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Delise Gainey

Passed 09/19/2023

Obituary For Delise Gainey

Delise Yvette Gainey was born December 2nd, 1970 in Queens, NY to Donald Hogan and Debra Coleman-Moss. She grew up in Philadelphia, PA where she graduated from West Catholic High School for Girls, before going on to earn multiple degrees in Business Administration.

Over 20+ years, Delise led a successful career in human resources directing various teams and departments in efforts to recruit, onboard, and train professional talent. In reflection of her outstanding performance, Delise achieved supervisory and coveted branch chief opportunities within the United States Government serving as a leader and mentor to others nationwide.

She was a wonderful wife, mother, daughter, granddaughter, sister, cousin, niece, friend, and colleague. A lover of fashion, music, and dancing, Delise would rarely be seen without looking impeccable from head to toe, jokingly emphasizing the importance of her hair and nails. Loved ones remember her as beautiful inside and out, a woman who effortlessly commanded respect and admiration from anyone she graced with her presence.

She leaves to cherish her memory and legacy her husband Marvin Gainey, children Devon and Dina, mother Debra Coleman-Moss (Poppa Joe), father Donald Hogan, grandmother Nannette Coleman, uncles Barry and Gregory Coleman, brother Adam Davis-Hogan, sister Alaina Davis-Hogan, sister Simone Davis-Hogan, her beloved dog Diesel, and a host of other relatives, friends, colleagues, and extended family

The memorial service will be held at 10:00 a.m. Sunday, October 1, 2023, at Trice Funeral Home Chapel, 127 N. West Street in Fuquay - Varina, NC 27526.


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Bryan London sent Stately Croton for Delise Gainey - September 29, 2023

In loving memory of our dear Delise. Sending our deepest and sincerest sympathy to Devon, Dina, and her husband. You will be greatly missed by all who knew you, especially the London Family.

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In loving memory of Delise. May God be pleased with her. Sending prayers, peace and condolences to the entire family during this difficult time.

With Love, Khalil Manigaulte & Family

Leslie Fields sent Golden Days Basket for Delise Gainey - September 28, 2023

Gone too soon which reminds us that every day is a precious gift. Our prayers & condolences to the family! Love Aunt Les & Jarrell

Wendy Skeete sent Forever in Our Hearts Casket Adornment for Delise Gainey - September 28, 2023

Love always Stephen Wendy Julian Stacey

Maribel Buchanan sent Blossoms in Vogue for Delise Gainey - September 28, 2023

With deepest sympathy from the Medical Recruiting Brigade S4 Family.

Enduring Spirit Pothos Basket was sent for Delise Gainey - September 27, 2023

Clarence Smith sent Pink Tribute Spray for Delise Gainey - September 27, 2023

Delise, you will be missed.

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Irene Sheppard sent The Schefflera Arboricola for Delise Gainey - September 27, 2023

Sending healing prayers and comforting hugs.

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SARA REEL sent Lily and Rose Tribute Spray for Delise Gainey - September 26, 2023

To Marvin, Dina, Devon, Your mom was a great friend and Colleague, nothing can replace her in this world. Our love is with you all during this time. Ontiveros Family

Helene Brock sent Golden Days Basket for Delise Gainey - September 26, 2023

Our hearts go out to Delise's family as they cope with her loss. She was such a wonderful co-worker and we will miss her dearly.

Arana PettyJohn, Erika Crawford and Helene Brock

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Leroy Mahoney sent Pink Tribute Spray for Delise Gainey - September 25, 2023

There are no words that can express how deeply sorry we are for you Loss Reverend Leroy and First Lady Mahoney

Wayne Coleman planted 5 trees in memory of Delise Gainey . - October 01, 2023

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When I heard the news of Delise's passing, I was in shock. I had just talked to her a few days prior. Delise touched so many lives, including mine. I will forever remember her. She was a vibrant woman with so much life to give, and like a work mom or sister. We all miss you boss. I send sympathy to your family and everyone who knew you. Thank you for being part of my life.

My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. ~ Psalm 73.26

Peggy Vickey

I will always remember Delise twinkle eyes and beautiful smile. Gracie I'm at a loss for words right now. So sorry 😞 for your loss. God will keep you and the family in his prayers. Fortune and Hubbard family

Delise will be missed. I wish you peace and comfort as you grieve.

Delise was my first friend. We met in 1980. We shared every childhood memory, teenage drama, parenting tips, and everything in between for the last 44 years. She was my biggest cheerleader and someone who could make me laugh even when I was sad. To say I will miss her is an understatement. Much love to the entire family, especially her children-her pride and joy. Love, Dina

With deepest sorrow I send this message.Β Β  My condolences and prayers to Delise's entire family at this time of sorrow.Β  Devon, I thank you for sharing your mom with me.Β  You and my son have been friends since 1998 back in elemetry school.Β  Then your momma and I hit it off and our friendship will never end. I love your mom, and will miss her so very much.Β  Please know that you and Dina are her pride and her Joy.Β Β  Your mom found happiness throughout her life, with a spirit matched by no one. Please know our family is sending our love and condolences. Wish we could be by your side. We will always be your New Jersey family Dev. Nancy and Ray Svitak and family

I was stationed at the MEPS in Philadelphia December 1993 through December 1996. It was there that I met Delise! We were both Mothers to young boys and we would talk frequently about our joys and trials! She was a dedicated worker and a very great person to work with! Even though we lost touch when I left Philly off to my next duty station, I never forgot my friends in Philly! They were my family and Delise was a huge part of that family! My condolences and prayers to her family!

To the Gainey family: My deepest condolences to you all. Delise was a wonderful supervisor and friend. She always made sure to check up on us, not about work but about our well being. I will miss her dearly and our daily conversation.

Condolences to your family Devon and Dina! May God comfort you all during this difficult time. You all are in my thoughts and prayers πŸ™πŸ½!

Cousin I am so sorry for your loss. You have our deepest sympathy! Delise will truly be missed. She was a person that was very likable and a joy to be around! Our thoughts and prayers are with you doing this difficult time! Aunt Mac, Kim & Ray Bazemore

Devon,

My heart goes out to you and your family during this time. Your Mother was a beacon of light to be around with such a gracious spirit. I loved to just listen to the multiple stories you shared with me about your childhood experiences that you hold near and dear to heart. Hold on to those memories forever and look back on those as often as needed. What a beautiful soul she was. It was an honor to have met and known her! May she rest in peace!

With Love,

From: Your Brother for life, Xavier Nicholson & The Nicholson Family

Deb I'm totally lost for words right now. I'm so sorry for your loss and I pray that God will give you comfort during this difficult time. You know Darrell and I are here for you any day or time. We Love you Darrell and Leilani Moss

We are so sorry for your loss. We're praying for comfort and strength for the family during this difficult time. Sending love, Cynthia and Arnold Gibson

Deb...I'm so lost for words. I pray that God will comfort and strengthen you a d your Family during this time. Love Doris DeVose

Devon, this is Jeremy's mama Ms Donna, I'm so sorry for your family's loss, such a beautiful woman..My thoughts and Prayers go out for you and your family β€οΈπŸ™ God Bless you all πŸ™

Delise was a pure joy to work with, she'll be missed very much. Condolences to her family, thank you God for your promise of eternal life. Jim Park

I met Delise thru our mutual hairstylist our appointments were on Thursdays. Delise, our hairstylist and I went out to lunch earlier in the year and had planned on another luncheon when we met again on our Thursday appointments which would have been last Thursday. Delise was a kind, and sweet young lady and I always enjoyed her company. I will definitely miss seeing her on Thursdays. My deepest condolences to her family. Brenda Bailey

Delise, I miss you so much. I remember when I moved to NC you treated me and my family just like family and I really appreciated and cherished you for that. We worked together at NRCS/FPAC and our friendship just grew and you shared a lot of knowledge both professionally and personally. When I moved back home you were still there and we became more like sisters, then you became my supervisor at RD and you had my back and I most definitely had yours. God, I miss you so much I just cannot believe this, I was just talking and joking with you. I am going to miss my very good friend/sister and that smile. Marvin, Dina and Devon thank you, thank you for sharing Delise with me and I am praying for peace and comfort for you and your entire family. Miss and love you Delise you will always be in my heart. DeAnna - former Fuquay Varina, NC but now Milwaukee, WI

My deepest sympathy to the Gainey and Hogan Family. Delise was a Good Friend of my daughter Dionne and a lovely girl I have pictures of them from prom and graduation from west catholic girls high school in Philadelphia. May she rest in peace a life gone too soon πŸ™πŸΏπŸ™πŸΏπŸ™πŸΏπŸ™πŸΏπŸ™πŸΏπŸ™πŸΏ Deborah Harper-Harris

Sending my deepest heartfelt condolences to your family. I am truly going to miss you Delise. I love you and you will forever be in my heart ❀️😒 I know to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. Sending prayers of comfort up πŸ™πŸ½

To the family of Delise Gainey. It is so hard to believe that she is gone. From the time we met, Delise and her big heart pulled me in and made me feel as though I were a part of her family. A typical HR day, after she completed a work assignment, consisted of Delise saying, "I got this" or "I got you boss"....and she always did.

While gone, she will remain in our hearts and never be forgotten. To God be the glory.

Carl Johns

I can't grasp that u won't be here to share our stories whether it's me or u talking bout our crazy experiences. We have been friends/sisters for over 30 years. U were my other half. God I'm going to miss u!! I love u n I'm soo glad we became friends. My heart goes out to ur family n I'm praying for strength for them. Until we meet again... rest peacefully. Nichole n family...

Nichole Massiah

My deepest condolences goes out to the Gainey Family. I enjoy working with Delise she was a wonderful supervisor and I will miss the working relationship and her smile. Delise Rest in Peace you will be miss. From the Brevard Family

Delise was a joy to work with. I was so blessed to have known her and have her in my life.. She will be missed tremendously. Michelle Moore

Nephew, I am so sorry for your loss! Delise was a special person, a good soul! We are praying God gives you and the family peace & comfort in your sorrow! Love, Your Uncle Ronald & Aunt Brenda

Delise will be deeply and greatly missed by her HR family. May your warm and happy memories help you through these difficult times. With heartfelt sympathy and condolences, Christine

Delise, I miss you so much my friend. I would of never thought in a life time that you would be gone so soon. We talked numerous times daily about work, family and life. I was happy to be your supervisor and more importantly, I was even happier we were friends. Not a day will go by that I won't think about you, Till we meet again my friend

My thoughts and prayers are with Mr. Gainey and his family during this difficult time. Tonya Brown

I will always remember Delise smile. She can brighten any room with her presence. Love always Deborah Mack

So sorry to hear the sad news. I will always remember Delise with her beautiful smile and the confidence she showed.

To the Gainey and Hogan family, Losing a loved one is an unimaginable pain. Please remember that you're not alone in your grief. Lean on the love and support of friends and family as you navigate through this difficult journey.

With deepest sympathy Denise and Tahj

This is unbelievable, I still can't come to grasp over this, Delise & I go way back, when we worked together in Philadelphia at the M.E.P. S. ( Military Entrance Processing Station. We became good friends and remained good friends we still talked often we've had some go times together! She will surely be missed. Our Condolences to her Husband, Deanna & Devon & family. From Joanne & Al Edwards... Florida

To the Gainey family : My heart was hurt when I got the sad news . Delise and I develop a good long lasting friendship working at NIEHS and we always kept in touch throughout the years as I relocated to DC. Delise and husband , and her family will always be remembered . Fran

Delise's NIH work family offers our deepest sympathy to your family. Delise was a joy to work with and we were so blessed to have known her. We love Delise and will miss her tremendously!

NIH Colleagues

Marvin Gainey and Family,

Sending our sincere condolences to you and your family and may God continue to be with you all.

Linda Jones & Family

When I heard, I could only say No that can't be true, but it was and my heart is heavy. Friends for many years, I will keep you in memory. For the family that will miss you most I'll keep in prayer. Rest in peace my friend.πŸ™πŸΌ

Delise and I developed a lasting friendship working together in Philadelphia, PA. She called me Mother and I called her Daughter. I will miss our conversations and most of all I will truly miss Delise. Rest well Daughter, I will always hold a place in my heart for you. Mother (Carolyn Peoples)

I am deeply sorry to hear about her passing. Sending prayers to her family. She will be missed.

Sincerely,

Ruby

Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

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