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Charity Dudley Barrow

Passed 10/20/2025

Obituary For Charity Dudley Barrow

Charity Dudley Barrow, 82, of Bayboro was peacefully called to rest on Monday, October 20, 2025.

Viewing hours begin Thursday 9:00 AM to 6:00 PM.

Her Funeral service is 12:00 PM, Friday, October 31, 2025 at the New Bern Eastern Missionary Baptist Association Headquarters, 885 Hwy. 306 N., Grantsboro. Interment will follow in the Dudley Family Cemetery, Bayboro.

Charity is survived by one son, Darien O'Shea Fisher; one grandson, Darien Z. Fisher; two brothers, Sam Dudley (Betty) and Gene Dudley; one sister, Salona Scott; a host of nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.


Condolences & Tributes

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So sorry to hear of Charity's passing. She was a legend at camp. She will be missed. Hugs to all the family and friends.

Brenda Truell

My Condolences to the Family my heart goes out to each of you, may God continue to Bless You and give you Strength..

Evelyn Smith Dixon

It is with great sadness that Terry, Sally, and Walter Garrison wish to express their deepest sympathy for the passing of Charity Dudley, our relative and friend. There was a special bond between Charity and the Garrison Family as our relationship was grounded on friendship, commitment and love. Most especially, Charity was always there whenever mom (Helen) or dad (Walter) had a particular need. May God give her family peace and comfort during this difficult time of loss.

Terry Garrison

Just another soldier gone home. The families of Chinchilla Dr and Rich Lane share in your loss of Charity aka CHAT. Chat was that fun person to be around when she would come home to visit from NY and more so after she moved back home. We will miss her dearly and may God bless you all.

Chinchilla Dr./Rich Lane Community

My deepest sympathy to the family. My prayers are for strength and healing during this difficult period.

Katherine Smith Jones

To the family of Charity Dudley Barrow Family Charity and I were very close friends (Romantically) for a long time until we both began to take the Christian religion closely and saw that or lifestyles were not compatible with the teachings of Jesus Christ. So, our lifestyles changed and we became close friends but not romantically. And became more compatible with the teachings of Jesus Christ. When your lifestyle changes and you become a soldier in the Army of Jesus Christ you start with a clean slate, and we tried to keep it that way until the end. So, for the family of Charity, I will miss her and hope to meet again in that gear rapture in the great beyond. A true friend, A. J. Fisher

A. J. Fisher

Charity was such a wonderful fixture in our family's lives. With a warm and caring spirit, she always had time to stop and ask about each of us. We will always remember her with great fondness and love.

Henry, Ana, Loring, and Ward DeHart

Heaven has gained a very special angel. We'll miss you always Chat. Love hugs and prayers for the family. #CHINCHILLADR#300BLOCKALWAYS James and Fran Banks and Family

FRAN BANKS

My heart is broken because cousin Charity would come to hug me every time she would see me and asked how I was doing! She was always smiling and letting me know that she loved me. Rest in Peace, cousin Charity! You are already missed, but will be FOREVER IN MY HEART ❤️

Prayers and heartfelt condolences to the family 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Ruth Jones Ligon

So sorry for your loss

Tanika Ollison

So sorry for your family loss it is just a praying 🙏🏽 time hold on to God Almighty 🙏🏽 he is the only way 🙏🏽

Andre Midgett

They say you get to pick your friends but not your family. I say that's not true because you chose me to be your sister in every way. You were my children's Aunt Chat and you treated them like you were. I will forever be reminded of how you said my name. O'Shea and family you know I will be there with you every step of the way. I love you all. Thanks O'Shea for sharing your mom with me and my girls.

Lillian Burley-Guion

"The Lord is close to the briokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." — Psalm 34:18 Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May the love of God sustain you. May His comfort surround you. May His peace abide in you.

Pamlico County Training-Pamlico Central School Alumni Association, Inc.

Our prayers and condolences to the family! Keep your focus on the Lord for comfort and strength!

Marion Smith-Dudley

To the immediate family of Charity, I'm sorry to hear about the death of our beloved Charity. As a first cousin, she was also very dear to me as well. Charity was a sweet and kind person. She let me stay with her doing my two months stay in NY. She would also take me to the beach and other places when I was younger. She always treated me kind as her younger cousin. May God bless her and make her grave peaceful, spacious, and full of light. I will miss her deeply. Family, stay strong and pray for her. Love Cousin Peggy

Peggy Garrison

Gene, our hearts go out to you and your family during this difficult time. We pray that you will find strength and comfort as you reflect great memories you shared with Charity. Gregory and Gloria Smith Russell (Formerly of Oriental, NC) Williamsburg, VA

Gregory and Gloria Russell

My friend Charity, I will miss you. O'Shea and family, she's resting and she will forever be in your hearts. Keep the memories in your heart and remember all the blessings you have because of her. I love you and I'm sending hugs and prayers. See you soon, Love, Charlotte #Chinchilla #RichAvenue

Charlotte Clark Turpin

RIP. Chat Jane and Sons

Jane

Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

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