James Dunham Obituary in New Bern at Oscar's Mortuary, Inc.

Obituary For James Dunham

James J. Dunham, born November 22, 1938, in Hensonville, NY, to Leon and Catherine (Cullen) Dunham, passed away peacefully on December 24, 2024.

James was predeceased by his sister Francis Dunham Lott Mazzeo. He is survived by his beloved wife, Dorothy (Jacobs) Dunham; his three sons, Mark (Debbie), Scott (Lisa), and Andrew; his cherished grandchildren, Morgan Miller (Jimmy and their three children), Zachary (Kendall), Elise, Cullen, and Caleb, his sister Ellen Wood.

James dedicated over 20 years of his career to the New York State electricians union IBEW before relocating to New Bern, NC, in the mid-1980s. In New Bern, he continued his work as an electrical superintendent at Cherry Point and later oversaw new construction projects at Craven County Airport. Beyond his professional accomplishments, James had a passion for remodeling homes and woodworking, pursuits that reflected his skillful craftsmanship and creativity.

A man of deep faith and community involvement, James was an active member of St. Paul’s Catholic Church in New Bern. He also participated in the Knights of Columbus and the Elks Lodge, contributing to causes close to his heart.

James will be remembered for his dedication to his family, faith, and community. His legacy lives on through the lives he touched and the memories shared by those who knew him.

Visitation hours will be Thursday, December 26th between 4 and 6 P.M. with a Rosary at 5:30 P.M. at Oscar's Mortuary - 1700 Oscar Drive, New Bern, NC. A funeral Mass will be held at 11 A.M. on Friday December 27th at Saint Paul's Catholic Church located at 3005 County Club Road, New Bern, NC .

In lieu of flowers donations can be made in his name to Religious Community Services, 919 George Street, New Bern, NC 28560.

May his memory bring comfort to all who mourn his passing.

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Dottie, I am sorry to read this as I just got back into town. Jimmy was always willing to help anyone in need. I will remember him fondly helping Larry while he was sick with his handiwork in our house to make things easier for him. He was that kind of guy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family and I wish for the Lord to surround you with oeace and comfort in the coming days. Diane Spallanzani

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Dottie, I am so sorry to read this as I just got back into town. My heart goes out to you and I wish for you and your family some comfort and peace in the days ahead. I will always remember Jimmy's handiwork in my house while Larry was sick to make things easier for him. He was always willing to help. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Diane Spallanzani

Diane spallanzani

Dottie so sad to hear of Jim's passing. We were away up north and didn't know. I remember you and Jim being the first to welcome us to the neighborhood. Will miss seeing Jim puttering around the yard. Rest easy Jim Kathy and Michael

Dottie, we are so very sorry to hear about Jim. I didn't know about it until just now...too late to attend either visitation or funeral. Prayers for you and your whole family. Hugs to you especially, sweet lady. 💔 Karen and Mike Moore

Dottie, We are so sorry to hear about Jim. We wish we could be with you during this sad time. He was a great guy who will be missed by many. Know our prayers and thoughts are with you and all your family. Don and Jean Hanson

Don Hanson

Dear Dottie and family, Nick and I are so very sorry for your loss. Jim was always so fun at Scott and Lisa's Christmas Eve Parties. He was friendly and easy to talk to. Scott always talked so highly of his dad. A sure sign of what a great father he was and a great man.

The legacy of Jim Dunham is hours of time and talent that he gave freely over the years to the Saint Paul Catholic Church. He and Dottie were there most every time when volunteers were needed for what ever projects were proposed. It is a privilege to have known Jim and Dottie in the early years of being a Catholic convert. Both my husband, Jerry, and I were strongly influenced in active church membership by Jim and Dottie. May God rest his soul and provide Dottie comfort and peace in her hour of need. Darlene Tracy

Sincere condolences to the family. May he Rest in Heavenly Peace. Joan Fisher Sidberry

Dottie, my message is below without a name. Linda Gaskins

Dottie, I am so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. You were inseparable and had such a wonderful relationship. I wanted you to know of my warm thoughts and prayers for you in the days ahead. May God grant you special comfort and peace, my friend.