Modeste was born April 25, 2001, in Rocky Mount, NC and moved to Greensboro, NC at the age of 2 months where she lived until her passing on 12/19/2021. Although she was here only 20 short years, she left a long-lasting impact on her family and friends.
Modeste is the oldest of three children by her mother (Shannell) and father (Roderick). Her younger sister (Makahlen) and brother (Devon) will deeply miss her but forever have her in their hearts. Modeste is the oldest grandchild of Herman Lucas and Linda Barnes. She is the oldest niece to her aunt Bernetta and was like a big sister to her cousin Ayden. She is also thought of as a niece by her mother’s best friend Ronnette. Modeste has many family members including two uncles on her mother’s side, an aunt and uncle on her father’s side and a host of cousins, great aunts, and great uncles.
Modeste graduated from Dudley High School in June 2019 and began her freshman year at UNCG shortly after. She was to follow in her mother’s footsteps and graduate from UNCG and continue to obtain her master's degree from NC A&T State University. Modeste majored in biology with hopes of becoming a doctor or physical therapist in the future. Modeste was in her junior year at UNCG at her time of passing.
Modeste had many friends over the years that she truly loved and cared for. She and her best friend/boyfriend Brenden Neal were inseparable until she became ill and later passed away. Modeste spent most of her spare time playing Playstation with her friends Wanya, Najee, Elijah, Jaylen, Jirel, and RJ. She also enjoyed catching up with her high school best friends; Ayana, Khiyah, Dominique, Naneise, Tiosha, Naria, Morrisa, and Maria. Modeste had also made new friends during her part-time employment.
Although Modeste had many people that care about her, she and her mother were like sisters and could depend on each other to always be there and love one another no matter what. She will forever live in her mother’s heart.
A Celebration of Life service will be held privately for immediate family and her friends only. The family ask that only those invited attend.
Livestream will be available on the day of the service.
Professional services are entrusted to Perry J. Brown Funeral Home.
I will always hold you dear to my heart. I miss you so much. Another year has come in and you are not in it with us but you are in a better place in the loving arms of JESUS. Sleep on my darling your maa maa loves you. Linda Barnes
My condolences to this family. I pray for strength and confront. Continue to trust in the Lord and lean not to your own understanding. Peace & Grace.
Jo Ann Wilkins & Family
Our deepest condolences to the family.. we love y'all and we're here for ANYTHING.. Linwood & Lynette Campbell
Our sincere condolences to the family and friends of Modeste.. we're here if you ever need us for anything. I remember Modeste being a sweet girl and having a lot of love for her aunt Bernetta aka Benny.. I love y'all and my heart is heavy for you... The Campbell Family
My heart hurts as I share my condolences with the family. May the Lord comfort you during this time and always know that there are those of us that love you and are praying for you. Call on us if you need anything.
Modeste has such a good soul I know she's resting in paradise right now. Prayers to her and her family as God gets them through this time of grievance♥️
- Justin
Our deepest condolences. Forever in our thoughts and prayers. ...The Simmons family
Sending prayers of peace and comfort to the family during this time! I remember Modeste from her days at Vandalia and what a bright, sweet child she was! She will most definitely be missed!- Ms Clements
My teammate and childhood friend💜I'm going to miss you girl. I'm so glad I was given the privilege to know you. From peeler to countless basketball tournaments, we made so many memories that I'll cherish forever. Rest well beautiful😘
-Morrisa Owens
Grace and Peace Shannell & Family, although we are at lost for words, we are still trusting and clinging to Christ Jesus for hope, strength and peace during this time. Praying for you and your family. Love you, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted; he rescues those whose spirits are crushed." Psalms 34:18 NLT 🕊❤️
Sorry for your loss. Stay strong
My dear son Roderick and family, may you find comfort in the years that God loaned Modeste to you. Each individual belongs to Him and when the time is right He calls one home. It is good to know that He has a place especially prepared for us. Hold on to the memories you hold in your heart, and therefore she will always be there. Always remember that as we travel throughout our lifetime we meet many people along the way, therefore wherever a beautiful soul has traveled, it always leaves behind a trail of beautiful memories and because she was your daughter, I believe that she possessed such a beautiful soul. Love you all your other mom, Mrs. Harmon!
My dear son Roderick and family, may you find comfort in the years that God loaned Modeste to you. Each individual belongs to Him and when the time is right He calls one home. It is good to know that He has a place especially prepared for us. Hold on to your memories for you hold in, you will always be there. Always that as we travel throughout our lifetime we meet many people therefore wherever a beautiful soul has traveled, it leaves behind a trail of beautiful memories and because she was a daughter, I believe that she possessed such a beautiful soul. Love you all your other mom, Mrs. Harmon!
Modesty memory will be forever in my heart. Remind me those Thanksgiving fun days at aunt Frances. Shannell and the family I give you much love And my deepest condolences
Modeste was my first best friend & definitely was like a little sister to me 💗 Not a day goes by that i haven't thought about you. I love you more than you know . I miss you beyond what words could ever explain ❤️🩹 - Sincere 💗
My childhood friend Modeste you will truly be missed! You could always make me laugh and were such a sweet and beautiful person inside and out!! Too soon but will never be forgotten.-Love Anaiyah
Modeste it was to soon for u to go I remember we first play together on the PlayStation and after that we became friends and all u do I will sure miss you still I see u again 💚💜 -Jirel W
I appreciate you for always looking out for me and giving me advice for my problems, you'll be missed by me and the guys .❤️ Much Love-Wanya
Modeste it was to soon for u to go I remember we first play together on the PlayStation and after that we became friends and all u do I will sure miss you still I see u again ❤️❤️ -Jirel W
Our little dysfunctional family that you've grown to love over the years will never be the same. You were closer to me than my actual blood sisters and I'll always cherish the memories we've shared over the years. Love ya sis and I'll see you again one day.💚💜-Eli
Our little dysfunctional family that you've grown to love over the years will never be the same. You were closer to me than my actual blood sisters and I'll always cherish the memories we've shared over the years. Love ya sis and I'll see you again one day. 💚💜
Had soo many memories with you in less than 2 years. Not seeing you everyday is gonna take some getting used too, I'll Miss you Modeste and I can't wait to see you again. I love you❤ -Brenden
Sending my condolences to the family. Forever in my prayers.
You will be truly missed Modeste. That beautiful smile always lit up the room. ❤️❤️ You will forever be in our hearts- Jessica McNair & Family
Our deepest condolences go out to Shannell and family. We are truly sorry for your loss . But God has a master plan. Your daughter's memory will last forever. Our prayers are with you Herman, Linda and all family members!!! Sincerely, The Perry's
Our hearts weep for a beautiful young lady gone way too soon. But we all know God has the master plan. Prayers go out to my brother Herman Lucas and all of his family. Linda I could never imagine such a lost. We know God is in control!! We love you modesty! Shannell, you are in our hearts and God will provide some relief. With Loving memories, The Perrys ( Ray, Dalphine and Dr. Victory Perry!
Modesty was a great big sister, and had her way of doing things. Ww will miss you Modesty, but will cherish the memories of you. Rest on Sweetheart. Gone too soon.
Modeste, such a sweet loving person. My heart felt condolences to the family. I pray God will continue to bless you all with His peace,comfort & strength during this difficult time. I pray that your strength will come from family and friends who care and 20 years of wonderful memories with your beloved Modeste. Much Love, Ms Amy
Your maa maa loves you so much. We will see each other again in Heaven. Love you forever! Linda Barnes
To my beautiful grand daughter who was and is still a very sweet child. She will truly be missed. She will always remain in my heart. Sleep my darling in the LORD's loving arms. W
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Those we love don't go away, but walk beside us everyday. You will missed.
Love,
Corabeth Smith
My sincere condolences to the family. Praying the comfort and strength of the Holy Spirit will keep,substain you all at this difficult time and days ahead. Blessed are they that mourn for they shall be comforted.
Emma Pitchford Magee
My prayers and condolences to the family. May the family continue to find strength in the days ahead through Gods grace and mercy and the loving memories Modeste lives behind. Lee E. Small
Praying for the family, friends, and loved one of this precious angel!
Pastor Everett and 1st Lady Kendra Silver & Family (Rocky Mount, friends & co-worker of Bernetta)
PRAYERS ARE LIFTED FOR HERMAN LUCAS AND FAMILY, MAY GOD GIVE ALL OF YOU CARE, COMFORT, AND STRENGTH TO GET THRU. FRANCES GASTON PACK & FAMILY (ELM CITY AND WILSON, NC)
PRAYERS ARE LIFTED FOR HERMAN LUCAS AND FAMILY.
PRAYERS ARE LIFTED FOR HERMAN LUCAS AND FAMILY, MY CONDOLENCES GOES OUT TO ALL OF YOU.
Modeste we will always love you and forever miss you💜 Rest In the arms of the Lord sweet Angel🤍🤍
Grace,Hill, Overton & Baldwin Family
Sending love and prayers your way. Modeste will truly be missed. Kady❤️
God Bless. You will be missed. Prayers to the family. From Aunt Yvonne and family.
Prayers of comfort and strength for the family as we offer our sincerest condolences. Terrell and Family❣
My deepest condolences to the family. Praying for strength and God's everlasting mercy for you all.
God bless you all during this difficult time! Forever in our hearts! Arlene and Shaquanda
You will truly be missed. We love you all! Tonya
My prayers and condolences to the family. - The Hudgins
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