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Charity Dudley Barrow

Passed 10/20/2025

Obituary For Charity Dudley Barrow

Charity Dudley Barrow,82, of Bayboro was peacefully called to rest on Monday, October 20, 2025.

Her service arrangements are pending.

Charity is survived by one son, Darien O'Shea Fisher; one grandson, Darien Z. Fisher; two brothers, Sam Dudley (Betty) and Gene Dudley; one sister, Salona Scott; a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.


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My heart is broken because cousin Charity would come to hug me every time she would see me and asked how I was doing! She was always smiling and letting me know that she loved me. Rest in Peace, cousin Charity! You are already missed, but will be FOREVER IN MY HEART ❤️

Prayers and heartfelt condolences to the family 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Ruth Jones Ligon

So sorry for your loss

Tanika Ollison

So sorry for your family loss it is just a praying 🙏🏽 time hold on to God Almighty 🙏🏽 he is the only way 🙏🏽

Andre Midgett

They say you get to pick your friends but not your family. I say that's not true because you chose me to be your sister in every way. You were my children's Aunt Chat and you treated them like you were. I will forever be reminded of how you said my name. O'Shea and family you know I will be there with you every step of the way. I love you all. Thanks O'Shea for sharing your mom with me and my girls.

Lillian Burley-Guion

"The Lord is close to the briokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." — Psalm 34:18 Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May the love of God sustain you. May His comfort surround you. May His peace abide in you.

Pamlico County Training-Pamlico Central School Alumni Association, Inc.

Our prayers and condolences to the family! Keep your focus on the Lord for comfort and strength!

Marion Smith-Dudley

To the immediate family of Charity, I'm sorry to hear about the death of our beloved Charity. As a first cousin, she was also very dear to me as well. Charity was a sweet and kind person. She let me stay with her doing my two months stay in NY. She would also take me to the beach and other places when I was younger. She always treated me kind as her younger cousin. May God bless her and make her grave peaceful, spacious, and full of light. I will miss her deeply. Family, stay strong and pray for her. Love Cousin Peggy

Peggy Garrison

Gene, our hearts go out to you and your family during this difficult time. We pray that you will find strength and comfort as you reflect great memories you shared with Charity. Gregory and Gloria Smith Russell (Formerly of Oriental, NC) Williamsburg, VA

Gregory and Gloria Russell

My friend Charity, I will miss you. O'Shea and family, she's resting and she will forever be in your hearts. Keep the memories in your heart and remember all the blessings you have because of her. I love you and I'm sending hugs and prayers. See you soon, Love, Charlotte #Chinchilla #RichAvenue

Charlotte Clark Turpin

RIP. Chat Jane and Sons

Jane

Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

Oscar's Mortuary, Inc. | New Bern, NC

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