John Willie Pretlow, Jr.

I looked up Mr. Pretlow because I've been meaning to send him a thank you card for years. I'm sorry that I waited too long. He was my landlord for 5 years and he awesome always empathetic, kind and understanding even when I was late on rent. He was an amazing landlord and wonderful person.

Please know we send our prayers and condolences to you, Cousin Shirley, Michelle, Vikki Lynn, and John. We love you. Cousins Nina McEaddy and Brett Johnson Bowie, Maryland.

There are many fond memories of John. I remember the wonderful family reunions. He was supported and wanted to see his family do well. I remember when he and Shirley surprised me when I moved into my house in Mt.Laurel, NJ. and came back and we spent other good times together. You all are such a warm loving family. Thanks for the smiles of encouragement you gave me along the way.The bottom line is John knew our Lord Jesus Christ. Shirley, Michelle, Vicki, John-John, May God provide comfort and His strength to you day by day. Bernice Ford, New Jersey.

Light and Love, I am sorry for Pertlow family lost. John was a good person.. may God love shine down on the family. Bobby Ford

To the Pretlow, my condolences on your loss. May God's Love keep you at peace. Bettye Robinson and Family.

One of my great memories of John is when I joined the Trustee's ministry at Westwood. He was the chair, with only men, so here he now have three women to join. I am a determined and opinionated person, we clashed and talk thru and because of the talk thru, we have gained so much more respect for each other. His smile always even when we clashed, was something I will always remember! He was someone I called on for his knowledge and experience! You will be miss! RIP my friend!

With deepest sympathy, the Miles Family Arie, Trey and Toy, Charlotte,N C. Remembering John at the Family Reunions he always had such a sweet, sweet spirit about him. Love you all..

With deepest sympathy and love from The Miles Family, Arie, Trey and Toy ,Charlotte,N.C. We Love you all and sending up prayers of comfort.

One of my fondest memories is John coming down the soul train line with his famous rock. Big fun! Great memories! He was always about striving for excellence, being supportive, reaching higher, and getting an education. John was truly our patriarch (our organizer) in the Winston family and he was much loved and highly respected. It's hard to refer to him in the past tense but he was surely a soldier for good, peace, and harmony. We will surely miss John Pretlow. Much love to Shirley, Michelle, Vickie, John-John, and your families. Each moment in a day has its own value. Morning brings Hope. Afternoon brings Faith. Evening brings Love. Night brings Rest. Praying that you find them all day - every day. Carolyn F. Bailey, Springdale, MD

To my cousin Shirley, Michelle, Vikki Lynn, and John John, I'm going to miss cousin John at the family reunions. He was such a kind man. Remember God loves you, and that He is always there for you and that He will always take care of you Your cousin Delores Miles Crawford...Gary, IN

John and I grew up in Westwood and rode the school bus down to Carver school. We have been friends for more than 70 years. Our parents were great friends over the years. Our families were very close. JoAnn, Revado and John and my brother Ronald had some great times in Westwood and in Northside when both of our families moved there in the 50's. We kept in touch over the years as we went in different directions in life. We reconnected in the mid 80's and shared ideas and concepts as we set up our Insurance agencies. These interactions helped us both become better owners on the years. I would tell John that he was one of the good guys in a white hat. Rest In Peace by brother, your legacy of helping others will never be forgotten.

George & Sylvia Warden Goodyear, Az

John's smile and his robust laugh will be forever etched in my mind! Our sincere condolences to you , Shirley and the family. Charles and Tish

I will always remember when John and Shirley came to see me and Yvonne in Hartford Ct. I was so very very happy they were there, you were always special in the Winston clan , we loved you and we will always cherished your beautiful way and your special gift of being a wonderful beautiful person , to Shirley, Michelle, Vicki, and John-John your husband, and Father was a very very special person, love you guys so very much, our deepest condolences.

Our sincere condolences to the Pretlow Family. May God comfort you during this difficult time. Rose & Ernest Graham

To the Pretlow Family, You have my deepest condolences on the loss of Mr. Pretlow. Whenever I saw him, he would always have a smile on his face. I will miss that smile. Always had an encouraging conversation with him. May God continue to bless you and His presence continue to surround you. Min. Hope Page, Westwood Baptist Church

To The Pretlow Family, My deepest sincerest condolences for the loss of Mr. Pretlow. He was always such a nice man and always smiling. May God comfort and keep you during this time. Joshera Lambert-Booker

Michelle and family, so sorry for your loss. I have fond memories of your dad. May he Rest In Peace. Cecilia Bowles (Wendy's mom)

I miss the drives in the car, going over to your house, and you talking to me about basketball and life. You became another grandfather to me and for that I'm forever grateful. I miss everything about you, you became my closet family you did so much in life and were so generous to everyone and I'm glad that I got to have you in my life to call my papa .I will live everyday with you in my heart and I just want to say thank you for everything and I miss so much to the point I cant explain and I trying to figure how to go on without you here. Mckenze

My heart is broken. Thank you Uncke John for being an amazing man. Your laugh, wise words, calming presence, and our adventures (night fishing and snow shoveling are great memories) will be missed but not forgotten. You lived a life full of wonder, grace, and ambition. Thank you for being an example of a distinguished and accomplished gentleman. Thank you for always slipping me some gas money. I love you forever. My love and peace to Aunt Shirley, Michelle, Vikki, and John-John, may his light forever shine within you.

Dear Michelle and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of profound loss. Be encouraged in knowing that your dearly departed is in the hands of our lord and savior and that you will see him again. Love you all to life. And may John rest in power! Love, Sally, Vincent and Little Vincent DaSilva

To the family of John: Five things God wants you to remember in trying times are You are never. Ever alone, nothing takes Him by surprise; When you are weak, He is strong; He is the God of new beginnings; and His love never gives up on us. You can trust Him to carry you through. I will miss that smile and loving way of his. I hope my life is lived as well as his. I will continue to prey for all of you. Love, and God bless...M.L. Murphy

Michelle and family, may your memories give you comfort during your time of mourning. Matthew 5:4 Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. With deepest sympathy Veronica Thomas and family. East Orange, NJ

Our sincere condolences to the entire Pretlow Family. May the Peace of the Lord be with you Always. — Joseph and Rowena Johnson, Fayetteville, North Carolina.

A very fine man and gentleman has gone. However, he has left a legacy of kindness that will long be remembered. My warn thoughts are with the family as we all share your loss. Elizabeth Lambert Johns

Thank you for sharing John Pretlow, Jr. with us....his love of family, entrepreneurship, business and community inspired those around him. We appreciate all the ways Mr. Pretlow contributed to Westwood and the Trustee Ministry. He will be forever remembered. Always, Team P3 - Pat, Perry & Paul

Your voice and your laughter will be missed. Thanks for inspiring my love of adventure and travel. Thanks for being willing to take me hunting despite where everyone else thought "girls ought not be". I'll love you forever~ C.Ross

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