Michael Lee Bigby, 65, of Richmond, VA, transitioned on November 7, 2024. Born on July 19, 1959 (though not officially recorded until July 20), in Anderson, South Carolina. He was the son of the late Henrietta Jones Bigby and Matthew Bigby. He was preceded in death by his seven brothers: Odell Bigby, Mackie Bigby, Ralph Bigby, Donnie Bigby, Charles Bigby, Theo Bigby, and Willie James Bigby.
He is survived by his daughter, Monique Bigby-Johnson (Jason), and his son, Malcolm Bigby, born to his former spouse, Vannette Stewart Bigby. Also surviving are his daughter, Crystal Straughter, born to Julia Frazier and his grandchildren: Jason Jr., Leah, Kevin, Lolah, Leeah, Malcolm Jr., Major, Maddison, and Myles.
Celebrating the life of their beloved brother, affectionately known as "Bo," are his siblings: Rosa B. Johnson (Wilbert), Calvin Bigby (Helen), Birdie Clinkscales (Franklin), Mary Johnson (Jessie), David Bigby, Robert Bigby (Debbie), Theresa Bigby, and Patricia Ward (Neal). He is also survived by sister-in-laws LaRue Bigby, JoAnn Bigby, a devoted sister-in-law Carolyn Bigby, and a multitude of loving nieces, nephews, other relatives, and friends.
Mike was a proud graduate of T.L. Hanna High School in Anderson, South Carolina, and went on to earn his degree from Virginia State University (VSU) in 1981. After graduating from VSU, he began his career as a Special Education Teacher in Richmond, Virginia, where he served students across elementary (Westhampton), middle (Chandler and Elkhardt), and high (Thomas Jefferson) schools. Mike taught and inspired students at the elementary, middle, and high school levels, not only as their teacher but also as a passionate coach of softball, football and basketball, a Kiwanis Club facilitator, and a leader of the Horticulture Club.
Later, Mike transitioned to the private school sector, continuing to support students with diverse disabilities and forming lasting friendships with his colleagues. Before his passing, he served as a Direct Support Professional, assisting adults with intellectual disabilities with their daily routines and on community-based field trips. He was deeply committed to working with his "guys," always approaching each day with compassion, patience, and a dedication to making a positive impact in their lives.
Mike was well known for his genuine love for people and his ability to form meaningful connections. This included the lasting bonds he shared with his fraternity brothers after being initiated into the Upsilon Nu Chapter of Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Inc. in 1990. He was quick with a story or joke—often with an unexpected twist—and could always bring laughter to those around him. Mike's love for sports was undeniable. On weekends, he could be found cheering on his grandkids, offering game-time advice, or passionately supporting the Dallas Cowboys, win or lose.
Mike's memory will live on in the hearts of all those he touched. May he rest in peace, forever cherished and never forgotten.
Remains rest at Scott's Funeral Home, 115 E. Brookland Park Blvd. where a viewing will be held Thursday, November 14 from 10 a.m. until 5:30 p.m., followed by the Omega Psi Phi Inc. Omega service in Scott's Chapel at 6 p.m. and the family welcoming friends until 7 p.m. Funeral services will be held at Scott's Chapel, Friday, November 15, at 1 p.m. Interment Roselawn Memory Gardens.
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We're so sorry to hear of the unexpected loss of Uncle Michael. Please accept our heartfelt condolences. Love always Deborah,Sonia,Tammy and Alisha Bigby
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Ingra and Patricia Ward Family. Love you always...
my grandpa was the best I wish to see him again but until then he will forever be missed long live michael
Our sincere sympathies on the loss of your dad. May God comfort your hearts. Rev. 21:4.
God bless the Bigby family. You have my deepest sympathy. I am so sorry for your loss. Michael is now with the Lord. May he RIP 🙏✝️😇 Viesta Washington
Our prayers and condolences go out to the family of Michael. Our families grew up together in Anderson South Carolina. Michael was quiet as he grew up into adulthood. He was always courteous and kind. He will be missed by his family and friends. May God continue to bless and keep you during this time of mourning. Douglas & Joy Chapman
I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of your baske
Subject: My Deepest Sympathies
Dear [Coach's Bigby] Family,
I was deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Coach [Coach Bigby]. I wanted to extend my heartfelt condolences to you and your family during this incredibly difficult time.
Coach [Bigby] was not only an incredible coach, but also a mentor and a source of inspiration to all of us. Their dedication, leadership, and the lessons they imparted both on and off the court will never be forgotten. I feel truly privileged to have been a part of their team, and their influence will stay with me for the rest of my life.
Please know that my thoughts are with you, and I'm here for anything you may need. Coach [Bigby]'s legacy will continue to live on in the lessons they taught us and the community they helped build.
Wishing you strength and comfort in the days ahead.
With deepest sympathy, [Wayne Cosby] CHARGERS
Our condolences to the family and friends
To the Bigby family, I offer my sincere condolences. Michael's smile and laughter will be greatly missed.I pray for comfort as you mourn the loss of your loved one.
Antoinette Edwards
Comfort and prayers to Monique and Malcolm for the loss of their dad 💔
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