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Pamela Denise Bluford

09/23/1965 - 12/17/2020

Obituary For Pamela Denise Bluford

Pamela Denise Barbee Bluford, 55, of Havelock died Thursday, December 17, 2020 at CarolinaEast Medical Center.

The family will have a private remembrance service on Saturday, December 26 2020.

She is survived by her daughter, Jada Bluford; son, Emery Lane, Havelock; brothers, Robert Barnes, Havelock, Michael Barnes, Selma, NC and Chaun Coley of NC.


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I Will Treasure The Beautiful Memories Of Sister Pamela ❤️ Rest In Heaven!!

I will always treasure the beautiful memories of you ❤️ May God give the family peace beyond understanding during this time. What a great loss 🙏🏽!! Rest In Heaven!

GLORIA HYMAN ~

Condolences to the Bluford family. Another angel has gain her wings. Sleep in peace my dear friend. May God comfort the Bluford and Barnes family. I will truly miss Pam. Peace Grace and Mercy, Love Deborah Carpenter, Washington, DC.

Heartfelt condolences to my family during this most difficult time...Sheila Pierce Whitaker

Heartfelt condolences to my family during this difficult time... Sheila Pierce Whitaker

Memories of you will forever be in my heart. Love Sonjia Pierce

Pam was a dear friend and I will miss her and our conversations greatly. She was my hairdresser for many years, and she was the best hairdresser I've ever had. My thoughts and prayers are with her family. May God comfort you all. Rosa Elliso

Pam was a dear friend, I watched her grow into a beautiful hair stylist. Her mother Pat use to do my hair when I first came to NC and when her mother left Pam became my hair dresser. In all the years that I have known this family they had become my family away from home. My deepest condolences to the family. Pam and Pat Rest In Peace you are now reunited in our fathers house. Dianne

Pam I will miss your cooking, your pinto beans and biscuits, your hearty laughter!!! But most of all your smile that showed the world your big heart ❤️!! Heaven has gained another angel. RIP cuz with your mom! Josia Jean Joyner Jackson

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Angela/Michael Barnes, Words can never express what you are feeling now. Just know that you did your part with love and support and you will be blessed. Praying for this family with healing.

My heart is broken as I mourn the death of my dear cousin Pam. I will remember her as a caregiver often putting the needs of others before her own. We shared many laughs and she was my confidant and friend. Rest well Pam, good and faithful servant. Well done. Shelia Joyner Morton

My very good friend just like a sister. You started out as my hairstylist and it blossomed into a sisterhood. You chose me to be your Matron of Honor at your wedding and made me Honorary Godmother to Jada when she was born. I'm going to miss you so much and I will never stop loving you my sissy/friend. I know your mom is waiting to greet you in heaven with open arms. Love and Tears, Debbie Hunt

Pam was a beloved person she was my hairdresser for years I truly love Pam Sorry for your lost Joyce Edelen and family

Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

Oscar's Mortuary, Inc. | New Bern, NC

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