of Anitra Nelson. She was such a blessing to everyone. She truly taught the meaning of love and determination to all she touched. You will be missed my Friend. Carol Staley

To the Nelson family, thank you for sharing your angel with a Sidberry family. My mother, Carletha Sidberry, considered Anitra as her church daughter. I'm sure the two of them are celebrating in heaven right now. Anitra Nelson, a radiant soul who embraced selflessness, her love and giving nature touched countless lives, leaving a lasting legacy of compassion."

Pamala S. Turner

Anita was always a kind, gentle, soft-spoken and fun-loving person in Jr. High and High School.I'm deeply saddened to know God called her home. My sincere condolences and prayers to her family and friends. May God's love and peace comfort you. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️ Blessings, Trenna Ross McQuirter

Jeffrey, sadden to hear of the passing of your beloved wife. Covering you and the family in prayer. Shirley Smith, Chicago

Jeffrey sadden to hear of the passing of your beloved wife. Covering you and the family in prayer. Shirley Smith, Chicago

Sadden to hear of the passing of your beloved wife. Covering you and your family in prayer. Shirley Smith, Chicago 💕

My sincerest condolences to Anitra's family. Anita and I were Child Support colleagues. Daisie Blue, former Chief, Child Support Services, Raleigh, NC

My love and prayers for the family. I met Anitra in 1990 while working at Craven Co. Child Support. We had multiple professional relationships. We were co-workers at first, then I was her supervisor, then she was my supervisor. She was such an easy going person, a quiet presence and always fair. We loved talking about our families whom she loved fiercely, we often aligned on religion and social issues. When we chatted, nothing was off the table. She taught me so much about racism and privilege but always in a loving gentle way. I remember she set up and manned a room during Black History month in the mall for years, she loved giving back and sharing her inclusive views with the community she served. She was a quiet and gentle warrior for social justice. She wanted to make this world a better place for her children and grandchildren. I used to joke that I don't normally "keep" work friends as friends after leaving a job but she was the exception. Always exceptional. - Gwen Lessard

Anitra was a coworker, boss, and longtime friend of mine at Craven CSE. She was passionate about her family and her faith. She will be missed greatly. My sincere condolences to her family.

Linda Lee

My condolences to the family. Mrs. Anitra gave me my first professional job with Child Support. She was always very professional and carrying.

Miranda Jenkins

My sincere condolences, love and prayers.

Omega Autry

Omega Autry

May Prayers are with you and your family during your time of grief. Rovesia Jenkins-White

My sincere condolences to family. I pray strength in this time of bereavement. Yes,your chain has been broken,but know she will always be in your (our) hearts. Resting now. Vonda Latten

"A Dove gone but not forgotten!" So many memories...You will be missed Cuz!

T.Howard

I used to work with Anitra at Child Support and we became friends. She was always there for me as a friend and she had a beautiful spiritual soul. Praying for strength and comfort for her family. She will truly be missed. Diane Rivers Vaughn

Anitra and I worked at Child Support Enforcement, and became Continental Women together. What a joy and a pleasure to be in her company. There was an incident while working together where she and I laughed at Parena Fonville about becoming pregnant, and the next thing we knew she and then I became pregnant also.

May Faith give you strength, May Prayers bring you comfort. Thinking of you and praying for you at this difficult time. Sharon C. Holloway Bryant and Family

My sincere condolences to Ms. Anitra's family. What a beautiful soul she still is. Praying that God will comfort and strengthen you all as He heals your hearts.

Vivian Hargett

Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

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