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Malissa "Dee Dee" Oden Cutler

Passed 03/14/2022

Obituary For Malissa "Dee Dee" Oden Cutler

Malissa "Dee Dee" Oden Cutler,76, of 19138 Hwy. 33 Edward, NC passed, Monday, March 14, 2022 at her home.

The service may be viewed on Oscar's Mortuary Facebook Page.

Viewing hours are 9:30 AM to 5:30 PM Thursday at Oscar's Mortuary and an hour prior to the service at the Tabernacle.

Funeral services 12:00 pm Friday, March 18,2022, at New Bern Eastern M.B. Headquarters, Grantsboro, NC. The interment will follow at Garden of Memories Cemetery.

She is survived by her husband, Charlie Cutler of the home, son, Steven Cutler of Willow Spring, NC; daughter, Vickie Cutler Turner, Durham, NC; her brother, Jack L. Oden, Grimesland, NC; five grandchildren. Masks are required and social distancing followed. All guests will be seated upon entering the building as requested by the Tabernacle Officials.


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During this silence time peace, and graceful prayers To your family, precious lord take thy in time of grieving and sorrow, take thee to a peaceful place to rest and yearn the power of the Father, the Son and Holy Spirit ... Shaunterria

One of the most beautiful spirits that God placed upon this earth. Love you Mrs. Dee Dee and you will always be loved and missed. Love Serena, Micheal and Jordan Bryant.

Our deepest condolences to the Cutler and Oden families. Ernest and Jo-Anne Clemons

Our deepest condolences to the Cutler and Oden families.

Charlie, prayers for you and your family. Dee Dee was such a sweet person. I enjoyed working with her at Texasgulf. Sincerest sympathy, Pat Lewisu

God bless your family.

I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of Mrs. Dee Dee. I pray for moments of peace and comfort for your family in this difficult time and may you find strength and peace in God's love. ~Tashani Gaskins

Sending love and prayers to the Cutler family, who were so gracious to me while I was growing up. My childhood friendship with Vickie will always be special to me and my family. God Bless and comfort the family during this difficult time. -Alicia Fields-Minkins

Our Prayers go out to the Cutler family. May God strengthen you and give you peace. πŸ™πŸΌ Napoleon & Catherine Minor Family. ❀️UπŸ™πŸΌ

Correction (Please don't charge this to my heart, charge it to my age): I thank God for the care you've shown me through the years, for the closeness we've enjoyed in times of laughter. Love your brother: Jack,(Mary)

The message below was sent by Arbell Minor Harrington. 3/18/22.

To Charlie, Steven, Vickie and family. I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. DeeDee was a very nice person who was kind to everyone she met, always willing to cook those good foods at church and do whatever someone called upon her to do. May God comfort you and get you through this time of sadness..May your happy memories of her sustain you in the days to come, knowing that she is no longer in pain. Sorry that I could not be there during this time but I had a complete hip replacement surgery 3 days ago. God bless you all. πŸ™πŸΎπŸ™πŸΎ

I Thanked God for the caring you've show me through the years, for the closeness we've enjoyed in time of laughter. Love your brother: Jack/Mary

DeeDee I loved cycling with you and building a forever friendship. Your smile and laugh lit up a room. Your strength and positive outlook was an inspiration to us all. Your love was felt by so many!!! Rest easy my friend XOXO Angela Harne

My deepest condolences and prayers To Cutler family.πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ» πŸ’— From: Mr. Clevester & Virginia Speight and family.

Our deepest sympathy and condolences to the Cutler family. Kenneth and April Ham

Our deepest sympathy and condolences to the Cutler family

My condolences to the Cutler Family.

My condolences to the Cutler family.

I would like to send my heartfelt condolences to the Cutler family in the loss of a wife or sister a mother I understand and know your pain I will always remember her as the person who sung with a heart and soul. Ethel Blount Dallas North Carolina

Praying for Charlie and family, Dee Dee was a friend to everyone, always offering to help when needed, I was blessed to know her while working with her in the Purchasing Dept. she helped me several times, we worked as a team. May the family find comfort in the fact that she was a devoted child of God loving wife to Charlie good mother to her son and daughter and a good friend to all she had contact with. Curtis and Phyllis Ormond

May the love and peace that only God can give, surround and strengthen you at this time. We loved and will miss Dee Dee. She had such a genuine, gracious and loving heart. A woman who lived her faith, may she sleep peacefully now in the arms of our Lord. The Williams-Mattocks Family

My deepest sympathy to your family. She was a wonderful woman who loved God and her family. Be comforted knowing the she has taken her wings! Love you all! William Earl Mccabe, Jr and family. Columbia, SC

What a true Lady and Servant of God!!! Mrs. Dee Dee was one of the 1st people I met at Vidant Gym, we encouraged and laugh at each other. She was my inspiration!!! Always a smile and encouraging word. Miss her sweet smile. Love you Mrs. Dee Dee, you will always be my Sunshine Lisa Hardison

Keeping you all in my prayers. May God Comfort you as the days continue to come and go.

Shay Jordan-Adrian

Our deepest condolences to the Cutler family. Clinton (DJ), Hattie Frances and family. Port Republic, MD.

Praying God's blessings of peace, comfort and strength for your family. Only God can heal the hurt and bring everything you need. Trust and depend on him. He will take care of you. God bless you all. Dee Dee will be missed. She made a lasting impression on the people who were acquainted with her. Thank God for all she did while she was here.

We are so sorry for your loss. Mother Dee Dee was a beautiful lady both inside and out with a heart of gold. She will be missed by many. We pray that God will give you strength, peace and comfort in the days ahead. -WC & Laura Boyd

We are deeply saddened to learn about Mrs. Dee Dee's passing. Our prayers go out to Mr. Charlie and their entire family. Such a loving and kind family. Mrs. Dee Dee was so sweet. May you all find comfort in the love that you had for each other. Jack and Terri Vaughan

Charlie I have you and family in prayer. Be blessed. Ed Pollock and family.

My condolences to the family. Aunt Dee Dee was a person who loved like a mother, kept secrets like a sister, and gave great advice like a true friend. She was a mother, sister, and a true friend to me each time I came to visit her. Thank you, Tannica Crosby (live in Georgia)

My deepest condolences to the family. Aunt Dee Dee was a person who loved like a mother, kept secrets like a sister, and gave great advice like a true friend. She was like a mother, sister, and a true friend to me each time I came to visit her. Thank you, Tannica Crosby (from Georgia)

To the Cutler Family you have my deepest condolences, Mrs Dee Dee was the sweetest lady. We became close at the gym we would always talk and laugh. I pray that God will give you all the strength you need to make it through God bless you all Donna Kay Stilley Ross

Charlie, Vickie and Steven you all are in our thoughts and prayers. She was always the sweetest with her beautiful smile. May God hold you near to Him during this time. Love you all. Tabitha Fulford & family.

Charlie and family, so sorry for your loss. Dee Dee was always so sweet and kind. Jimmy and Belinda Hardy

Sorry for your loss Charlie and family praying for you. John and Debbie Carrow

Our condolences to the Cutler family. There are no words to describe the hurt and pain you are feeling. We pray that God gives you comfort and strength during this time. We will always remember Mama Dee Dee for her kind and loving heart as well as her delicious meals and hospitality. She will truly be missed. -The Brown Family

May God give you peace and comfort during this time and know that we will continue to lift your family up in prayer. Gene and Rosemary Williamson

Although our hearts are breaking here on earth, heaven is rejoicing because another angel has joined our large majestic family of angels who are helping God protect us and guide us on earth. Oh, how she is being showered with love here and with our loved ones who are in heaven. Cousin Dee Dee was a force of nature, truly spectacular! Her trademark was relentless love, faith and strength. We love you cousin Dee Dee! We will continue to love-on Cousin Charlie, Steven and his family, Vicki and her family and our family patriarch Jack. Our prayers are with you all - Big Mike, Roxanne, Little Mike.

OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY AND CONDOLENCES TO DEACON CHARLIE CUTLER AND FAMILY. MAY GOD CONTINUE TO GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME. FROM; MR & MRS. SAMUEL YATES AND FAMILY.

OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY AND CONDOLENCES TO DEACON CHARLIE CUTLER AND FAMILY OF THE LOSS OF YOUR LIFE. MAY GOD CONTINUE TO GIVE YOU STRENGTH DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME. LOVE FROM MR. AND MRS.SAMUEL YATES AND FAMILY

Extending our deepest sympathies to the Cutler Family on the loss of your beloved mother and wife. May God's love bring peace and comfort to you all during your time of bereavement. -Veronica Parks & Family

To the Culter family, Our heavenly father saw this beautiful angel, Sister Dee Dee Culter and decided to call her home, a true woman of God that serve faithfully unto God, her family, and her church. Family continue to look to the hill, God has never made a mistake and he will give you strength you need to go through in times like these. Our sister is sleeping in the master arms. Be Bless

Charlie, Vickie, Steven & family: Dennis & I are deeply saddened to learn of Dee Dee's passing. Our thoughts & prayers are of & for each of you & the extended family!

Dee Dee was simply amazing! We will always remember our time of great fellowship, good food & laughter that we shared over the years!

May God surround you all with His love & peace!❀️🌷

Dennis & Theresa Adkins

Our deepest sympathy and condolences to the Cutler family. May God wrap his loving arms around you and comfort you. -LaTwana Oliver and Family

Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

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