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Charles Wesley Fryar

10/29/1942 - 05/18/2020

Obituary For Charles Wesley Fryar

Charles Wesley Fryar, 77, of New Bern died Monday, May 18, 2020 at his residence.

His service is 11:00 AM, Friday, May 22, 2020 at New Bern Memorial Cemetery followed by the interment.

He is survived by his sons, Marcus Fryar of Hillsborough and Todd Fryar of Durham, NC; three brothers, Joseph Fryar of Burlington, NC, Aaron Victor Fryar of Clinton and Fulton Fryar Willingsboro, NJ; two grandchildren.

Due to the Coronavirus, services are following the Governor’s guidelines of (six) 6ft. apart and a limit of 50 attendees.

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This is truly heartbreaking so many of the good ones are leaving us behind. Mr.Fryar was a good man and he gave his time to so many of us helping out with the band at NBHS He will be missed. Much love to the Fryer family.

Sorry to see the notice of your family's loss. Our deepest regrets. The Petifer Family

Wesley and Toddis and the entire Fryar Family - our heartfelt condolences On the passing of your loving father. You guys has always been like family to us and knowing that our parents are now up there rejoicing together and no longer in pain. It is never easy to lose a parent. We pray for your peace and comfort during this period. He will always will be in our hearts ~If you need anything, we are just a phone call away ~ Love Always ~ Yolanda, Dennis and The Edwards Family.

I am sorry I cannot be with you today, but know that you are in my heart and prayers. Thelma Curry Chadwick

We are very saddened to hear of your loss. Please accept our heartfelt condolences.

Fayetteville State University Dr. Clarence Lloyd, President and the class of 1965

Marcus and Todd: The purpose of this missive is to let you know that I am sorry for the death of your father, and I want you to know that I have you and your family in my prayers.

Understandably, this must be a particularly difficult time for you; but the following words of comfort, I hope will enable you to get through this voided loss. Those we hold dear never truly leave us... They live on through the kindness they showed, the services they rendered and the joy and happiness they brought into our lives. When you reflect upon that statement, the loss of your father should be a little less painful for you. Therefore, I pass that statement on to you and your family with the hope that it will help sustain you and bring you successfully through this period.

I extend to you and your family my sincere condolences and please know that my kindest and warmest thoughts are with you.

--Walter Smith - Clinton, NC

To the Fryar family, Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. May God give you peace and comfort during this difficult time.

Faye Faison Waldorf, MD

To the Fryar family, Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. May God give you peace and comfort during this difficult time.

Faye Faison Waldorf, MD

My Deepest Sympathy. May God comfort and strengthen you in your time if sorrow.

It is with a heavy heart that I write expressions of love for my dear friend of over 55 years when I first met him and my dear late Soror Willie at Fayetteville State University. Charles and I started our first careers with Social Security Administration together. And though over the years we lived separate all over the states our friendship remained strong. Charles was such a kind and friendly person. Devoted to his family and loved his granddaughters. I am so blessed to have had him as a friend ~ the brother I never had. Marcus, Todd, and the entire Fryar family I pray that you find peace and comfort knowing that friends care. Lesterine Dancy Sturdivant, Class of '65 FSU.

Marcus and Todd,

I'm so sad to hear of Charles passing. We had many good times when we worked together at NBHS. I learned many things from him.

My heartfelt condolences are with you at this time. Sincerely, Brenda Kee

FSU Class of 1965.

Todd and Marcus, I was so sorry to hear of Charles's passing. I truly enjoyed getting to know both your late mother Willie and Charles in the 25 years that we lived and worked in New Bern.

When Charles came over to NBHS from HJ McDonald, I got to work closely with him on many matters and truly enjoyed my time with him on those. He was professional, witty, and wise. He and I would spend lots of time talking about you both, and he especially enjoyed hearing about our Sunday night hoops games!

I do hope that the memories of Charles will sustain you both during this time of sorrow and that you find comfort in knowing that he is with Willie now in the embrace of our Lord. Terry Fuhrman, Apex, NC

Dear Todd and Fryar family - My heartfelt condolences on the passing of Mr. Charles. With love, Kendyle Woodard

Sorry to hear of the passing of Charles; Charlie, as I called him.

Dr. Ed Bell, Raleigh, NC

Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

Oscar's Mortuary, Inc. | New Bern, NC

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